7 Qualities That Make Men Want You


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  • Leslee Baltazar
    Leslee Baltazar  4 days back

    Best man for me is Loyal, loving,caring, understanding And be proud of me being he's girl or woman

    • Dep Res
      Dep Res  7 days back

      M so glad to find your channel thankksss u life saverrrr

      • Rachel Lee
        Rachel Lee  3 weeks back

        Am higher on the crazy and low on the drama.

        • Ms Nobody
          Ms Nobody  3 weeks back

          My Top 5:1. Decisiveness - he knows what he wants and he is not confused about what is going on in his life, with me and our future.2. Manliness & Passion - when he wants me he tells me and that's super hot3. Respect - I don't swear so when his guy friend does even when he is just on the phone and I can't even hear the other end... he says "dude watch your language". so hot.4. Hark Work - he wakes up 4am everyday and never late for work. even when he is tired he makes time for me to make sure I don't go to bed lacking of anything... if you know what I mean ;).5. Stability and Trust - he know how to budget and knows he can support me, be able to trust me with his pin number, phone and cards. love it.

          • Joyce Agot
            Joyce Agot  4 weeks back

            For me the most important is honestly and loyalty!!!!

            • Never Bored
              Never Bored  1 months back

              The video is about what men want in a woman. And of course women flip it in the comments and make it about them. No wonder why they are single.

              • Lisa Cunningham
                Lisa Cunningham  1 months back

                I want emotional intelligence, a best friend, a good listener, a sense of humor like mine and loyalty. A man can be really smart about his job but not know how to handle his relationships. If he has emotional intelligence and listens well, he can improve any situation.

                • GayleneFlower
                  GayleneFlower  2 months back

                  humor listens physical touch / cuddles makes me feel special protected

                  • Ella Bloem
                    Ella Bloem  2 months back

                    I've been with my boyfriend for 3years now and we love each other so much, he's my bestfriend and he's mine but I only have one problem with him... He never lets me in on his decisions and his plans! Like every time he wants to do something he will just do it without telling me or if he does tell me, he will just tell me for the sake of telling me not because he wants my opinion or and kind of advice... That puts me off and when I talk to him about this he gets upset and tells me he's not child he can decide for himself. Get me right ok... I don't want to decide for him but as his girlfriend of 3years I thought maybe we might be doing things as a couple. I really need a response on this I'm frustrated

                    • peacefull eagle
                      peacefull eagle  2 months back

                      if the woman is crazy it is because the guy has issues with his masculinity.

                      • Ryanne Gordon
                        Ryanne Gordon  2 months back

                        How do you build sexual attraction if you are celibate? I have the others down? Is there a video on that?

                        • Krisi Alayna
                          Krisi Alayna  2 months back

                          I feel like I have all of this...and yet I'm single and watching this 😐 #GivingUp even if you're good enough, he still won't care.

                          • Brytanika Gonzalez
                            Brytanika Gonzalez  2 months back

                            Matt, I have explained my situation in the comments on another video but I'll recap really fast. I have been in an 8 year relationship and we have 3 beautiful children together as well as other children from previous relationships and it's always been complicated until I started taking your advice and it's made a huge impact on my relationship. For example last night before my love went to work I did something for him to make him happy, content and stress free and his response to me was" I just can't get enough of you and that's a good thing". I was just so flattered, happy and content myself so my point is all your advice has worked for me and has turned our relationship into a much better one. Again, I cannot thank you enough. B

                            • preet moon
                              preet moon  2 months back

                              I Ask him why me , he answered ,i was cool, kind, Always listening, sexy, smiling, n naughty

                              • Rachael Curran
                                Rachael Curran  2 months back

                                my coolness

                                • Heavenly Goddess
                                  Heavenly Goddess  3 months back

                                  Trustworthy, Honesty, Loyal, Understanding, And Loving

                                  • Kate Peck
                                    Kate Peck  3 months back

                                    This is wonderful, what you're trying to do, but you should also include that the man must also be like this. Because I did all that with my husband (ex husband) but it didn't work because he wanted to be an alcoholic. His best efforts went toward that. So both parties need to be of healthy mind and body for any of this to work. Just sayin'.

                                    • tainted pure
                                      tainted pure  4 months back

                                      Thanks for this video Matt. I have all these qualities yet men still leave me. Its men who have the issues. I have noticed that this is a more recent thing. What is the world doing to men. Is there something in the water?

