10 Signs You Can Trust Your Man | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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  • Harley Quinn
    Harley Quinn  4 days back

    1. You feel protected by your partner.
    2. You know your partner is faithful to you.
    3. You know you partner will always be a very close friend.
    4. Your partner shares the chores.
    5. Your partner works hard to increase the financial security.
    6. Your partner makes you feel sexually desirable.
    7. You have influence in the relationship.
    8. In arguments, you can trust that your partner will listen to you.
    9. Your partner's words and actions align and reflects the values you agree on.
    10. Your partner takes your feelings into account when making decisions.

    • T Palmer
      T Palmer  4 days back

      I WILL tell someone something VERY unimportant just to see if they'll tell someone else the info I just told ONLY one person. It's a test I KNOW where it came from because only ONE person knew it.

      • Lois Lane
        Lois Lane  7 days back

        1, I feel protected in a multifaceted way
        2, I know my partner is faithful to me (It is felt)
        3, I know my partner will always be my close friend
        4, my partner shares chores
        5, my partner works hard to increase financial security
        6, my partner makes me feel sexually desired
        7, I have equal influence in the relationship
        8, I trust my partner to listen to me in an argument
        9, my partner’s words & actions align -congruence
        10, my partner is considerate of my feelings

        • Francesca Piana
          Francesca Piana  2 weeks back

          Thank you, this one has been enlightening, especially to know that you have a marriage mentor/ counsellor, you go to talk to. Great insight, thanks Matt!

          • Lina Korikalo
            Lina Korikalo  3 weeks back

            Someone saw my boyfriend came out from one of mine n his friend at 4am....I asked him but he told me that ,saw him comes out from the house that doesn't mean that something happens?should I trust him?

            • Dannyelle Finch
              Dannyelle Finch  3 weeks back

              Self check...i love that. Its not just him its me too

              • nina page
                nina page  3 weeks back

                Not what this video is about but she could've said something about not wanting the party BEFORE Saturday then having an attitude the day of. Yes, you should've asked first. That communication part is very important on BOTH sides. But her actions are the actions that I hear most relationship coaches tell us not to do. Anywho, just saying 😊

                • Angela Wilson
                  Angela Wilson  4 weeks back

                  Approaching 6 months in my first & long distance relationship & I can easily check off all these boxes (except the things that haven’t come up yet like an argument), I’m so excited about this relationship 😊❤️❤️

                  • daniela Hayes
                    daniela Hayes  4 weeks back

                    Hey Matt I love you’re channel, I find everything you share very helpful, I’m in what I think it’s my very first healthy relationship, so I take what you say really serious. I’m wondering if you have comments on age difference in a relationship, I’m crazy about this guy , I think he likes me to ,I’m 31 and he’s 50 .... hope a lot of people ask you about age difference so you can talk about it . Thank you so much 😊🙏🏼

                    • Rachel Lee
                      Rachel Lee  1 months back

                      God I don't understand how people can be in a relationship with more than one person.

                      • Trupti Sunil Kamble
                        Trupti Sunil Kamble  1 months back

                        ❤️ Your Videos = A Golden Ray of 'Hope' in Relationship. Thank You so much Matt.

                        • Kristina Peters
                          Kristina Peters  1 months back

                          I love your videos Matt 🙂 I have learned alot of information. Can you maybe make a video about dating a man (or someone) with kids? I'm having this problem atm.

                          • Ji Li
                            Ji Li  1 months back

                            Have a love that's greater than the argument

                            • Faith Alia
                              Faith Alia  2 months back

                              When his action is louder than his words

                              • Екатерина Иванова

                                Trust & Comunication 💖

                                • Danica Djukic
                                  Danica Djukic  2 months back

                                  Equally , progress

                                  • Marion
                                    Marion  2 months back

                                    So much wisdom in those 15 minutes! Thank you 🙏🏻

                                    • Laura Pazzaglia
                                      Laura Pazzaglia  2 months back

                                      More of these kinds of videos, please! I'm no longer dating because (after a failed 20-year marriage and relationship) I finally found the man that checks all of the boxes even some I didn't even know existed. So... would you consider doing videos on relationship advice once in a while?!? Thanks for being so enthusiastic in sharing your passion, advice, and valuable research!! Ciao from Italy, L

                                      • Wendi Watson
                                        Wendi Watson  2 months back

                                        So - & so is beyond selfless at any opportunity that is there. 🙄

                                        • Jax 67
                                          Jax 67  2 months back

                                          This makes me realize just how wrong my last marriage was.

