7 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You (#3 Makes NO Sense)

  • Published: 21 October 2018
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    In this video and article, I’m going to give you some definite signs that he’s attracted to you, even if he’s trying to keep it a secret.

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    Let’s dive into some signs he’s secretly attracted to you so that you can plan your next move.

    1:31 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #1. He Gets Nervous In Your Company

    I don’t think women ever realize how completely intimidating it is for a man to approach them. He worries you’ll reject him or laugh at him. Now, I know you wouldn’t, but he has that in his head. So cut him some slack.

    If this guy is fidgety around you (and no one else), that’s a pretty good sign he’s secretly attracted to you. Reassure him that you’re interested too with a nice flirty smile or a hand on his arm.

    2:17 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #2. He Smiles and Opens His Body Language

    His body language will also communicate his interest. Rather than crossing his arms or turning away from you (which communicates the very opposite), he will face toward you and even lean in when you talk (it’s especially cute if you’re short and he’s tall and does this!).

    3:15 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #3. He’s Mean to You or Teases You

    If he teases you, tease him back!

    Instead of you running and crying in the bathroom, knowing that this actually means he likes you should help you be a little confident, and maybe get you to tease him back.

    3:57 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #4. You Get the Feeling He’s Into You

    I’m always telling you Sexy Confident women to trust your gut. If you get the feeling that he’s attracted to you, don’t let your brain overthink it and convince your gut otherwise.

    There’s a reason scientists call the gut The Second Brain: it has an eerie ability to “know” things that sometimes your brain gets wrong. So give it a try. The next time you think a guy is showing signs he’s secretly attracted to you, find out and see if your gut was right.

    4:06 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #5. He Works On Appearing Well-Groomed

    If this man is someone you’ve spent time with platonically, pay attention to whether he seems to be putting in extra effort these days into his appearance.

    Any change in his appearance for the better may indicate that he’s trying to subtly get your attention. Make sure you praise his efforts…and put in your own. Shopping time!

    4:14 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #6. He Has A Helpful Attitude Towards You

    Is he going out of his way to be helpful? He’s definitely interested!

    Men are natural providers. When we are attracted to a woman, we want to help her however we can.

    He might offer you a ride when your car’s in the shop…

    He might help with that TPS report you’ve been stressing about at work…

    He might bring you chicken noodle soup when you’re sick.

    Realize that the average dude is not going to put this effort into helping a female friend. If he’s going above and beyond, he wants to provide value to you, the same way cavemen wanted to get the approval of their caveladies when they brought home a nice juicy dinosaur steak!

    4:44 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #7. He’s Constantly Grooming Himself

    Men don’t even realize that they’re doing this. They may run their fingers through their hair (wishing they were running them through your hair). Or comb their beards with their fingers (hoping there are no crumbs lingering!). However he’s grooming himself, he’s trying to make sure that he’s looking his best in front of a lady he is absolutely smitten with.

    Now that you've identified the signs he's secretly attracted to you, figure out how to communicate your interest back. I give you three easy tips to implement in Part 2 of this article, but you've got to be a Sexy Confidence member to get access. Sign up now and get exclusive content, a super-supportive community, and tons of resources designed to help you find true love: sexyconfidence.com/club/
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  • Sexy Confidence
    Sexy Confidence   8 months back

    Here's a BONUS training that will teach you the three steps to making a man pursue you and only you: https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/attract

    • emily maynard
      emily maynard  1 months back

      Sexy Confidence so maybe u can help me let’s get started so there’s this guy I know and I have liked him for over 6 months but he first told me that I’m not his type and then like a month or two after he said that he used to like me less than a year ago and like a week to two weeks after he is starting to tease/play fight on the bus ride home we are in 10 grade high school but he stared into my eyes for at least 1-3 minutes and then I grabbed his backpack and he leaped/jumped on me and when he realized I had the power over him he pulled my leg to where I was laying on my back and pulled my shoe off and that wasn’t the first time he had pulled both of my legs the day before the past two days he has been teasing/play fighting and when he got his backpack back he called it his baby lol so I have this feeling that he likes me and he can’t stop making funny jokes probs not truly funny but I found them to be hilarious but he started laughing really hard and then turned around for a min while laughing please help me

    • Renae O'Hara
      Renae O'Hara  2 months back

      I hate when you say sexy single ladies 😥

    • Love Yourself
      Love Yourself  2 months back

      Damn you're cute!!! 😍

      NIDHI PUNMIYA  4 months back

      I see ppl attracted into you but the thing is u never meet that person after certain event ,then his attraction ultimately goes away.

    • Swimming in a rainbow
      Swimming in a rainbow  5 months back

      Sexy Confidence really good video 👍just subscribed

  • Thanos
    Thanos  1 days back

    number 6 will get you friend zoned

    • Thanos
      Thanos  1 days back

      i dont smile. i snap

      • Lawrence Cherry
        Lawrence Cherry  2 days back

        This is absolutely on Target.

        • Soph Subliminals
          Soph Subliminals  3 days back

          idk man, the guy that I like is very misterious...and I shoulu stop liking him but I still think about him every day.