                                      • Stephanie P
                                        Stephanie P  4 months back

                                        #1 Financial provision
                                        #2 Emotional maturity
                                        #3 Continued wooing
                                        #4 ambition and growth
                                        #5 empathy and emotional support

                                        • Stefanie O'brien
                                          Stefanie O'brien  4 months back

                                          My top 5 qualities in a guy,
                                          1. Humour
                                          2. Respect, I’m funny and a bit ‘over the top/ in appropriate’ with it at times but mostly I’m just cool and chilled. I want someone that will know that I’m not always 1 thing but that I have a sparkling personality that is sometimes full throttle and sometimes relaxed, I need a guy to just not react negatively to that but just accept and respect that that’s who I am and not judge but call me out on it if I’m too over the top. Strength and understanding.
                                          3. Honesty. Not just being truthful about what he’s doing/ done or been but clarity on what he wants, if I’m not for him, where things are going. If I’m not being communicated too that this is working for him and I feel like I can’t ask that because I might scare him off if makes me want to avoid the topic and find someone else that is more forthright.
                                          4. Thoughtfulness. I want a guy to show that he’s thinking of me when he doesn’t typically have too; anniversary’s/ birthdays etc. Just that he saw something I might like a meme/ a concert/ a new psychological paper/ a new chocolate bar and got it for me or told me about it. Intelligence.
                                          5. Sex. If he wants me and finds me sexually attractive I want him to show me whether it’s been 5 minutes or 5 years, feeling wanted sexually by your partner has to universally be a turn on no?

                                          • Stefanie O'brien
                                            Stefanie O'brien  4 months back

                                            Question... Ok but there’s a lot of guys I know that love high drama women, high drama! because they get to be the ‘hero’ constantly, they don’t get exhausted by it they thrive on being needed, why?

                                            • Sheila Diane
                                              Sheila Diane  5 months back

                                              I love this video
                                              Cool is a great word my boyfriend and I iare soulmates
                                              Opposites attract. We love the same things
                                              All these 7 things you to are everything we have in our relationship
                                              Sexual attraction dynamite and a match
                                              So much passion sexually energy
                                              Cant get enough if each other

                                              • Senada Pasic
                                                Senada Pasic  5 months back

                                                if he wants to be with other women, it's not your job to stop him .  just run like hell because most men just don't get it

                                                • elalaouisosseynabil
                                                  elalaouisosseynabil  5 months back

                                                  Girls, DON'T DO ANYTHING TO CHANGE YOURSELVES after reading this! You're beautiful as you are & YOU RUN THE WORLD FOR A REASON 😍

                                                  Guys always go for physical traits, sure, but learning how to make men really fall in love with you will probably prove to be invaluable... trust me...
                                                  some girls just need to learn how to attract men with their feelings and not just by looks. No offense, but that's what made all the difference for me personally 😍

                                                  if you need a good guide on how to actually captivate a man with more than just your looks to make him fall deeply in love with you, i definitely recommend checking out ReelingHimIn.com 🙏 Personally, I feel like I was getting nowhere with all the different YouTube channels though until I discovered that site lol. gl babes 💞 🙏

                                                  • Rachel Lee
                                                    Rachel Lee  5 months back

                                                    All these want is hoes

                                                    • Lee Herschberger
                                                      Lee Herschberger  5 months back

                                                      I took everything you said to heart! Then I overheard my boyfriend say to his friend how cool I am and how much he loves me!

                                                      • Ada Obi
                                                        Ada Obi  5 months back

                                                        Wow! Where have you been all these while?? THANK YOU for the practical tips! New subscriber!

                                                        • Yannie Wang
                                                          Yannie Wang  5 months back

                                                          Thank's Matt!!

