How to Get Him Hooked in the First Two Weeks (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

  • Published: 12 November 2017
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    You know those tricky early dates?

    You go for drinks. Maybe a picnic. You pretend you listen to cool music and hope you both enjoy similar taste in movies.

    Then texting.

    Then maybe a kiss. (Why not? He’s cute.)

    Uh-oh, now you actually like him. Crap. Err, I mean, great.

    Now what?

    If you really want to know how to keep him interested well after the first date, so you can finally stop freaking out whenever you realize you like a guy, this is the video for you...

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    Animation by MICHELLE GARCIA
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Comments • 906

  • Mayret Djamirze
    Mayret Djamirze  2 days back

    Just be yourself!!!

    • Night Rider
      Night Rider  1 weeks back

      None of this will work for most women because they will always pick the wrong guys in the first place.

        AMARIS VONNAE  1 weeks back

        so funny how you are a dude, telling women to change what they do to cater to dudes 😂 and you actually are getting away with helping your gender out...while you are still a bachelor yourself

        • Lili Really
          Lili Really  2 weeks back

          I’m so in love of you....

          • i chris
            i chris  2 weeks back

            It helped

            • Arina Abdrakhmanova
              Arina Abdrakhmanova  2 weeks back

              Literally watched a few of his videos, went out and used his tips. Guys were all over me 😱

              • Dorothy Mirembe
                Dorothy Mirembe  2 weeks back

                Love it

                • pinkie09999
                  pinkie09999  4 weeks back

                  I’m so guilty of the last one LOL

                  • Yany Ramos
                    Yany Ramos  1 months back

                    1:50-1:58 :D

                    • Tv Movie
                      Tv Movie  1 months back

                      Yo solo vine a decir

                      CAMREN ES REAL!!!

                      Ajjsja👆👆es cierto es real 😌🏳️‍🌈

                      • Sam Labo
                        Sam Labo  1 months back

                        Feminism ruined it for you
                        MGTOW for the self respecting man

                        • Emily H
                          Emily H  1 months back

                          "I wish somebody would create an app that actually allows you to speak in real time..."

                          "Oh wait. Alexander Graham Bell already did."
                          I'M SCREAMING

                          • allie kat
                            allie kat  1 months back

                            I call him he doesn't answer he's busy. I can't ever get him to call me he goes out with his friends almost every night. Because he goes out with his friends he gets home late & goes to sleep instead of call me. Ugh so annoying.

                            • 1Life
                              1Life  1 months back

                              I love when a girl buys me something. It shows that she's trying to make me happy. I don't need her to buy me things, but the gesture is so attractive. It shows that she has a giving energy, which is key in a potential mother of our children ;)

                              • Marj Militar
                                Marj Militar  1 months back


                                • Margret Hansen
                                  Margret Hansen  1 months back

                                  Realized I’ve already messed up at the first tip

                                  • Heros Journey
                                    Heros Journey  2 months back

                                    Your hair is perfect in this video. Just sayin.

                                    • Emma Wright
                                      Emma Wright  2 months back

                                      So, I’ve been netflixing and chilling with this guy for two weeks. How do I get him to take me on a real date?

                                      • Atlas Hugged
                                        Atlas Hugged  2 months back

                                        Where are you ladies trying to find men? Are you going to new places and changing your routine? Take up a hobby like photography or motorcycling. Learn enough about something to ask questions, then ask men to explain or teach you. They love doing that, makes them feel needed. Make it about spending time with them, don’t just ask them to fix your whatever. Women want to be wanted, and men need to be needed. But there is a fine line between feeling needed and feeling used.

                                        • Barf Salamandruid
                                          Barf Salamandruid  2 months back

                                          Whats your advice for someone who is disabled and jobless as a result, therefire broke and struggling? My man loves me and does so much for me but I can't afford to pay for things when we go out as im struggling to even keep myself alive and fed. I try doing everything on my own and never ask for favors but I still feel bad that hes the one that pays when he wants to go out...I try as often as I can to make him food at home as Im really good at cooking and baking. I want to keep my man. Any advice?

                                          • m. n.
                                            m. n.  2 months back

                                            I feel like he’s allowing people to be themselves ... honestly

                                            • Puja Parekh
                                              Puja Parekh  2 months back

                                              What if he says he prefers texting than calling.. what is the point calling when he has already said he finds talking tedious

                                              • summer sun
                                                summer sun  2 months back

                                                Can it be nachos i hate popcorn

                                                • Live Connection
                                                  Live Connection  2 months back

                                                  Get some exclusive reactions and responses on how men and women really feel about the dating scene! Must Watch Videos on my page!

                                                  • Ashley B
                                                    Ashley B  2 months back

                                                    I always pay for something. I pay on the second date always to show him I like him and that I’m not just depending on him. It really works and they appreciate it

                                                    • Synthia Estrada
                                                      Synthia Estrada  2 months back

                                                      I agree, finally someone is taking notice of all this talk around what men like, want or walk away from. Its a sign to me that some men really need a lot of work with their own mind, body soul connection. Women don't mind working on themselves but gosh what will these guys do to improve themselves is the real question? Got to have some balance here!!!

