3 Beliefs Men Find Irresistible in Women | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs


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  • Tania Richter
    Tania Richter  13 hours back

    My husband is a Stong Alfa male. Just the way l like it. If he tell mes something he follows through on his word. Loyalty and honesty thrives. . . ln our loving Relationship💝

    • chd125
      chd125  1 months back

      It was much needed!

      • S Kate
        S Kate  2 months back

        Men who know they don’t need to play games but just being genuine can win their girls are definitely attractive haha!

        • Rose Rose
          Rose Rose  3 months back

          Yesss am happy that am that kind of woman and am happy because now am sure that am on the right way

        • gmat_princess Princess
          gmat_princess Princess  3 months back

          The best is yet to come. Love it. It's my new mantra.

          • HelenBaby
            HelenBaby  3 months back

            Luckily I'm a Sagittarius. We're the eternal optimists, we always believe the best is yet to come ^_^

            • Jacquelyn Langhein
              Jacquelyn Langhein  3 months back

              Confidence, humor humble.

              • M. Kitteh
                M. Kitteh  3 months back

                I like when a man does what he says he’s going to do. Integrity is hard to find these days.

                • Spiro Graph
                  Spiro Graph  4 months back

                  The most attractive belief (actually fact) for me is when a woman realizes government is fundamentally immoral and shouldn't exist

                  • Taehyung's Harley quinn
                    Taehyung's Harley quinn  4 months back

                    why always guys wants to hear that 2nd "LOVE CAN BE EASY" ? I mean why? there are some girls too who wants to hear this because some girls are different . (the one who don't believe in love is existing or not) . what about them?

                    Some girls are bad . BAD AS HELL. 😈

                    • Milk And Honey
                      Milk And Honey  4 months back

                      When did women become this desperate where they are told to pursue men? Who’s tricking all of you!? This idiot in the video? Is he the beginning and end of wisdom? No, he’s not. He just decided not to get a job and make videos because real effort requires commitment.

                      All this man is doing is trying to get laid. It’s not even special.
                      Truth: if a man wants you he will let you know. Don’t run after scared,nervous or weak men. They aren’t ready and are really playing games.

                      You learn to live with out a man for a while. Focus on you!

                      These videos are so lame! Just another guy disguising “dating advice “ as hoping to get a hand job! Fool Please!

                      • Houda Henniche
                        Houda Henniche  4 months back

                        I think the amazing thing about your videos is that’s it’s always about life not just in relation to others.
                        Thank you

                        • PR ́s Projekt
                          PR ́s Projekt  4 months back

                          It's a bit positive thinking. Before i met my husband i hated men so much! I said to me: the next will the best man in the world with the best character and he will love me as long as he lives. 18 years Marriage- works.
                          I love your video so much. Thanks a lot! ❤

                          • Karen Meyers
                            Karen Meyers  4 months back

                            Honesty (didn't get much in the last relationship) & vulnerability & compassion/empathy

                            • د. سمية محمود
                              د. سمية محمود  4 months back

                              What I find most attractive in men is this sense of inner strength that gives him a challenging attitude with life and makes him never accepts to be broken no matter how hard the test he is go in through he acknowledges his pain yet with good sense of humor he challenges it

                              • Ann Pham
                                Ann Pham  4 months back

                                Your spirit is such a blessing.

                                • noodle poodle
                                  noodle poodle  4 months back

                                  i was selective but the man i chose didnt choose me back. He strung me along for six months then married someone else.

                                  • Dora Hernandez
                                    Dora Hernandez  4 months back

                                    That's right! The best is yet to come! I am worthy of a great love! Love is and can be easy! Thank you for inspiring me!♥️

                                    • aya essam
                                      aya essam  4 months back

                                      Core values

                                      • Roxnoboa1
                                        Roxnoboa1  5 months back

                                        Spot on! Thank you so much! I used two of these phrases today and it worked!

