8 Signs You’re Dating a Sociopath

  • Published: 26 January 2019
  • In order to get close to someone, you must let your guard down. That’s why it’s always such a big risk to confess your feelings. Experiencing a few heartbreaks is to be expected in the world of dating, but it’s a whole 'nother problem getting involved with a sociopath. Wondering if you’re in danger?

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Comments • 4 428

  • God is Watching
    God is Watching  4 hours back

    Sounds like someone geeky (teacher's pet) is JEALOUS of other people (so called sociopath) are enjoying their life by being an inspiration to others. Being alive is not the same as living the life. This video is made only to brain wash confused people. Get real and step out of your comfort zone. Go outside and enjoy the weather.

    • Cringe Studios
      Cringe Studios  18 hours back

      I just wanted to know what a sociopath is

      • im_also_an_avacado
        im_also_an_avacado  23 hours back

        O N I S I O N in an entire video.

        • XxavacadosxX
          XxavacadosxX  23 hours back

          i...im the sociopath does that make me a bad person? o.o

          • Saba Jecin
            Saba Jecin  23 hours back

            Ok so I'm a sociopath

            • cyotee doge
              cyotee doge  2 days back

              Or, they're a woman. This entire video is bullshit.

              • Ultra Atari
                Ultra Atari  2 days back

                Sign 9: They're a woman

                Remember these are the same people who think only they can decide an abortion, you have no say, but also you gotta pay those pussy bux if she keeps it, and if you push her down stairs you're a child murderer when it was a lump of cells five minutes ago


                women shouldn't have rights

                • stone beast
                  stone beast  2 days back

                  Just because I don't really have friends doesn't make me a sociopath. I'm just antisocial and people find it hard to socialize with me because of my massive antisocial stuff.

                  • Moon
                    Moon  2 days back

                    Like literally the poor guy I’m the grey shirt man!
                    One like equals one plead for him to break up

                    • emond67
                      emond67  2 days back

                      jimeny christmas that describes my exwife all day long

                      • LuckyNumber 1134
                        LuckyNumber 1134  2 days back

                        Okay listen. I’ve been diagnosed with ASPD (when I was 12 so no it’s not Shane Dawson-itus) and I am technically a sociopath. And i’ll Be real with you. A lot of this stuff is very true. I’ve had problems with manipulation, peer-pressure, getting other people in trouble, and catfishing. And I was amazing at all of these things. I catfished technically 10 people and 9 out of those ten fell head over heels in love with me. Because I knew how to mirror exactly what they wanted. My little fake persona I catfished them with WAS too good to be true. It was easy for me to become a person’s perfect person without breaking a sweat and it worked every time. It was so fun to me and I ruined a lot of lives doing it. One man i was with for three years before crushing him and he came very close to killing himself but thankfully he had gained friends while we were together. (He has nothing when he met me and that’s why he became so dependent.) the funky thing is. I was not a good person during these relationships. I have them tons of mental stress the whole time we would be together just for the heck of it. It was like an experiment for me. I was playing a character and I was testing them to see how far I could take them before they left me. But only one of them actually left ME. Everyone else I left them because I got bored. They never bothered to leave because either I was too perfect for them or i was so good at playing the victim card and making them feel guilty.

                        The point i’m getting to is that you should always be more aware. You should always have your best interest in mind and should always be skeptical. I’m almost twenty and i’m past my gross ways and i’m Recovering. I’m becoming a better person and actually treating my aspd and being more aware of how I treat people. Sociopaths still deserve love but they should not be allowed to do the horrible things they’re programmed to do. If you ARE dating a sociopath or you think you might know one, get them help. Tell them how their actions have been affecting you and don’t let them make excuses. If they get mad and leave you, they weren’t the one for you anyway. They probably were putting on a persona for you. If you think you’re dating a sociopath, tbh I would hate for anyone to have to go through what I put those people through. So. Let me know if you need advice? I can deal with them easy.

                        • tiny tots
                          tiny tots  2 days back

                          Damn I'm 6/8 of these

                          Guys I think I'm a sociopath

                          • tiny tots
                            tiny tots  22 hours back

                            +Diabolus it's a joke???😕

                          • Diabolus
                            Diabolus  23 hours back

                            No, I can 99% guarantee that you're not. Are you below the age of 18? Children can not be diagnosed because their brains are still developing. By the way, a sociopath would NEVER admit that they are one. And one can not be diagnosed with Sociopathy or psychopathy, because it all goes to the exact same disorder. ASPD. ASPD is the result of constant extreme abuse and bullying, and genetic factors play a role in there too.

                        • FlammuleFox The Hentai God

                          She's trying to get us to break up with our significant others!!!

                          • Fallen Angel In chains Hema


                            • Gretgor
                              Gretgor  2 days back

                              Signs 2, 3, 5, 6, 7 and 8 are way too clear in my ex. I only got rid of her once my friends started opening my eyes.

                              But then again, I notice signs 1, 2, 3, 7 and 8 with myself in the way I treat my current gf. That doesn't necessarily make me a sociopath, right?

                              • Troy D Arsewhooper
                                Troy D Arsewhooper  2 days back

                                Plot twist, this made me think I'm the sociopath.

                                • ML Osorio
                                  ML Osorio  2 days back

                                  Wooooow why do I feel like I’m the sociopath???!!