                                                      • Chenlai Lee
                                                        Chenlai Lee  2 months back

                                                        Oh my he told me I’m intimidating 😅

                                                        • Monika
                                                          Monika  2 months back

                                                          Met a great guy, 2 amazing dates with great chemistry and he never texts first.... what’s all about

                                                          • S Smith
                                                            S Smith  2 months back

                                                            Ummmmmm....this is not the best advice. It’s like you are trying to sabotage ALL women...not cool bro!

                                                            • Seraphina Nouveau
                                                              Seraphina Nouveau  2 months back

                                                              Well we agreed on fwb then he asks me out to the movies and he pays for his ticket and I pay for mine. We've seen each other three times. Hes very emotionally available over text which doesnt bother me I actually prefer that, we hang out and cuddle we take walks together and are both wating to have sex hes not in a rush, hes come over and we cuddle and do other things. I just wonder if this will turm into something more or if he likes me bc if we were true fwb's he wouldve hit by now. Because the way he kisses me and holds me says he likes me and he tells me about his day and personal things about his family.

                                                              • Becca Lauren
                                                                Becca Lauren  2 months back

                                                                So according to this I've done everything wrong. Any way to salvage it if I haven't heard from him in a week?

                                                                • K G
                                                                  K G  3 months back

                                                                  I once offered to pay for a date when I secretly had $30 in my account and he has a salary my anxiety was through the roof lmao 😭😭😭 but if the guy always pays and you’re always hanging out, I don’t think that’s right

                                                                  • Dilara
                                                                    Dilara  3 months back

                                                                    hi ya'll i have a few questions i doubt Matthew will read this so i'm asking the rest of the world to help me out.. there it goes..

                                                                    So i have been single for about 3 years. I don't know why tho. I don't meet people and when i do they just aren't interested .. honestly i am a beautiful young lady and yes i may be a bit chubby but i am fun, smart, KIND, a bit of a diva sometimes but playfully of course and very caring about others. I don't understand why i'm still single? Right now i am talking to this guy who i've met on instamessage and we are talking on snapchat and we even saw each other AND HE STILL HAS NOT ASKED MY NUMBER!! Ofcourse i am a very direct person so i asked him and he basically told me that in the beginning i would not give my number? So i was like; are you for real? we hadn't met yet? now we have seen each other ? AND STILL HE DOES NOT ASK FOR MY NUMBER. So i am pretty sure that he is talking to a lot of other girls and he is just not interested in me.. even tho he did look interested when i saw him that evening. This just makes me really insecure and sad because i do kinda like the guy..

                                                                    My question here is, what should i do? What is wrong with me?

                                                                    • Lara UFW
                                                                      Lara UFW  3 months back

                                                                      And if you want Netflix and chill go for it! No prob with that -

                                                                      • Nicolas Costas
                                                                        Nicolas Costas  3 months back

                                                                        I will pay for your pants...after I tear them appart...

                                                                        • liwianch
                                                                          liwianch  3 months back

                                                                          Mathew, what do you think of those guys who arrive at first/second date and go like “you pick the place”, “you choose what we should do”?
                                                                          For me is like showing a lack of interest. For some guys is like I don’t want to “impose” anything.

                                                                          • Clare C
                                                                            Clare C  3 months back

                                                                            So true about picking up the phone. Everyone is lazy and passive about things nowadays but it's much better to communicate f2f or by phone as you hear the tone of voice which is so important. Takes guts in a dating context but makes you stand out.

                                                                            • Xx xX
                                                                              Xx xX  3 months back

                                                                              Getting used for a $4 popcorn? Wow, try being fucked and dumped. Males really are as fragile as we think.

                                                                              • Loisitah sistah
                                                                                Loisitah sistah  3 months back

                                                                                Uhhhh I don’t do phone calls 😂 I hate talking on the phone 🤦🏻‍♀️

                                                                                • Jorgekg
                                                                                  Jorgekg  3 months back

                                                                                  Rofl women never initiate texting or call :P Fucking boring

                                                                                  • Mind Over Matter
                                                                                    Mind Over Matter  3 months back

                                                                                    Very good video. I feel the same way about men who don't give a gesture of appreciation. Most of the men I meet tend to take and not give anything back in return and feel a sense of entitlement. If I prepare the meal, they never think of buying the drinks or anything

                                                                                    • Meike Rieger
                                                                                      Meike Rieger  3 months back


                                                                                      • Denise Gatewood
                                                                                        Denise Gatewood  3 months back

                                                                                        Buy the popcorn.... Got it

                                                                                        • mariela zapata
                                                                                          mariela zapata  3 months back

                                                                                          2:56 lmaoooooooooooo

                                                                                          • D G
                                                                                            D G  4 months back

                                                                                            Why should women follow such rules while men are relaxed and putting 0 effort. I believe that there are no men that act stupid only real ones are called men. Gender is identified as Male doesn't mean he's a man!
                                                                                            Youre doing great my friend but you can't fix entirely "Broken Globe"

                                                                                            • abilyn 1105
                                                                                              abilyn 1105  4 months back

                                                                                              this guy is saving my marriage..i love him

                                                                                              • warrior x gaming
                                                                                                warrior x gaming  4 months back

                                                                                                I'm 16 year old male. I watch you because I saw you on a youtube ad and you actually knew what you are talking about. I'm straight, but I can actually learn from some of the things you said.

                                                                                                • Jetty
                                                                                                  Jetty  4 months back

                                                                                                  I like this dating coach dude much better than the other dating coach dudes because he’s not flippant and actually provides solutions.