                                        • Mary Vilarreal
                                          Mary Vilarreal  5 months back

                                          Aww I love that 85 -92 she lived her best life🌹

                                          • Robin W
                                            Robin W  5 months back

                                            3 qualities in a man,
                                            Confidence not cockiness
                                            Someone not afraid to show PDA, public display of affection, hold hands, kisses on the neck, holds the car door open, in private cooks dinners with u and helps with cleaning so u can sit down together.
                                            Someone who is willing to take charge and at the same time let you take charge (if the conditions permit).

                                            • Nicole Lamb
                                              Nicole Lamb  5 months back

                                              i am a usless, ugly and dumb woman and no one will ever want me so i am done trying to find a boyfriend.

                                              • CherryTree
                                                CherryTree  5 months back

                                                OMG Matt boggs!!!! I needed this video! You've inspired me!!! I'm putting this to practice with my husband and family!
                                                I find it so sexy and attractive when a man keeps his word and when he can show kindness. When a man says he will help or commit to doing something and he does it, when a woman or child is in distress or is having hard day, he lends a helping hand or encourages with words. That is super sexy!

                                                • Rancho La Abundancia
                                                  Rancho La Abundancia  5 months back

                                                  This video made me Subscribe after moths of watching you Math, I will apply this not onlybto love but life, these three frases will be my from now on my Mantra, Thank you very much. I LOVE YOU ,,, you are so worth it ,,, Greetings from México ❤❤❤

                                                  • Hunter Collins
                                                    Hunter Collins  5 months back

                                                    As always, you add so much to our lives! Thank you! I love a man who loves life, is thoughtful, has deep Zen moments, because he makes every day, even the quiet moments, part of a great adventure. Life is meant to be wonderful, and he never stops living or believing that way.

                                                    • English-Russkoe TV
                                                      English-Russkoe TV  5 months back

                                                      Hey, Mathew! What can I do? I have been dating my boyfriend for about 18 months. I really love him, but I feel like I am in a "weak position". When it comes to me and my interests he Just doesn't listen to me or say it is All my problems with myself and I need to sort myself out. Though he always says that he likes and NEEDS THIS when I talk about what I want and I should do it much more often.🤷‍♀️ I tried to apply many different tricks and techniques to present myself in another way, but that didnt really work. I just want to be as meaningful as he is for me. Maybe I am making it too complicated by myself?
                                                      ❓ So, how can I understand the truth : I am not treated in a good way in these relationships or I am Just being too needy and really have problems?
                                                      Loads of Love, Olga (Russia).

                                                      • Nsamwa Mucheleka
                                                        Nsamwa Mucheleka  5 months back

                                                        Thank you very much!!! 😍

                                                        • Linda Attiea
                                                          Linda Attiea  5 months back

                                                          Advanced thinking, smart &optimist

                                                          • Nikki E.
                                                            Nikki E.  5 months back

                                                            Is there some established subtle mind manipulation technique that I don’t know about that leads so many people to put up their hands to show three fingers by doing the OK symbol? When I show three on my hand, I don’t do that.

                                                            • JEN TANG
                                                              JEN TANG  5 months back

                                                              I just love love love to watch you and let your energy warms and uplifts me!!!

                                                              • Darrah Kennedy
                                                                Darrah Kennedy  5 months back

                                                                Love it Mat!! Thank you. 🤗 I love a man who fiercely believes in the pursuit of being a better man, husband and father... sooooo sexy 🥰

                                                                • Iris Weaver
                                                                  Iris Weaver  5 months back

                                                                  The best is yet to come! Thank you, in my mid-60s it is so inspiring to hear about your grandmother!