                                          • Corina Bizzell
                                            Corina Bizzell  2 months back

                                            Thank you Matthew. Personally, I value your advice. Applying these principles or to looking for these signs are a great guideline for us to consider

                                            • Stephanie White
                                              Stephanie White  2 months back

                                              ❤❤❤

                                              • Ciara Boyle
                                                Ciara Boyle  3 months back

                                                " Looking Fly " !!!

                                                • Celoteh Vi
                                                  Celoteh Vi  3 months back

                                                  I love the way you explaining. 😊

                                                  • K Giovanni
                                                    K Giovanni  3 months back

                                                    Do you and your partner look each other in the eye to make a real connection on a regular basis? When you don't, there is usually very little trust. Loved this video y the way.

                                                    • The Beautiful Shut-in
                                                      The Beautiful Shut-in  3 months back

                                                      I notice the man I’ve been seeing chooses to be honest when it might be easier to lie. That suggests to me that he has integrity. I’m noticing how much more safe and gratifying the relationship feels when I feel I can trust a man.

                                                      • Maria Marker
                                                        Maria Marker  3 months back

                                                        Love love love it. Thank you so much🙏

                                                        • Juman Qasafo
                                                          Juman Qasafo  3 months back

                                                          I need to talk to you , and your advice 🤯😢😞

                                                          • Bakerygo
                                                            Bakerygo  3 months back

                                                            My man does a better job as a partner than me. I feel so bad. I've told him once I just don't know and can't give him so much as he does (I'm not an ungrateful bitch but I feel that he gives 12/10 and I give 8/10). He replied but I don't have to do the same as he does and he is happy with me. But still I feel guilty after seeing this video.

                                                            • Sandra Van Den Driesen
                                                              Sandra Van Den Driesen  3 months back

                                                              Very insightful, Matt, really enjoyed the video. I want to be that type of woman that a man trusts no matter how old he is. A man that is faithful to Jesus and take my feelings into account as well.

                                                              • kittrini71
                                                                kittrini71  3 months back

                                                                I just recently emotionally reacted to something my guy did that didn’t fit right with me and he attacked me out of no where for even asking him about it. We got heated and for two weeks now he has blocked me out of his life. I’m thinking I should probably move on. Our relationship was highly one sided, I have the finances, I make the first move all the time. I’m left alone quite a bit so he can hang out with his single buddies. When one calls on the phone my guy tells them he’s not doing anything, they don’t even know I’m his girl. He will run to them and just leave me. I have felt like a secret booty.call for some time.
                                                                I’m not a jealous person but I am somewhat territorial, when we schedule a night I want him there with me.
                                                                I’m 54 and not getting any younger here. My instinct is to move on now and I am hurting so bad inside I can feel my heart cracking. I’m love sick, can’t eat, sleep, or stop crying, and I want to throw up most days.
                                                                I guess an outside second opinion is what I’m after here.
                                                                Thank you so much and I love the information you share. I’m soaking it up.

                                                                • Tina Ramos
                                                                  Tina Ramos  3 months back

                                                                  I really feel for you and, although I'm not Mat Boggs, you mentioned that you'd welcome an outside opinion. I'm not clear on the whole situation, but if the two of you have made plans and agreed to spend the evening together, he ought to honour that. If a work obligation or emergency comes up, that's one thing. Leaving you to meet with his friends without asking whether you're okay with it is breaking an agreement and it's disrespectful towards you. You deserve better. Also, if he has never introduced you to his friends, it's generally not a good sign. I think Mat mentioned that in a video. As Mat says, When one person leaves your life, it opens the door for another to come in. You can learn from this experience and be on the lookout for red flags the next time around.

                                                              • ScotsLeo Queen
                                                                ScotsLeo Queen  3 months back

                                                                Lemme add #5 is super in instilling value to the "CFOs" in relationships lol If you truly respect the earning partner there's no other way to show it than to safe guard what they work so hard for BOTH of you 💖

                                                                • ardythe14
                                                                  ardythe14  3 months back

                                                                  Oh that explains it. He wanted to have a party when I did not, not on the day I was leaving for my studies. He still pushed through with it. He later on told me that I wanted him to be alone instead of with his friends while I was leaving. I really did not think that way. But now, it all makes sense. He wanted to be with his friends, instead of me, all these time. I am glad I got out of that relationship.