          • indiashealings
            indiashealings  4 days back

            For me... I can't look in his eyes. If I do... I have to look away. I'm too scared my feelings are showing.

            • Sahira Naz
              Sahira Naz  5 days back

              Tells me he likes me, open body language, smiles, occasionally teases me, dresses like a pig, helps me at work, constantly fixes himelf around me. Fidgety fidgety but doesnot fuckingb make a move. Now i am so buggered up thatbi am trying to read him on youtube or google. I think this just wont go anywhere

              • falloutkid
                falloutkid  6 days back

                Here are MORE SIGNS if your friend or crush likes you back: https://ckk.ai/t0zlz ... the ACCURACY in this video is 100%. You guys, go check it out, YOU CAN'T MISS THESE!

                • J Church
                  J Church  6 days back

                  #1 ME. ME. ME. 100% I am almost off setting, and hard to read because I’m so nervous.
                  #2 yeah.
                  #3 yeah, I’ve done that. Not mean, but I definitely joke around. 😂
                  #4 I get that, but yes MY BRAIN sends me into every thought possible.
                  #5 YES!
                  #6 YES!

                  • Heather McDaniel
                    Heather McDaniel  7 days back

                    Animals cool or cute animals i just love animals

                    • wanda moroney
                      wanda moroney  1 weeks back

                      I think I’m ready, my give a damn is busted. He likes me or he doesn’t, it doesn’t change the fine woman I am!

                      • Diego Moreno
                        Diego Moreno  1 weeks back

                        It's different, because maybe the guy only wants a cheap lay but if they actually want to commit its a totally different story.

                        • marijamarincic
                          marijamarincic  1 weeks back

                          Seen all the signs. Waiting for him to make a move

                          • Slank Dieet
                            Slank Dieet  1 weeks back

                            7 ways to make you boyfriend miss you like crazy https://youtu.be/df7xVU_VxuQ

                            • Phoenix Feathers
                              Phoenix Feathers  2 weeks back

                              I have more guy friends than I do girl friends. I just need to know, just Incase T~T

                              Edit: Finally built up the courage to ask out my crush today! Found out that he got a girlfriend. If you think that didn’t hurt enough, he’s my best friend. Since SECOND GRADE. And he didn’t tell me, I found out through my OTHER friend. He’s a fucking masterpiece, isn’t he?

                              • Abigail Dorrat
                                Abigail Dorrat  2 weeks back

                                Okay so, there is this boy in my class, and he keeps coming over to me going, "why you so quiet" and "why don't you talk", and once I replied "it's non of your business, and he actually said "oh no I like you being quiet"! And I had this gut feeling he liked me. So then a week later he phones my friend telling her he likes me and is too scared to say 😂

                                • monica
                                  monica  2 weeks back

                                  I middle school tease the guys I like 🤣🤣🤣

                                  • literauniversum
                                    literauniversum  2 weeks back

                                    I approached a guy who was staring at me for half a year and he was extremely rude to me and very serious though I was smiling and I was very open. After maybe 2 minutes I said 'ok, I can see you'd rather stay alone, see ya' and he said VERY quietly 'oh no, I didn't mean it, stay' but anyway I went away. After many other weird situations and still feeling that he's very attracted to me, I found out he just seems to be very immature but at the same time, he tries very hard (he's not mean anymore, he's extremely gentle and respectful). I don't know what will happen between us because I don't understand him sometimes at all (I can only see how he gets all happy when I compliment him and then he tries harder to show me his masculine side and his confidence). Ah, he's 4 years younger than me and we're in our twenties so it might be the reason for his rude behaviour at the beginning. He knows only girls, he has no idea about women (?)

                                    • sulvia gania
                                      sulvia gania  2 weeks back

                                      Hey Adam could you make a video about how a girl can be good in bed????? Please

                                      • Patience Eghosa
                                        Patience Eghosa  3 weeks back

                                        Omg all of the are right but idk if I want to ask him out just yet 😥

                                        • cherrylane79
                                          cherrylane79  3 weeks back

                                          If somebody is really mean to you, you can expect him to be mean later on too, so run while you still can.

                                          • Adri G
                                            Adri G  3 weeks back

                                            There’s this guy that works at a laser tag that I really like. So they make grupos and coincidently I’m always in his group. He get nervous when he talks to me and he always goes serious. When he has the chance he’s always next to me. So dose that mean he likes me???? Help meeeeee

                                            • A Summer
                                              A Summer  3 weeks back

                                              Spot on!!! But he told me personally that he's not ready for a relationship and he doesn't want to jeopardize the friendship bec. it's more important to him :(( sad but I have to respect his decision and love him quietly

                                              • FazR 19
                                                FazR 19  3 weeks back


                                                • Le xy
                                                  Le xy  3 weeks back

                                                  Ohh so... My crush is attracted to me? 🤯

                                                  • Nique'a Childs
                                                    Nique'a Childs  4 weeks back

                                                    What about if he sometimes try to make me jealous?