                                                                  • Lea
                                                                    Lea  5 months back

                                                                    My ex told me he doesn’t want a relationship at the moment( we’re both in our last year of school and are about to graduate this summer). We’ve dated twice: 2017 for 3 month and last year for 5. The first year we dated is quite irrelevant for me and him as well because we were both very young and the relationship was childish. The second time was actually really good but I overreacted and let my anxiety overweight my rational thinking and broke up last summer. I regretted it immediately and we kept seeing each other the whole rest of the year. There were a lot of misunderstandings bc we both told each other that we still love the other one but we both weren’t sure are we dating? Aren’t we dating? So yeah before the winter break we met up again and he told me before that he’s scared of relationships bc he is scared that he can’t be there for me like he wants to and that he’s gonna fuck it up. When we met up he told me that he doesn’t want to end things but he currently doesn’t want a relationship but likes to meet up with me, spend time with me, listen to the things I have to say and that he has feelings for me. I was quite confused bc for me it makes no sense to not want a relationship but to basically like all the things that conclude to a relationship. I told him that in my opinion a lot of our “misunderstanding problems” could be solved if we were together bc then we would have clarity and knew how to e.g. behave around each other in school. He said he would think about it. After the winter break (he wished me a merry Christmas etc) we met again and shortly before the meet up he said that he doesn’t think it’s a good idea to meet up. I asked why and he told me bc we already talked about it. I told him my opinion again and he replied and said that he was afraid that my intention of the meeting was to talk about it again which is why he wanted to cancel but that his intention was to hear from me again etc. I replied and said that those weren’t my intentions and that i wanted to meet up bc i missed him and wanted to spend time. He send an “ill be there in 20min” and came over. So at that moment I thought okay so we’re just gonna meet up as friends. He came over and picked me up and we drove to a restaurant and had dinner. Then he drove me back home and when I exited the car he said something but I couldn’t understand and he said it was nothing. I was home for like 5 mins when he texted me “u didn’t even ask if I wanted to come inside” to which i replied “ come back if you want” which he did. So he came and we just chilled and talked a lot but I kept a physical distance bc I thought “just friends”. We both sat on the bed and I held a monologue about something irrelevant and he said that he loves to listen to me and cares about everything I said and will remember it. After that he kissed me and we made out and ended ik sleeping together again. He drove home later that night and we didn’t talk about the topic again. The week after in school we both were quite distant and I asked him last week (the first week of school still) if he wanted to come pick my prom dress up with me and he said “no I don’t want to bc you couldn’t even say hi in school so I don’t wanna pretend that everything is cool” and I told him that I thought the same of him and that I didn’t hear it when he said hi. He said it’s fine and that he believes me and that we should just behave normal around each other in school but that I should still take someone else to pick up the dress. I was very confused to be honest bc after he said that everything is fine I expected him to come with me. I feel like he regretted the last meet up and “pulled the trigger” because he doesn’t want to keep hurting me (he said that when he first told me about it) because he knows I want a relationship and he doesn’t. The last week in school was horrible bc I see him every day and we haven’t texted or talked since then and I really feel like he finally ended it for good. I already started no contact and didn’t text him etc but today in class we joked around a bit and I felt him watching me. And when I came back home I saw that he changed his WhatsApp status to „what does normal mean?“ and I don’t want to read into it too much but it is kinda weird bc the last thing he texted me was „let’s just behave normal in school“ and that he changed his status to this right after the first time that we communicated again is a bit weird I think. All my friends said that he will come back because he always did (which is true) but I feel like this time he really won’t bc now he doesn’t want a relationship anymore :/

                                                                    • D. Zaster
                                                                      D. Zaster  5 months back

                                                                      I find those same things attractive in men. Thank you. You should be training men, because the world needs more of you.

                                                                      • Shasha8674
                                                                        Shasha8674  5 months back

                                                                        Some of those celebrities are full of hate. No need to mention them.

                                                                        • Maria Lá
                                                                          Maria Lá  5 months back

                                                                          👏🏼brilliant thank you

                                                                          • Inga Litvinsky
                                                                            Inga Litvinsky  5 months back

                                                                            I love your videos and your messages to women. A good discovery for me!

                                                                            • Do Do
                                                                              Do Do  5 months back

                                                                              Hello Matt. How a woman should say no to a wrong proposal ??

