The #1 Dating Mistake Men Make With Women


Comments • 964

    AKANAPOCALYPSE  3 days back

    I mean men don’t have to date women. They’d probably make less mistakes with men tbh 😆 But dating anyone regardless of your orientation is tricky anyway.

    • Khie Bean
      Khie Bean  3 days back

      You somehow managed to make a 9 minute video about something that could be boiled down to two words: Be yourself.

      • algypsy17
        algypsy17  4 days back

        Be yourself from the very beginning on if you want to find the person who will really like and love you the way you are. And let's hope that she doesn't wear a mask herself ...

        • Silas Nonoir
          Silas Nonoir  6 days back

          why do you make your videos so specifically heterosexual?

          • Chidsuey
            Chidsuey  6 days back

            5:13 "I'm Date Mike. Nice to meet me."

            • Luci3nTv
              Luci3nTv  7 days back

              How do I get the Pooosey boss?

              • Nitroschock
                Nitroschock  1 weeks back

                -says he feels uncomfortable in button to ups
                -wears a button up in the recommended meditation app profile

                I love you anyway

                • Luc Langille
                  Luc Langille  1 weeks back

                  how many grapes you fit in yo mouth

                  • b0dh_1
                    b0dh_1  1 weeks back

                    Incredibly impressive video Charlie

                    • Cyborg
                      Cyborg  1 weeks back

                      This is good man!!!

                      • AR P
                        AR P  1 weeks back

                        Gone girl explained

                        • Susan Mathenge
                          Susan Mathenge  1 weeks back

                          My take home from this video is...Be yourself from the minute you meet someone and let them decide if they like you or not...if they do like you...awesome...if not, good riddance. You don't want to be around people who you have to be "someone else" for them to like's too short for that

                          • NecroW Productions
                            NecroW Productions  2 weeks back

                            "How would I behave right now if I had no interest in making this person like me." I think this is probably the most important take away lines! (At least for me.) It certainly would change my mindset during the date to "I want to have fun but I also want to be myself" and I think that would make me calmer, I will try that out and come back and tell you what happened! :D

                            • josh reilly
                              josh reilly  2 weeks back

                              " make with women" this video goes both ways no?

                              • Jayant Totlani
                                Jayant Totlani  1 months back

                                2:35 Is gonna give me nightmares

                                • MelancoliaI
                                  MelancoliaI  1 months back

                                  Please put your fist in your mouth, just once. I know it will fit.

                                  • foxylee
                                    foxylee  1 months back

                                    How about I get a date with someone I actually like first, and then worry about them liking me too... 😅

                                    • Melora Carabas
                                      Melora Carabas  1 months back

                                      How about women dating women?
                                      We need advice too!

                                      • zxz
                                        zxz  1 months back

                                        Melora Carabas seek other channels

                                    • Bob Weaver
                                      Bob Weaver  1 months back

                                      Just avoid religion and politics on the first date.

                                      • Philip Saal
                                        Philip Saal  1 months back

                                        #1 be ugly

                                        • Someone Else
                                          Someone Else  2 months back

                                          That cats smile is like 6" wide

                                          • Sam Brodie
                                            Sam Brodie  2 months back

                                            Set an intention

                                            • Anna Mazzullo
                                              Anna Mazzullo  2 months back

                                              hey Charlie do you want to go for a coffee sometime?

                                              • Nayef Atawi
                                                Nayef Atawi  2 months back

                                                oh f u c k

                                                • zain robidart
                                                  zain robidart  2 months back

                                                  Man have you ever heard of Greg Plitt? I recommended Greg Plitt Plittspiration 2015 rip if not... top tier content.

                                                  • Gibbyace
                                                    Gibbyace  2 months back

                                                    Great! Just need to
                                                    find a weeb, open minded, dark joke loving, hypersexual, non drinking, video game playing, girlfriend
                                                    and ive got it!

                                                    • Joseph Neris
                                                      Joseph Neris  1 months back

                                                      Good luck to the both of us then 😂😥

                                                  • Michigan1B22
                                                    Michigan1B22  2 months back

                                                    "You're better than her" -Patrice O'Neal
                                                    never forget

                                                    • Michigan1B22
                                                      Michigan1B22  1 months back

                                                      I don't necessarily disagree with you. However the philosophy behind "you're better than her" is that a women can't find a man attractive unless she sees him as better than herself. Now better is defined by each individual women, it could be charm, security, confidence, looks, work ethic etc. Just always be honest about who you are, it has to be an honest representation of that man, the day you slip or you're not in your zone, cracks will appear in the way she thinks of you. Especially if you're dating a women you think is out of your league. Can't think like that. You're better than her or she wouldn't be here. Confidence.