                                                                  • ScotsLeo Queen
                                                                    ScotsLeo Queen  3 months back

                                                                    You're advice is always encouraging, so helpful (even to us married ppl), I'm thankful my hubby checks all 10 from list & altho last 2 yrs were lil bumpy I believe our trust in each other is what got us back to great relationship 😀 He's even watched some of your vids w/me!! Thank you sooo much! esp for how-to communicate TO a man vids which are priceless 💖

                                                                    • The Happy Hopi
                                                                      The Happy Hopi  3 months back

                                                                      Great video, Matt and this is wonderful for all persons in any relationship! Love your style and energy - you're so down to earth and comforting. :D

                                                                      • Liz
                                                                        Liz  3 months back

                                                                        Thanks for sharing Dr. Gottman’s book info!

                                                                        • Heidi Hotzhausen
                                                                          Heidi Hotzhausen  3 months back

                                                                          Out of curiosity... can you make a video about age difference....

                                                                          • Heidi Hotzhausen
                                                                            Heidi Hotzhausen  3 months back

                                                                            What if you are trying to break up with a person because the trust is gone, but he is trying to prove that you can trust him again when he has admitted that he was wrong... should you give him a chance to prove you can trust him again? Or should you just let it go?

                                                                            • TSP Family
                                                                              TSP Family  3 months back

                                                                              Love you Matthew Boggs!😍

                                                                              • happy2
                                                                                happy2  3 months back

                                                                                How do you get rid of the images or memories of a woman sitting on your husband's lap. Her taking her new nightgown and draping it in front of her for your husband to see and doing these things in front of you? Then acting like it is my fault. Those thoughts and actions didn't originate from me. Letting him drive her car and only him even though he is your husband. Calling your husband from the emergency room and then she gets upset at me for calling her to see if she is alright, then tells me to my face that she didn't even want her own sister to call her and her sister lives next door to her. Then I am the one who is always in the wrong. I don't get it. What do you do?

                                                                                • TheQueen284
                                                                                  TheQueen284  2 months back

                                                                                  happy2 hi. Sorry to know what you’re going through. Please check out Faster EFT videos by Robert Smith on YouTube. He teaches a tool on addressing and managing emotions and memories.

                                                                              • Ioana Drysi
                                                                                Ioana Drysi  3 months back

                                                                                Matt,

                                                                                I am wondering if there is a certain way to talk about something that i am unhappy about which happen long ago and how to bring it up now because it's still bothering me.

                                                                                Also how to ask if i suspect my partner might be having an affair but I don't know how to approach it because if he's innocent then it might destroy our relationship.
                                                                                I found a woman's make up item in his apartment, he arranged it together with mine. I asked him about it he said thought it was mine and i said it's not, I pushed and say thats not an answer he said maybe it belongs to his ex. and he quickly ran off after telling me that.
                                                                                But his ex was 3 years ago. I feel suspicious, I can't get over it and I feel so stuck.

                                                                                • Sue Girdler
                                                                                  Sue Girdler  2 months back

                                                                                  Horrible for you. Try Marriagebuilders.com They have a ton of advise and a radio show. You can email them a question and they will answer it by email or on the show. Very experienced especially with infidelity. Good luck.

                                                                              • charleen hopkins
                                                                                charleen hopkins  3 months back

                                                                                i had a dream that made me think...
                                                                                i don,t want to be with a guy that wants to hide me.

                                                                                • Geselle Rufin
                                                                                  Geselle Rufin  3 months back

                                                                                  This video really helped me a lot! I believe my boyfriend has all of these signs. He’s the best. I used to struggle with trust and jealousy, but he really does do his best to make sure I never feel that way. Thank you for spreading love and positivity!

                                                                                  • Rebecca Butler
                                                                                    Rebecca Butler  2 weeks back

                                                                                    Your lucky lady too have found someone like this hard to come by bless you

                                                                                • siss Gallo
                                                                                  siss Gallo  3 months back

                                                                                  Trust only starts when you's are open-minded with each other should be able to tell and talk about anything with each other

                                                                                  • Rim
                                                                                    Rim  3 months back

                                                                                    You have to read “men are from Mars, women are from Venus.” This book gives you clarity

                                                                                    • Chiara Simeoni
                                                                                      Chiara Simeoni  3 months back

                                                                                      Hey! Matt I must tell you one important think. Since when I follow your videos in YouTube, have notice everytime when you speak I see the thinks goes in that exact way.
                                                                                      So I can't miss your videos and follow you. I must thank'you, for helping me to my relationship with my Adoreble Man with different view .
                                                                                      Stay bless. Chiara

                                                                                      • Lynn Fernandes
                                                                                        Lynn Fernandes  3 months back

                                                                                        Bald Pig Homosexual robert ilicic pervert BACK OFF MY ARSE.

                                                                                        • Lifetime Learner
                                                                                          Lifetime Learner  3 months back

                                                                                          Maybe this is why I have an awful relationship with my Dad. I can't even trust Him.😅😄😂