                                                                              • Do Do
                                                                                Do Do  3 months back

                                                                                Matt. Looks like you didn't answer me.

                                                                            • mi fa so la
                                                                              mi fa so la  5 months back

                                                                              #3 is most important right now for me as my husband passed away and I continue to move forward and the best is yet to come

                                                                              • Dawn Wallace
                                                                                Dawn Wallace  1 months back

                                                                                mifasola1 yes it is. Mine. My bea left in 2014. I ms him up in heaven...i just meet someone last week. May first....oh its yes the best is yet to come...im scared to death...u hang in there. Tbiyt come.

                                                                              • HelenBaby
                                                                                HelenBaby  3 months back

                                                                                D'aww. I have a feeling you're right!

                                                                              • zakaria Mahad
                                                                                zakaria Mahad  5 months back

                                                                                Hope for a bright future be positive God bless you

                                                                            • Kemi Agbonlahor
                                                                              Kemi Agbonlahor  5 months back

                                                                              Thanks. That was eye opening

                                                                              • Mona Nakamura
                                                                                Mona Nakamura  5 months back

                                                                                I love J.k.rowling and harry potter.☺️💕

                                                                                The beliefs I found attractive in men are:

                                                                                Protecters of women and children, and the

                                                                                Never do things in an unfair way.
                                                                                They believe to play it fair.

                                                                                Man of their word.

                                                                                They value kindness and love even they are
                                                                                highly successful, popular, and powerful.
                                                                                (Not a sucker for authority and control)

                                                                                Standing up for someone when they see
                                                                                people have been mistreated.

                                                                                Man who can forgive and love people who were horrible to them.( like killed their families etc)

                                                                                Good sense of humor during crisis.



                                                                                Basically when I see people who is kind and
                                                                                generous and has a good sense of humor,
                                                                                I'll genuinely like them.😄✨

                                                                                Mat, I have a little trouble doing the affirmation... I tried the affirmation you gave us few months ago and the first few days was great, but then my inner voice started
                                                                                to talk me back and told me I don't worth it.😰 I would try to talk it back but she will
                                                                                do the same too. Eventually I get so exhausted with the internal conflict and I
                                                                                stopped doing the affirmation.😔 ( I don't
                                                                                like conflict) Is there anything I can do to
                                                                                win the inner critics? She's so damn strong!

                                                                                Thank you for the free course Mat!

                                                                                That is so generous of you.😢

                                                                                I really appreciate it! 😄🌸🌈✨

                                                                                Thank you!! 🤗🤗🤗💐🌼✨✨

                                                                                • Dzidzo Dina Johnson
                                                                                  Dzidzo Dina Johnson  5 months back

                                                                                  Is there a number I can reach you on WhatsApp.

                                                                                  • Cathy Mejia
                                                                                    Cathy Mejia  5 months back

                                                                                    What if there is no longer intimacy..? But you knew you both love each other.. and you're both still young..?

                                                                                    • Elin Malmström
                                                                                      Elin Malmström  5 months back

                                                                                      *Belif that life is good, a positive outlook, and just as you said, even when its bad power through cause the light in the end of the tunnel will come

                                                                                      • Katharina Kostka
                                                                                        Katharina Kostka  5 months back

                                                                                        I love when he knows what he‘s worth, what he wants and what the things he wants are worth/take. I like it, when he‘s sensitive, grateful but confident.

                                                                                        • Josie Thiessen
                                                                                          Josie Thiessen  5 months back

                                                                                          I find conviction for honesty and passion for life attractrive in men. Especially when its shown in every day commitments to be honoring towards others and especially the integrity that it takes when nobody sees or notices

                                                                                          • MindOfHerOwn
                                                                                            MindOfHerOwn  5 months back

                                                                                            Anyone else distracted by Mat's excessive hand gestures?

                                                                                            • MindOfHerOwn
                                                                                              MindOfHerOwn  5 months back

                                                                                              I like his message, just wish he would tone down the gestures a bit.