5 Ways to Make a Man Call Instead of Text | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs


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  • LiLi M
    LiLi M  2 weeks back

    Oh! Dating is too much... I wish I can skip this process & God just bring my soul mate right to my place. #ihatedating

    • heidi lossius
      heidi lossius  1 months back

      he is introvert.. sexy man.. into power and im his mistress .. for turer years .. he våres to call.. i must threaten him say om retting tired of not getting an answer.. contact me or forget me.. or i deserve an answer.. be a gentleman .. usually world after being angry a while.. he likes kr getting angry .. not til easy is good.. none of us getting too comfortable ..is important .. ! .. nothing for granted..

    • Ms Nobody
      Ms Nobody  2 months back

      to make a man call me: 1. Ask them to do so and give them a timelineThis way you can know if he is really interested or just wasting your time. A. If he likes you he will remember and he will call. B. If he doesn't like you he will never callAt least you are not wondering if he likes you or not. These are the simple ways to know where you stand when it comes to men. Having said that. If in case he really just forgot because of valid reason... he will make it up to you but make sure you keep your standards known and never make him think that its ok to forget you every time something else comes up. If you want a real relationship and he does too.
      Forgetting each other over other things in life will cost you to separate someday. So early on both should be on the same page that forgetting you is not an option if he wants to be with you. Hope this helps.

      • Juliette Sabrina
        Juliette Sabrina  2 months back

        Im so over texting

        • mimi goddest
          mimi goddest  2 months back

          We only text but we do everyday, we’ve talked on the phone before, just not regularly. I hate talking on the phone so I don’t mind it.

          • Saloua Sliwa
            Saloua Sliwa  3 months back

            Just tried the number 1. It worked. Thank you Mathew.

            • aachal bajracharya
              aachal bajracharya  3 months back

              Just love the way you explain things on point.

              • Brytanika Gonzalez
                Brytanika Gonzalez  3 months back

                Matt, you are so correct on the subject of how you answer the phone. This morning my love called me and I was a bit annoyed with our son so I didn't answer in a positive way. Later on when I seen him he was quiet and I asked what's wrong baby and he said, the way you answered the phone and I looked at him and said I know baby im sorry I was annoyed with our son but im working on that and he ended up feeling better and saying it's okay love. He appreciated my apology and the fact that I realized I was wrong for taking it out on him. I always answer the phone saying, hey baby, how are you? And he responds in a positive way so I need to remember to keep doing it with happy, positive energy. We are closer and becoming not only more in love again but best friends thanks to me taking your advice and changing my whole overall attitude with my relationship. Thank you as always Matt your amazing!!

                • Rita G. Bowman
                  Rita G. Bowman  4 months back

                  Loved the tone change strategy! It happens naturally, but I didn't realize it until you pointed it out. My guy is far from me ... I'm a "yankee," and he's a "southern guy." We're always playing around with different accents and tones when we first answer. It never fails to give us a giggle. Interestingly, texting isn't his thing. He enjoys phone conversations. After 5 months, we have 1 to 3 conversations per day. He's my sexy man, and he knows it! Oh, and the conversations range from 5 minutes to over an hour. BTW, I'm 12 years older than him. That bothered me at first, but he's fine with it. We get each other. Lucky I am!!! Lucky we are!!!

                  • Trish Delish
                    Trish Delish  4 months back

                    What if he lives in another country and it would actually cost him?

                    • Asya Çilek
                      Asya Çilek  5 months back

                      I said to him that i like hearing his voice but his friend was next him .. i wanted him to call me he refused it and said .. unfortunatly yeah:) .. he did not even tried to call... so i'll not say it again :/

                      • April1989
                        April1989  5 months back

                        I don’t like phone calls anyway so I’m unbothered 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

                        • Rhegine Handayan
                          Rhegine Handayan  6 months back

                          Yes,i made him call me by being playful and curious,I txted him like be named with me..something like that. Then,he called me..😊ha ha I think we just missed each other because we've been freinds for DecadesAnd we just reconnected.

                          • Ginger Tillson
                            Ginger Tillson  6 months back

                            Long stretches of not responding always worked for me

                            • nainafavs
                              nainafavs  6 months back

                              Hey Matt, great advice as always BUT what to do when your man is just not into calling anyone. He is a great guy, very respectful but he doesn't see the "not calling each other" part a communication gap in our relationship. I've already mentioned to him that these things matter to me but not much changed on his part. He can text all day long but just doesn't think of calling. 🤔 WHY... WHY...

                              • Sally Cheng
                                Sally Cheng  3 months back

                                That’s a good question. I wonder how you can solve this? Sounds like it’s more to do with him? Hmmm.

