3 Things You Can Say To Make Him Want You | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs


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  • Marilyn Marquez
    Marilyn Marquez  3 days back

    My man loves me to call him, "papi".....that is a Spanish term for "daddy." I guess it makes him feel more like the stud that he is!

    • Kamiko Baez
      Kamiko Baez  6 days back

      “ Hey hard worker 😘 “made him go crazy lol

      • Kamiko Baez
        Kamiko Baez  6 days back

        “ You make me feel like a teenage girl with butterflies “ ... I rarely feel like this honestly I’ve been single since I’ve had my daughter and she’ll be 4 this year. But recently a blast from the past has reached out to me and we kind of been texting.. Im now picking up a lot of what you’re saying vice versa for the women in the comments saying where’s the men’s one. I think these work both ways.

        • Nira Tauterouff
          Nira Tauterouff  6 days back

          I call him my Hero

          • Joanne Thomson
            Joanne Thomson  2 weeks back

            What about saying "when I'm with you you make me feel nervous" ?

            • Lo ve
              Lo ve  5 days back

              Joanne Thomson nok nok nok who is that? I’m divorce 😩😂

          • amanda harmse
            amanda harmse  4 weeks back

            I looked in eyes and asked in á soft voice "Please help me do this, I can't seem to get it right."' He smiled and said: Of course...you don't even have to ask!!!

            • Spooky Spectre
              Spooky Spectre  1 months back

              You gotta be careful with pet names. Some guys get cringy and take it as you getting the wrong idea about the status of your relationship. Only try pet names if it's been established you are a couple or if hes done it first already

              • Rita G. Bowman
                Rita G. Bowman  1 months back

                "YOU MAKE ME FEEL like I'm on the greatest adventure of my life."
                John Boy (from Walton's Mountain) is my pet name for him (John).
                No No No ... Don't take the voice up an octave. Take it down - much sexier. Take it from me, a speech-language pathologist. ;-)

                • Ji Li
                  Ji Li  1 months back

                  Words are always powerful, in any situations. I wish that I knew it long time ago

                  • CherryTree
                    CherryTree  2 months back

                    "That color or shirt looks great on you!" Or
                    I've said a compliment on something specific I like or admire. Like " I really love how you ........(fill in the blanks) that's very admirable of you to be able to that."
                    Or my favorite. "I trust you to take care of this. I feel safe with you."

                    • mureka valentine
                      mureka valentine  2 months back

                      I love your advises sir,but am having very big probem I think u can help. What to do if your boyfriend can't text you first or even if he does always wrote u hi!!? Only...nothing special

                      • Josephine Nangonzi
                        Josephine Nangonzi  2 months back

                        Thanks Mathew

                        • Oj oj
                          Oj oj  2 months back

                          when you're looking for advices on getting a man and you realize you used all of them before you even knew they are such turn ons 😂😂

                          • Alam Loubna
                            Alam Loubna  3 months back

                            In fact he did all this with me I didn’t notice it till now do y think he has a crush on me ?

                            • Insane Pinai
                              Insane Pinai  3 months back

                              Hey Mathew! Could you please make a video about dating a man with Aspergers syndrome, and how to communicate with them? 🙏

                              • Easy Learning
                                Easy Learning  3 months back

                                If you look like a nerd and have a simple job, you can say what you want, he wont commit to you!

                                • Shannon Mayer
                                  Shannon Mayer  3 months back

                                  What if he is not making you feel good? I want to make him feel good, but I don't want to lie..

                                  • beinggreen24
                                    beinggreen24  3 months back

                                    I get the best sleep when I'm next to you .. I feel so safe.

                                    • A Taylor
                                      A Taylor  3 months back

                                      Hey sweetness you just made my day!

                                      • Datt 14
                                        Datt 14  3 months back

                                        This lesson is so powerful

                                        • Lashiwe Lungu
                                          Lashiwe Lungu  3 months back

                                          Is it wrong to mostly be the one to text first??

                                          • Berta Lets Cook Easy & Yummy

                                            This video is a bomb
                                            Love it .

                                            • bartek Bgraczyk
                                              bartek Bgraczyk  4 months back

                                              Useless self made experts ,total Idiots. Laughable

                                              • Sharon Price
                                                Sharon Price  4 months back

                                                How do you communicate with a guy that emotionally guarded?

                                                • Tina Leeth
                                                  Tina Leeth  1 months back

                                                  Try a widower that hasnt grieved .. it sucks

                                              • Claudia Sanchez
                                                Claudia Sanchez  4 months back

                                                I use loving body language when I touch a man, whether it is a give or take or push or pull, my movements are careful and caring.

                                                • Seraphine Folebe
                                                  Seraphine Folebe  4 months back

                                                  I love your videos but what if he asked you to send naked pics of your body, what can I do since he is far away from me and how can I trust him ?

                                                  • L2design
                                                    L2design  4 months back

                                                    TOTALLY BOGGS!! I'll try it!! i found my soulmate oMGGGGG we have not met yet!!