                                                    • nin nin
                                                      nin nin  4 weeks back

                                                      He's british or american

                                                      • Better Late Than Broke
                                                        Better Late Than Broke  4 weeks back

                                                        When I'm attracted I'm shy,afraid to make eye contact ...don't day much or say too much

                                                        • I am too honest
                                                          I am too honest  4 weeks back

                                                          Me before this:
                                                          Ok this dood is so annoying and when I talked ’bout it with my mom a few days ago she said he may have a crush on me

                                                          Me _after_ watching this video:
                                                          *_Oh f*ck_*

                                                          • Buket Ozkan
                                                            Buket Ozkan  4 weeks back

                                                            Tbh I totally agree with the middle school game. This guy always teases me being really mean and just shows off how strong he is by kind of gently wrestling with me.

                                                            Or it is either that he wants some physical contact. Who knows but either way like just grow up!

                                                            • Holly Drucker
                                                              Holly Drucker  4 weeks back

                                                              Good video... I would like to see a video about a man who gives his name and number instead of asking for mine. I have had all those steps that you mentioned in this video. Thank you in advance.

                                                              • K T
                                                                K T  1 months back

                                                                There's a difference between east coast and west coast guys. East coast will approach you and get close when they like you. Even when you're shy they will approach. West coast wait for the woman to give some kind of clear sign or just talk to them. We're shy and naturally avoid the one we are attracted to. East coast wins at being the man/hunter. It's more natural. They hunt, we come around when they pursue.

                                                                • TwentYEE Øne Warriørs Whø DØN'T EAT SOAP!

                                                                  He is always nervous when we talk about serious stuff bc he can not talk about his feelings :(
                                                                  But I don't wanna look like a cheap girl you know? I want him to know that I'm not like the rest of the cheap ones that only wants to have fun with him. But I stopped asking questions so he doesn't feel unconfortable. But he is always teasing me when he has a good day. But on his bad days he is always ignoring me and being very mean to me and I dont understand what I did wrong :( I feel like he doesn't wanna have me in his life anymore bc of how he acts to me :( But the weird thing is that he is only doing that by me when he has a bad day (like last thursday for example ;-;)

                                                                  • Hunna Ferdinand
                                                                    Hunna Ferdinand  1 months back

                                                                    Small pickles

                                                                    • L Lol
                                                                      L Lol  1 months back

                                                                      Yah when im attracted i stare at ny nails and phone jk

                                                                      • L Lol
                                                                        L Lol  1 months back

                                                                        Numbee 3 isnt correct im mean to my co worker i dontike him nor am i sttarcted to him. Hahah but he probably likes me he ssid some things that hints he likes me. I told him ewee

                                                                        • hammer jack
                                                                          hammer jack  1 months back

                                                                          if a girl likes me i’ll just go to her house naked and sleep on her front porch like a puppy

                                                                          • stacy bush
                                                                            stacy bush  1 months back

                                                                            well shit this better be true

                                                                            • Ash Ramnarine
                                                                              Ash Ramnarine  1 months back

                                                                              Omg true

                                                                              • Melodyica CoverZ
                                                                                Melodyica CoverZ  1 months back

                                                                                My bestie (is going out with my girl bestie) it's always very polite and kind and caring with me, but he's like that with some of our friends.
                                                                                Teasing? It's something we do to each other. Like a normal thing, I should say. He knows I get triggered very easily so he does it a lot of times.

                                                                                And it can't be an attraction (no matter how much I want it to be), since I've dated his bestie and he's dating my bestie.
                                                                                And going out with your bestie's ex is not quite a very-well seen thing.

                                                                                • Iveta U
                                                                                  Iveta U  1 months back

                                                                                  Hmm I know the guy who exposed all the traits , but still won’t talk to me ... weird .... men are such a puzzles 🧩

                                                                                  • Julie Koehler
                                                                                    Julie Koehler  1 months back

                                                                                    Yes I have had more things so I would first always want to talk to him but doubt it and I would think about him ALL the time and last but not least I would like pick on him and tease him a bit

                                                                                    • Machine Gun Bambi
                                                                                      Machine Gun Bambi  1 months back

                                                                                      “how do I look in my glasses?” “like a big NERD” *hacker voice* we’re in

                                                                                      • Se Bakker
                                                                                        Se Bakker  1 months back

                                                                                        I always try to attract guys with my sexy breasts lol

                                                                                        • Linda Sun
                                                                                          Linda Sun  1 months back

                                                                                          Go to 1:24. There. I just saved you a minute of your life.

                                                                                          • Addygamer
                                                                                            Addygamer  1 months back

                                                                                            I literally cannot stop smiling when I like them

                                                                                            • Jagdish Mhatre
                                                                                              Jagdish Mhatre  1 months back

                                                                                              Awesome,it's match😍

                                                                                              • Lauvon Fr
                                                                                                Lauvon Fr  1 months back

                                                                                                This is so funny. When I see a man I'm attracted to, my whole body feels like it's smiling and I make a low groaning sound.😘