                                  • bat man
                                    bat man  2 days back

                                    Not all of us want to kill people

                                    • Preston Productions
                                      Preston Productions  2 days back

                                      Also if they truly are a sociopath then drop/demote them. Tell them straight up and look at the key signs. Say something like, “hey i like you alot but what your doing is not okay, i think we should stay friends and see. Maybe more every once in a while if we feel the need to, but for now its not what im looking for” if they are understanding they should acknowledge your reasons. Live like you want, not how others want you.

                                      • Preston Productions
                                        Preston Productions  2 days back

                                        Of course they have to show signs of an unhealthy relationship first. And if they socio then you should be able to spot the signs and weaknesses. Good luck 🍀

                                    • rasputin lavey
                                      rasputin lavey  2 days back

                                      yooo this sounds like a scorpio girl

                                      • GHARBI YASMINE
                                        GHARBI YASMINE  2 days back

                                        I watch this for me ! If I'm the sociopath in the relationship! Hahaha

                                        • FLaPP JaCK
                                          FLaPP JaCK  2 days back

                                          So... it's possible i might be a sociopath... What do i do? All that lines up with me and i didn't even know i was doing it

                                          • ashley
                                            ashley  2 days back

                                            I lack empathy but I still feel love. I don't have any bad motives either! Sociopaths and psychopaths are often mistaken as the same thing.

                                            • Little Fitmiss
                                              Little Fitmiss  2 days back

                                              It is too vague.... i am a sociopath .. found out recently and the reason is a very harsh childhood.. and still not recovered 🙄🙄

                                              • Martyr B
                                                Martyr B  2 days back

                                                What about psychopath?

                                                • Season Shine -Moonspeet-

                                                  Haha FUCK-
                                                  I move relationships fast
                                                  My girlfriend cannot stay mad at me-
                                                  I- uh- lets miss out on this one
                                                  She already knows all my friends even tho most of them find me annoying
                                                  Uh-hh you saw nothing
                                                  Idk about this one,
                                                  I have the mind of a 5 year old
                                                  Hell nah I'm bullshit

                                                  • Lily Salisbury
                                                    Lily Salisbury  3 days back

                                                    Is it bad that all of these are me...😂

                                                    • Dafadiel
                                                      Dafadiel  3 days back

                                                      I'm a sociopath and thus sounds nothing like me

                                                      • Your Boy Alex
                                                        Your Boy Alex  3 days back

                                                        Welp guys guess who just found out they’re a sociopath

                                                        • Jose Martini
                                                          Jose Martini  3 days back

                                                          Except for the victim role-playing;
                                                          I guess I'm a sociopath.

                                                          • Asia Hobson
                                                            Asia Hobson  3 days back

                                                            I am the sociopath based on these standards 😈💋

                                                            • DauntlessDonut HD
                                                              DauntlessDonut HD  3 days back

                                                              My mother is a Sociopath but my Father doesn’t realize it even when me and my Sibling’s warn him(She’s like a Girl version of Jake Paul)

                                                              • purefunguy
                                                                purefunguy  3 days back

                                                                Good at sex . Sold!

                                                                • Emilio Hernandez
                                                                  Emilio Hernandez  3 days back


                                                                  • Brad Sinacore
                                                                    Brad Sinacore  3 days back

                                                                    Avoid trouble, go MGTOW!

                                                                    • Ashley L.
                                                                      Ashley L.  3 days back

                                                                      My ex.

                                                                      • The Real Love Trance
                                                                        The Real Love Trance  3 days back

                                                                        Great information, and a spot on description of an abuser. So sad. I’ve been a victim. Finding out the truth broke my heart

                                                                        • Skylynn Andujar
                                                                          Skylynn Andujar  3 days back

                                                                          I’m a socio path then I guess

                                                                          • Barnyetta the Dinosaur

                                                                            But some sociopaths can care about certain people. They're not all bad.

                                                                            • Iroc Life
                                                                              Iroc Life  3 days back

                                                                              Haha just described every ex I ever had 😂

                                                                              • KINGDOM COME
                                                                                KINGDOM COME  3 days back

                                                                                well. shit.

                                                                                • Cire Silver
                                                                                  Cire Silver  3 days back

                                                                                  If this is the case the world is RAN by sociopaths, minus the sex...

                                                                                  • Money Mann
                                                                                    Money Mann  3 days back

                                                                                    Hmm so how does pycopath and Sociopath work

                                                                                    • Cas
                                                                                      Cas  3 days back

                                                                                      I'm sorry, but this video is stupid compared to your other videos. There's a difference between being irresponsible and being a sociopath.

                                                                                      • liana Lily
                                                                                        liana Lily  3 days back

                                                                                        Am i a sociopath then because I think I kinda meet some of those criteria 🤔😂

                                                                                        • Ćhŕíśťåľ Bĺåńź

                                                                                          I think I'm a sociopath...Oh shit. This all describes me. And I think my boyfriend is a sociopath as well.

                                                                                          • Paolo Caballero
                                                                                            Paolo Caballero  3 days back

                                                                                            My gf had almost all the symptoms of a psychopath, but all the yes for me is yes, and more yes for her is a no for me. Basically I control everything in our relationship. Is she still a psychopath?

                                                                                            • Star Boy
                                                                                              Star Boy  3 days back

                                                                                              My friends think I’m a sociopath so they showed me this video. I didn’t understand what they were feeling or anything really, I don’t get it.