                                                    • Kimberly Hicks
                                                      Kimberly Hicks  4 months back

                                                      My man loves it when I call him Babe,Baby Honey Sweetheart my Romeo and my Macho Man

                                                      • RR's FoodZone
                                                        RR's FoodZone  4 months back

                                                        I proposed to my bf saying.. " I love you (his full name and surname) and he absolutely loved it ...

                                                        • M
                                                          M  5 months back

                                                          Gotta try it to my baby then😜

                                                          • Alison Couacaud
                                                            Alison Couacaud  5 months back

                                                            That is so true

                                                            • Karla Winter
                                                              Karla Winter  5 months back

                                                              Can I use these same steps with men who may or may not have Children?

                                                              • Stephanie Marr
                                                                Stephanie Marr  5 months back

                                                                I tell my guy how much I appreciate him, but with the statements, I've said 'I'm so picky, I've never been in a serious relationship, and not many guys can make me laugh as much as you for the qualification statements. For empowerment statements I've messaged him I'm happy and excited that HE is messaging me and they he makes me day. For endearment names, I've called him handsome, cutie, and chico. Thanks for your info!

                                                                • Natalia
                                                                  Natalia  5 months back

                                                                  Lol you shouldnt have to tell.him anything .....

                                                                  • Najoua Ghandouri
                                                                    Najoua Ghandouri  5 months back

                                                                    Based on what you re saying men are so stupid!

                                                                    • Dodie Saunders
                                                                      Dodie Saunders  5 months back

                                                                      My man plays music and he is very animated. He jumps around alot. I started calling him my jumping bean. Later I shortened it to bean. I didnt realize the impact until i hadnt used it for a while and out of nowhere i said so how is my bean today. His reply floored me. He said...awwwe you havent called me that in a while, I really like my special name...so you are absolutely right. I never thought a name like bean would be liked so well. I dont day it every time we talk, cause I dont want it to wear out, but I also call him handsome quite a bit...

                                                                      • mrspleats
                                                                        mrspleats  5 months back

                                                                        You are so amazing down to earth and so easy to listen to.You make your videos so interesting love them! and they are a great confirmation for things I practise daily. I have also learned from you. I had to subscribe the first time I watched one of your videos and thumbs up all your videos. You rock. Happy life to you and yours!

                                                                        • anurada69
                                                                          anurada69  5 months back

                                                                          You right,I made everything too easy for him,now Im paying the consequences..!!

                                                                          • Maryumi Vlogs
                                                                            Maryumi Vlogs  6 months back

                                                                            hi,I am a pilipina I like to watching your video's,
                                                                            I'm dating a men now but the problem is we're so far each other but we like each other so much,I like him so much but I don't know how to keep better our relationship.please advice me how to grow better our relationship..
                                                                            I am Philippines and he's from Scotland.hope you can advice me

                                                                            • Изабел Момчилова
                                                                              Изабел Момчилова  5 months back

                                                                              I am so sorry darling that the man you like/love is so far from you. I had a relationship from distance and this is what I learned. The relationship can be strong but not forever. There has to be hope and a plan that you guys will be together (living together or in the same city) soon enough. Otherwise it won't last because it won't be perspective.

                                                                          • NTHUSANG BOEMELWANG
                                                                            NTHUSANG BOEMELWANG  6 months back

                                                                            Wooow, um gona keep saying it to him.. ' u make me feel hottie '...

                                                                            • Teta de Vieja
                                                                              Teta de Vieja  6 months back

                                                                              Do you know what makes him crazy? When I say something dirty in Spanish! He is bilingual. Mamame la Chocha! or Mamame mi Toto💁🏽What u saying is boring! doesn’t work.. I bet u ..U dick got hard reading this ...

                                                                              • Brandy Boone
                                                                                Brandy Boone  6 months back

                                                                                This so great 💓💓💓💓

                                                                                • LIL Laura
                                                                                  LIL Laura  6 months back

                                                                                  I have noticed with my boyfriend smiling more when I'm with him or sending a picture telling him I want him with my eyes and smile really makes him feel amazing. Also like you said calling him handsome he loves that. I try to show him how happy he makes me with body language and the way I look at him. I don't use that with anyone else so he know just how bad I want him.i also like to whisper in his ear " I want you so bad handsome!" While we are out and "Take me somewhere else baby!" Haha he loves that. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this they are very helpful.

                                                                                  • Sharon Mikalauski
                                                                                    Sharon Mikalauski  6 months back

                                                                                    Hey Mathew..what are your suggestions for long distance relationships and who should be the first to visit whom?

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                                                                                      • Joyخت Atam
                                                                                        Joyخت Atam  6 months back

                                                                                        Woow cool😃😃😃😉😊thank you

                                                                                        • ميديا الساهر
                                                                                          ميديا الساهر  7 months back

                                                                                          Hey. U r goerguese Nathew. 🙈🙈

                                                                                          • Mariannie Zayas
                                                                                            Mariannie Zayas  7 months back

                                                                                            When my man is having a bad day at work and I tell him "that sucks. I'm sorry you're going through that." I don't try to solve the problem for him or give him advice but just listen and try to empathize w his frustration.