Top 5 Dating Myths Holding You Back in Love (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)


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  • Stefan Aurora
    Stefan Aurora  3 weeks back

    You are better together :) I guess being adorable runs in the family🤗

    • Jennifer Mainor
      Jennifer Mainor  1 months back

      Ahhh, I LOVE the bit on "hard for the good reasons" :-) I agree with all. Admittedly, I've probably said each at one point or another lol.

      • Kiran Solanki
        Kiran Solanki  2 months back

        Agree with your opinions

        • Allison Gette
          Allison Gette  2 months back

          Very odd opinion: I think Steve would be hot as hell bald

          • Princess Vanessa
            Princess Vanessa  2 months back

            This is nice listening to both of you having a great discussion on this topic, more vids like this plz!! 🤠👊👊

            • GypsyRock
              GypsyRock  3 months back

              3:40 Amazing point. Thank you for that. So true

              • GypsyRock
                GypsyRock  3 months back

                I love them together. However, for some reason they don’t look alike at all in my opinion.

                • GypsyRock
                  GypsyRock  3 months back

                  :30 Lol “I just wanted to CON-tribute”

                  • Greice Kelly
                    Greice Kelly  3 months back

                    Hots 😍😍😍😍😍

                    • Deborah Kim
                      Deborah Kim  3 months back

                      I love how passionate Matthew gets

                      • Deborah Kim
                        Deborah Kim  3 months back

                        Myth 5 is so bullshit

                        • Deborah Kim
                          Deborah Kim  3 months back

                          Haha myth 3 is so bullshit right?

                          • The Simi Effect
                            The Simi Effect  3 months back

                            Me trying to learn what these brothers are saying but failing woefully because these men are 😍😍😩

                            • Francie Odendahl
                              Francie Odendahl  3 months back

                              All my relationships have been hard. You are sooo right.

                              • Francie Odendahl
                                Francie Odendahl  3 months back

                                Where's my froggy McDreamy? 😀

                                • Francie Odendahl
                                  Francie Odendahl  3 months back

                                  I fall for the person who makes me better.

                                  • M J
                                    M J  3 months back

                                    Hi Steve and Matt, you have no idea how much I needed the content of this video. Thank you so much! I especially like the idea of replicating feelings and not the person as well as believing that there still amazing people who want a real and committed relationship as much as I do. Please continue the good work...❤

                                    • Astrid Rylan Cassidy
                                      Astrid Rylan Cassidy  3 months back

                                      you two are just adorable together! but most importantly, thanks for bringing your useful insight!

                                      • Katie Gould
                                        Katie Gould  4 months back

                                        Steven just shave it off mate 👍

                                        • Sarah Davies
                                          Sarah Davies  4 months back

                                          Brilliant - "people aren't replaceable, feelings are" ❤️

                                          • lovely princess mz
                                            lovely princess mz  4 months back

                                            There's a guy that his friend tell him that i have crush on him but that isn't a truth . And after that he start to look at me everyday and when i catch him looking he just look away .it was a joke and i think about make eye contact but now this joke become real and i feel like im starting to like him .he show interest sometimes and then act like he don't care and that's making me crazy .i have never talked to him there's no contact between us it's all about looks . What should i do to know if he like me and how to get him to like me ? I need your help and sorry for my english

                                          • Andrea Cornejo
                                            Andrea Cornejo  4 months back

                                            So good advice guys. I do believe we have to be the person we want to be with. If we expect that much from that person we have to bring the same and this is actually a good guide to live our lives. Be the person you want to be with.

                                            • Amy Rivera
                                              Amy Rivera  4 months back

                                              I assume all of these, I need help. 😭😭😂. It’s hard to have hope and meet good people.

                                              • ana salas
                                                ana salas  4 months back

                                                The last one is my favorite, be challenged by the right reasons! That was enlightening. =) Thanks to both of you! Great team.

                                                • Martina Calle Garzón
                                                  Martina Calle Garzón  4 months back


                                                  • Sadiya Dhaqane
                                                    Sadiya Dhaqane  4 months back

                                                    Why are you two still single?🤔🤔🤔

                                                    • Rachel Tack
                                                      Rachel Tack  4 months back

                                                      I think the best thing I've ever heard you say in regards to number 4... It's not one of the things you repeat all the time in your videos, but it should be..