                            • Italiana Blanford
                              Italiana Blanford  6 months back

                              glad i fond your channel ,keep it up

                              • Susan P
                                Susan P  6 months back

                                This guy is great!!

                                • C Connelly
                                  C Connelly  6 months back

                                  I just text, "Call me" ...and they do!

                                  • Janet Swain
                                    Janet Swain  7 months back

                                    Some time i just call him

                                    • francesca sibley
                                      francesca sibley  7 months back

                                      how to get him to text instead of call would be helpful 😂

                                      • Dadou Gnd
                                        Dadou Gnd  7 months back

                                        Well for my case I don’t know what particular thing I did or said, but my boyfriend just started calling me and FaceTime me a lot, almost every days. I was a bit confused at first because even with my friends we only call each other to say “where are you I don’t see you?”
                                        He even calls when he’s at work sometimes. He says that it’s just because he felt like hearing my voice. He just makes me feel so loved and appreciated 😊

                                        • Lynn Fernandes
                                          Lynn Fernandes  7 months back

                                          Robert Ilicic is in love wt u . he is homosexual married to Patricia screws his daughters Isabella and Allegra. in the closet works Bridgestone Select Adelaide. Ring him fr sucka fcuka dicks. Robert fcuks Meritxell Garrido in the arse. She shits a lot then makes Xmas decorations from toilet rolls. Robert fcks prostitutes and has AIDS AND STDS. KARMA.

                                          • Tristine M.
                                            Tristine M.  7 months back

                                            You’re a cool guy with great insight, glad I found your channel!! Keep it up! :)

                                            • Legend of Zelda
                                              Legend of Zelda  7 months back

                                              #1. If being direct doesn't work, then all else is games.

                                              • Jennifer Ayoub
                                                Jennifer Ayoub  7 months back

                                                This was a great, fun and engaging video! Thanks Mat.

                                                • Angelyn Liwantang
                                                  Angelyn Liwantang  7 months back

                                                  I said hey baby I'm naked now would you like to call and see me?😂😂

                                                  • Naomi Star
                                                    Naomi Star  7 months back

                                                    I use different texts to make him wonder if he's gonna hear from me at all that day, and he always ends up calling me, almost immediately, instead of texting me back lol.. i.e.: "I'm not sure when/if you'll hear from me again today, I'm super busy, but I'm gonna miss hearing your sexy voice daddy😜" Then he'd call and end up not even wanting to get off the phone with me lol. Works for mine.

                                                    • Antonneisha Jones
                                                      Antonneisha Jones  8 months back

                                                      What’s a good way to friend zone a guy that you are talking to?

                                                      • Rachel Lee
                                                        Rachel Lee  8 months back

                                                        Am never moving out, my sanity is declining daily.
                                                        Am literally going FUCKING CRAZY. I will NEVER live a somewhat normal life. 😫
                                                        I have officially arrived at never happy land!!!!!!!!! All my money have been extorted. And all I have is prospects, some washout closes, a "small degree", and still no fucking Money for my sexless labor 😫😫😫😫😫😣🤔😜😐😒😫☹️😭😲😰😬😩😨😞😖😔😕🙃😓😦🙁😠😵🤪😳🤕🤒😱🤮🧐🤥🤢😇🤧😈🤠😷

                                                        • Arushi Thapliyal
                                                          Arushi Thapliyal  8 months back

                                                          my bf is not interested in sex daily

                                                          • Cristiana Senise
                                                            Cristiana Senise  8 months back

                                                            This happened to me today, I texted him saying: hey, I'm off today so call me when you have a chance. He video called me and he was the one who did not wanted to hang up. Your tips and suggestions really work!

                                                            • sea breeze
                                                              sea breeze  8 months back

                                                              Hi Mathew, Hi Elliot, do u know why he doesnt want to commit to me, ignore my text for days then reappeared and offered me a relationship? Why the hell is he acting like this? It felt like he dated he's preferred choice, fell through, so now he's offering a relationship to me, (-_-)

                                                              • Svetlana Bagach
                                                                Svetlana Bagach  6 months back

                                                                Hopefully u didn't agree to that relationship? He kept u as a last resort and offered u a relationship to satisfy his manhood ego that he can get anyone! You are not anyone and should not accept anything less what you are worth! Think of yourself as a high quality woman, who deserves only the best! Good luck!

                                                            • Angie
                                                              Angie  8 months back

                                                              My husband is "melancholy" as our counselor tells me. I'm the opposite. He doesn't initiate conversation or anything else. He is very logical and NO spontaneity. Why dont you talk? I'm driving. Why don't you talk? I'm eating. So bored. I've been divorced once before and do not want to be on my own in my 40s. No children either. I'm afraid this will be the rest of my life. He is emotionally connected to no one, not even me

                                                              • Naomi Star
                                                                Naomi Star  7 months back

                                                                Best wishes btw.