                                                    • Pragya Sharma
                                                      Pragya Sharma  1 months back

                                                      Um can't really agree. If you tell her shes better than some other woman that will create ego in her mind and she'll want to compete. No woman is better than any other. Even men. Appreciate them for being themselves and you'll see the love grow strong. :)

                                                  • Alex Shuysky
                                                    Alex Shuysky  2 months back

                                                    Do men date men please :(

                                                    • PandaGmail
                                                      PandaGmail  2 months back

                                                      Hence Game face.

                                                      • Nathan Korus
                                                        Nathan Korus  2 months back

                                                        Got any videos you would recommend on setting up a studio? Lighting, equipment, framing, etc? Thanks, man love the channel!

                                                        • Laura Haney
                                                          Laura Haney  2 months back

                                                          wow i feel so called out. thank you.

                                                          • mustard roshi
                                                            mustard roshi  2 months back

                                                            Actually I have this problem the other way around i am myself infront of her but gotta be edgy and pretend i like thing just so kids stop bullying me for not liking rap or memes and internets stuff trends and being less masculine

                                                            • mustard roshi
                                                              mustard roshi  2 months back

                                                              Plz give some advice for this if u can

                                                          • William Hall
                                                            William Hall  2 months back

                                                            I'm really feeling what Charlie said on the "new paradigm" too. I feel like the new millennium has really brought forth innovations not just in the way we do things, but in the way we think and feel. The times we live in make it possible to be more independent, and we've also made such huge strides as a society in granting women the independence they deserve, which shapes the way we do relationships now in a huge way. It doesn't have to be about marriage anymore, which historically was really an economic institution more than it was about the connection between two people- that's just what we come out of as Westerners. There's also so much more choice for single people now that people wait so long to be married and now that we have all these ways to communicate with people- you don't have to leverage your natural networks to meet people anymore, you can find people anywhere.

                                                            • William Hall
                                                              William Hall  2 months back

                                                              This is great because authenticity is a generally charismatic and attractive trait for any person to have. Even more importantly on the topic of finding women, this is one of the best examples of the Law of Attraction at work. People are out there trying to find other people like them who share beliefs and attitudes with them. You're going to find that people are super enthusiastic about meeting you AND that you're meeting the people you most want to be with just by sharing the best parts of yourself with other people.

                                                              • Coldlady winter
                                                                Coldlady winter  2 months back

                                                                I love your work, you helped me so much! Thank you, that you made this Channel. I'm 17 years old and I love to developing myself and your channel is helping me😚😊

                                                                • Mad Arab Industries
                                                                  Mad Arab Industries  2 months back

                                                                  Patrice O'Neal "send the janitor not the head of sales"

                                                                  • anthony ward
                                                                    anthony ward  2 months back

                                                                    well what id do normally is just sit/stand there in silence sooo there goes my chances of ever being in a happy relationship.

                                                                    • Rocío Cruz
                                                                      Rocío Cruz  2 months back

                                                                      I love your channel. I like understanding men.

                                                                      • maddvibE
                                                                        maddvibE  2 months back

                                                                        Thank you buddy. I am very appreciative of you and your content.

                                                                        • Boo Bear
                                                                          Boo Bear  2 months back

                                                                          just focus on what YOU want in life. girls should be like the number 6-10 priority for you... the 1-5 priority should be something else that you should focus on in life. basically, if what you want in life is to just have a girl with you then that is a problem you should fix first.

                                                                          • Nineteen 85
                                                                            Nineteen 85  2 months back

                                                                            But what if you tryna smash?

                                                                            • HunGredy
                                                                              HunGredy  2 months back

                                                                              Interestingly this was something I realized once my first relationship broke up. She left me saying I am not the person anymore she got to know. I also experienced the other side when I left my next girlfriend because I fell in love with a version I didn't get in the long run. Ever since I always put, like you said, my most normal form whenever possible. I want people to like me for who I am. Thabk you for reinforcing me that I am doing the right things

                                                                              • Noun Nine
                                                                                Noun Nine  2 months back

                                                                                As someone obsessed with expanding my vocabulary, I cannot express my gratitude for the definition of idiosyncratic you hinted at the bottom. I wish this sort of effort was as universal as transition slides.

                                                                                • Joey JoJo
                                                                                  Joey JoJo  2 months back

                                                                                  Been watching your videos , I started to enter the dating scene and I hope to find someone

                                                                                  • Artistic Channel
                                                                                    Artistic Channel  2 months back

                                                                                    He somehow reminds me of the dude from YOU on Netflix. They have similar social skills. They just use them differently

                                                                                    • Martin Boudreaux
                                                                                      Martin Boudreaux  2 months back

                                                                                      what you say you should do describes me to a tee. Of course as you said it doesn't do me any favors. Most woman pass but i don't care.

                                                                                      • aarav singh
                                                                                        aarav singh  2 months back

                                                                                        Do a video on prime ministet of india narendra modi

                                                                                        • Jason k.38
                                                                                          Jason k.38  2 months back

                                                                                          I don't really think that this is a good idea... What about being nice??! This doesn't really make sense... Getting a fork for her or so... I just don't understand