                                                      It's OK to feel disappointment or sadness that someone didn't turn out to be the person for you, but DO NOT mourn them as if they were the person for you.

                                                      • Erini Ayad
                                                        Erini Ayad  4 months back

                                                        Love that!!

                                                        • Canadian97467
                                                          Canadian97467  4 months back

                                                          Great job by Stephen Hussey! There is so much packed into these busted myths… Lots of food for thought, and I bet that those points go to the core of many people's issues.

                                                          • ppearl _
                                                            ppearl _  4 months back

                                                            He’s obsessed with me and I just met him. He wants to get married and be together forever. I love him but that’s only because it was forced. He wanted to have sex with me on the first day and he always writes me long love messages. I’m 3 years younger than him and only in high school. I’m terrified of commitment and have no idea what to do I’m only 15 and he says he will kill himself and go back to drugs if I leave him!

                                                            • João Pedro
                                                              João Pedro  4 months back

                                                              @ppearl _ There's no easy way out on this, meet up with him at a public space and break up there - just call the police and ask for a restraining order in case he doesn't leave you alone.

                                                              Try this: Tell your parents first, go to a public place to break up with him there (I advise you to bring your father/brother along and let them sit nearby), and ask your parents to call the police if he threatens you.

                                                              Block him at everything and don't give in: (He may kill himself, but remember, it's not your fault if he does so).

                                                              Take care girl, men can be physicos sometimes.

                                                              Protect yourself and focus on your studies - boys are not that important right now.

                                                            • ppearl _
                                                              ppearl _  4 months back

                                                              João Pedro any advice if he threatens me or how to let him down easy

                                                            • João Pedro
                                                              João Pedro  4 months back

                                                              Break up with him and cut him off your life > tell your parents if he intends to keep bothering you.

                                                          • Arika Bush
                                                            Arika Bush  4 months back

                                                            Watching both of you guys together makes me think that you two had a fabulous mother.

                                                            • Jennifer Salas
                                                              Jennifer Salas  4 months back

                                                              Mat's brother is SO hot ❤

                                                              • Daz Ridgway
                                                                Daz Ridgway  4 months back

                                                                Matthew. I have trouble with someone that can't just thinking about with being break up 4 months. Please help....

                                                                • Suhasini Rangan
                                                                  Suhasini Rangan  4 months back

                                                                  You guys were absolutely on point! Also make an awesome duo on tips and guide. Hope you guys do this more :)

                                                                  • Amy F
                                                                    Amy F  4 months back

                                                                    I agree with pt 5👍. The right relationship is not easy. The right person should help u grow to be ur best self. The wrong person is someone who is toxic & destructive....

                                                                    • Canadian97467
                                                                      Canadian97467  4 months back

                                                                      I know a lot of people who purposely surround themselves by people who will not challenge them to be better. Doing so would trigger such insecurities in them that they would lash out, and if they opt out instead, it's probably all the better for everyone.

                                                                      Some people don't want to grow or evolve. They don't want to work on themselves. It takes self-confidence to admit to having flaws and having the desire and the drive to work on them. Hopefully, most of Matthew Hussey's followers fall into that category of people, otherwise we wouldn't be watching him, right?

                                                                      I had an ex who just sabotaged me every step of the way as I was trying to go forward in life. That behavior is all about his own insecurities, and obviously, it doesn't provide for a good love relationship. I've seen that "levelling" behavior in other contexts than love relationships, though… Honestly, it's a rather odd mentality to be so envious and insecure that you hope that everyone around is and stays as mediocre as you feel (and probably are).

                                                                      Achieving success in life usually involves a different life philosophy altogether: making contacts in higher places and getting inspiration from people who are ahead of you, not at a lower level or at the same level.

                                                                  • Azam Zahedi
                                                                    Azam Zahedi  4 months back

                                                                    Great content.

                                                                    • Diya Wu
                                                                      Diya Wu  4 months back

                                                                      agree with 3⃣️👍

                                                                      • swedish girl
                                                                        swedish girl  4 months back

                                                                        Well not disagreeing with #5 per se... but being with the right person will be A LOT easier than the wrong one. Some couples never have an argument. Some are psychotic and abusive and keep you on eggshells every day.