                                                          • Ginger Tillson
                                                            Ginger Tillson  5 months back

                                                            Loyalty, honesty, respect, a best friend, and Chivalrous

                                                            • Christie Algiers
                                                              Christie Algiers  6 months back

                                                              My top 5 - A man who is 1) affectionate, 2) uses language to tell me how he is feeling 3) is willing to "claim" me 4) is a good person - knows right from wrong and stands by his beliefs on how his woman and others should be treated 5) Honest and Open about everything in his life. ( Not in this order. )

                                                              • zhydanovajulia
                                                                zhydanovajulia  6 months back

                                                                The answer is The Ugly Truth ;)))

                                                                • Marian Crole
                                                                  Marian Crole  6 months back

                                                                  The main value i appreciate in a man is his wisdom, his capacity to be in peace with himself i guess it is the "low drama" quality, which for me is very close to kindness and gratefullness, if you're kind and grateful for life you don't have time to make drama :-)

                                                                  • Boi singhn
                                                                    Boi singhn  6 months back

                                                                    Man women standards are way to high

                                                                    • Maree Stone
                                                                      Maree Stone  6 months back

                                                                      A lot of women here are looking for men with female qualities. Let a man be, act and think like a man and most importantly learn to understand him and give him time-out from you. A lot of you want girlfriends in a male skin who are at your mercy 24/7. That's a fail right there.

                                                                      • Phela Re Phele Music Academy

                                                                        Loyalty, Honesty, Respect, Pampering, Free

                                                                        • Cathy Salazar
                                                                          Cathy Salazar  6 months back

                                                                          U r Awesome Mat
                                                                          U have confirmed that I do some things very well😋
                                                                          And I've also learned so much. Thank you

                                                                          • Priscilla Session
                                                                            Priscilla Session  6 months back

                                                                            1. Honesty/Communication
                                                                            2. Loyalty/Trustworthy
                                                                            3. Love/Faithfully
                                                                            4. Compassion/Sincerity
                                                                            5. Confidence

                                                                            • D Woman
                                                                              D Woman  6 months back

                                                                              1. Honesty 2. Emotional inteligence 3. Problem solving as a team player 4. funny 5. intense sexual drive

                                                                              • mandy18573
                                                                                mandy18573  7 months back

                                                                                1. Good sex, 2. trust/honesty from both parties, 3. love, to 2. No sick jealousy/distrust, 4. HUMOUR, 5. INTELLIGENCE. that's it. All it needs for me to fall in love. If any of these points fail - every relationship will break sooner or later n go to hell.... if he fulfills all these points, it doesn't matter how he looks like or if he has no job at the moment. That doesn't count.

                                                                                • Sophia Plate
                                                                                  Sophia Plate  7 months back

                                                                                  Um... all the qualities you described for what men want are precisely what I want in a man!!!!

                                                                                  • Dark Angel
                                                                                    Dark Angel  6 months back

                                                                                    Lol, mutual expectations...!

                                                                                • arezoo samiei
                                                                                  arezoo samiei  7 months back

                                                                                  The man that doesn't vanish and diapers for no reason. The man that can talk instead of escaping would be cool one.
                                                                                  The one that would be mature enough and doesn't have any childish behavior.

                                                                                  • Tatyana Yanovich
                                                                                    Tatyana Yanovich  8 months back

                                                                                    I'm sorry, but this "cool girl" talk remind me of a certain movie and this monologue in particular /watch?v=PaoQNDIf6pY
                                                                                    So, kinda have to warn you, guys, be careful what you're wish for :)

                                                                                    • Cira Franco Balada
                                                                                      Cira Franco Balada  8 months back

                                                                                      Here we go! I look for a man who's loving, loyal, intelligent, handsome and with character. Is it too much to ask for?

                                                                                      • Toychicaplays and cutiekitten3094plays

                                                                                        What if he is always going out to meet woman friends do you still put your trust and confidence in him i don't know about that

                                                                                        • Anagha Jayaraman
                                                                                          Anagha Jayaraman  8 months back

                                                                                          Loyalty, someone who is like a best friend, physical attraction, respect for my time and boundaries, HONESTY

                                                                                          • Lanka Fortunata
                                                                                            Lanka Fortunata  8 months back

                                                                                            As for me top quality of man I lay my eye on is the man who takes good care of his body, health and mental being. I try to stay healthy and it’s very important for me to look good and be confident about myself. I will never change my life for the man who live junky unhealthy life. We have to be a team when it comes to our health, because vi want to enjoy my life with him traveling and explore new things rather than trying to fix his health after what he has done to himself

                                                                                            • Ahnid Allen
                                                                                              Ahnid Allen  8 months back

                                                                                              Qualities I'm looking for in a man;
                                                                                              Almost there in your topic..though!
                                                                                              1) initiative
                                                                                              2)common sense
                                                                                              3) more actions than words
                                                                                              4) often communication
                                                                                              5) honesty

                                                                                              • B 20
                                                                                                B 20  8 months back

                                                                                                Mat boggs is smart