                                                              • Naomi Star
                                                                Naomi Star  7 months back

                                                                So, emotionally disconnect from him. I'm sure you've by this point had "the talks" with him and it's clearly not changed in your favor, nor for the benefit of a healthy marriage for you two. Make yourself less available for him and more available for yourself and your friends, old and new.

                                                            • Taylor Brooks
                                                              Taylor Brooks  8 months back

                                                              hi Matt so my boyfriend doesn't really spend more time with me because he's more busy every day with his family and school and it makes me feel invisible sometimes we go in our separate ways i really hope you can help me soon

                                                              • juliem_1986
                                                                juliem_1986  8 months back

                                                                I think #4 happened to me. He called a lot and now it's like once a week or even less. But when we chat, we chat for a long time and then I think that's why he doesn't want to call because it lasts so long. I just gotta maybe call him now and not have the conversation last so long this time. I love talking to him, but I think that's what happened. And vice versa. It's like I don't wanna talk to him for an hour sometimes and I think he feels the same way. Never thought of that might be why the calls have stopped a little.

                                                                • Donna Thorsby
                                                                  Donna Thorsby  8 months back

                                                                  What I’d give to be in the same city as my man.. 🤦🏻‍♀️💗💫

                                                                  • maria Domingo
                                                                    maria Domingo  8 months back

                                                                    His only txing me..he calls if its needed..

                                                                    • Mihaela
                                                                      Mihaela  8 months back

                                                                      I made him some compliments trough text after we had a phonecall (he initiated it) and he texted back "You make me so shy!".
                                                                      What should I text him back?

                                                                      • Sally Va
                                                                        Sally Va  3 weeks back

                                                                        Mihaela i Love the way your shyness

                                                                    • Aditi Chakrabarty
                                                                      Aditi Chakrabarty  8 months back

                                                                      Keep him wanting more 😅😅

                                                                      • I Am India
                                                                        I Am India  8 months back

                                                                        It's funny bc I do a lot of that stuff you said naturally bc its just my personality. I'm naturally playful and flirty... good tips, I came just cause I was curious

                                                                        • PATRIA BOLDEN - JIMÉNEZ
                                                                          PATRIA BOLDEN - JIMÉNEZ  8 months back

                                                                          If one has to do that every day, it will be like having a second job

                                                                          • Jenny Moulton
                                                                            Jenny Moulton  8 months back

                                                                            I have said, "I really love hearing you talk, your voice is so warm..... call me sometime so I can hear it again."

                                                                            • Eeleen yong
                                                                              Eeleen yong  8 months back

                                                                              This video appeared on my feed and I was about to randomly watch it just to see if I can make my man call me, just when I click into your video, my man called me right away on time! I have been missing his voice so much but unfortunately due to our packed schedule it’s really hard for us to have a long call like back in those days when he has more free time, things get even harder when we both are in a long distance and huge time zone differences. So I’m really lucky enough to have him as my man <3

                                                                              • Nabbumba janat
                                                                                Nabbumba janat  8 months back

                                                                                Tone change really works

                                                                                • Ayu Dwi
                                                                                  Ayu Dwi  8 months back

                                                                                  I have a question here
                                                                                  I don’t know what is wrong or what have happened
                                                                                  So I got to know this guy from tinder we met once we have a great time
                                                                                  But for some reason he text me less and less and replied my text on after a day
                                                                                  We don’t have each other number we only text on tinder I asked him twice for his number he didn’t give
                                                                                  I don’t know why and how this happened I thought we had a great connection
                                                                                  I really like him
                                                                                  Pls advice on what to do next
                                                                                  How to get him

                                                                                  • Kadrian Thomas
                                                                                    Kadrian Thomas  8 months back

                                                                                    Ayu Dwi sorry, he’s probably not interested. He should have been the one asking you for your number. If you ask twice and he didn’t give it, He probably don’t want you to have it especially if he has someone else in his life but he’s still looking around. The next time he text. Wait two or three days and see if he sends another text to find out if you are ok. If he doesn’t then...

                                                                                • Vegan Mum
                                                                                  Vegan Mum  8 months back

                                                                                  Ahh thank you! Im tired of the texting communication 😩.

                                                                                  • latteliz
                                                                                    latteliz  8 months back

                                                                                    I want to mess up your books! 🙆‍♀️

                                                                                    • swati verma
                                                                                      swati verma  8 months back