                                                                        • AeroTeaQue
                                                                          AeroTeaQue  4 months back

                                                                          Hey Matt, further thoughts... Came across this TED Talk and thought of you; preset to 7:38 which is the part that made me flashback to your "life is hard" comment
                                                                          Hope you get a minute to watch it, and if you do, maybe you'll also find a minute to follow the white rabbit ;)
                                                                          🐇 Cue music: Here Comes the Sun ~ The Beatles
                                                                          🐇 Tell me something good that happened today 🐇


                                                                          • Cédric COUSIN
                                                                            Cédric COUSIN  4 months back

                                                                            1 narcissism
                                                                            2 lazyness
                                                                            3 alpha widow
                                                                            4 customer mentality

                                                                            • Lenore Saers
                                                                              Lenore Saers  4 months back

                                                                              Healing tools, the emotional code , eft change your frequency. Work on yourself. Love yourself before you love anyone else. Why don’t you talk about these issues Matthew.

                                                                              • Lucy Alice
                                                                                Lucy Alice  4 months back

                                                                                You're both extremely beautiful!!!!

                                                                                • Samantha Beaty
                                                                                  Samantha Beaty  4 months back

                                                                                  I would love to hear your insights about "back burner relationships" or being a "back pocket girl." Thanks so much for all you guys do! ^_^

                                                                                  • Tet martin
                                                                                    Tet martin  4 months back

                                                                                    Love the 5 myths. The 5th myth is my favorite one how both of you explain it. Bravoooooo

                                                                                    • Morella
                                                                                      Morella  4 months back

                                                                                      And in realizing that you have a relationship giving you the wrong kind of hard you're given a moment - a challenge - to grow, to either address the wrong kind of hard with your partner, or to draw up the strength to honor your self-respect and end the relationship.

                                                                                      Matthew, could you kindly talk about attachments styles. I married young and myself and my young partner didn't learn enough in life yet to develop healthy attachment styles. As a result, we had an unhealthy push-pull relationship that only went around in a loop and we had no idea why. It was hell - we loved one another and we seemed to be two personalities that got along fine, except our attachment styles were unhealthy and caused a lot of pain. I felt like a failure by ending it though I loved him and couldn't understand why I felt deeply that it needed to end. I'm glad I did, as I learned about my attachment style and am healing it. However, people in a relationship with unhealthy A.S's can work on it if they're aware of it. Anyone currently struggling to understand why their relationship has trouble when on the surface everything should be okay should definitely look into attachment styles. It's difficult to address the issues it clearly brings up - issues you didn't think were issues in the first place and could affect how you accept love, what you're unconsciously attracted to, and how you conduct yourself in a relationship. Some would say it's best to address it with a counselor, though healthy self-administered therapy is possible.

                                                                                      • Something
                                                                                        Something  4 months back

                                                                                        I am kind of devastated now. I started crushing on someone that I felt like was flirting with me, like taking my hands and playing with them for a few minutes. Met him again at a party the other day. After watching a bunch of videoes about flirting, I was looking at him, making eye contact and smiling. I also tried to show interest in him while talking to him. We had eye contact a lot of times, while I remember them as being kind of long (I was drunk, so they might not be as long as I remember).. sometimes he would smile when I smiled etc, and one time he even winked. Later that evening he was guiding me through a door, touching my lower back. However, I did feel that he seemed kind of uninterested, although he did apologize for being «off» that day due to being tired. I do think he’d kind of a player, so i should stay away. however, now I also feel like I made a fool of myself while trying to flirt, and that my attempt is something he will laugh about with his friends. It’s so dumb. I wasn’t really even interested until he held my hand and I felt completely warm and safe while him holding them. Sorry, I had to rant. I was hoping soo bad that he might be interested in me.

                                                                                        • Belinda Rees
                                                                                          Belinda Rees  4 months back

                                                                                          You guys crack me up....hilarious......

                                                                                          • pkramerable
                                                                                            pkramerable  4 months back

                                                                                            How about "I'll never love someone like that again.", but twenty years have passed since you've had any sort of relationship with a woman? None! Suicide is an option.