How To Flirt! 3 Proven Flirting Techniques Men Can't Resist | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs


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  • truending
    truending  1 days back

    Ahahaha is your strategy to ask him to kiss you? Very smart!

    • Milena Perez
      Milena Perez  2 days back


      • Chris A
        Chris A  4 days back

        Matthew this is been so helpful I'm a woman in my late 50s . I decided to try one of the techniques the person I'm very interested in glancing at his lips but just a few seconds I don't know if you know this but I did and we had a wonderful conversation

        • Kimberly Ritchie
          Kimberly Ritchie  6 days back

          Thanks so much for another great video Matt! I will try your suggestions, and we'll see what happens, wish me luck!

          • Debra Smothers
            Debra Smothers  1 weeks back

            I need Help I have played with my hair that didn't work, I wear Sexy Tank Top with no bra on that didn't work what the hell am I doing wrong ?

            • Belinda Melvaine
              Belinda Melvaine  2 weeks back

              Going back and watching Disney movies for dating tips! ๐Ÿ˜‚

              • Rebeca Rojas
                Rebeca Rojas  2 weeks back

                I tried the palm reading...and he loved it..:) in fact keep asking for

                • skucha
                  skucha  2 weeks back

                  ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ Im dying who would have told me I could learn flirting moves from disney

                  • Esperanza Hernandez
                    Esperanza Hernandez  2 weeks back

                    Flirt??? What is that??

                  • Egle Davidsoniene
                    Egle Davidsoniene  2 weeks back

                    My flirting technic wors then yours in this video. Bad for me.

                    • Cindiy Alvarez
                      Cindiy Alvarez  2 weeks back

                      My brain farted

                      • JetBlackBerry
                        JetBlackBerry  2 weeks back

                        Idk, that palm reading thing looks kind of retarded

                        • East Bornn
                          East Bornn  2 weeks back

                          When i flirt Iโ€™ll compliment him while giving eye contact and smile afterwards. Another way i flirt is by touching his hands or grabbing them. Sometimes ill sneak in my hug and gently pull his arm when going opposite directions after hugging. ๐Ÿ˜‰

                          • Rose Garcia
                            Rose Garcia  2 weeks back

                            I find I draw people close to me when I laugh wholeheartedly at what they say. Men, women, children....

                            • Cindy Cin
                              Cindy Cin  2 weeks back

                              I say" its very hot here" to him usually it's's fun he tries to cool me off but im talking about him

                              • awdah homud
                                awdah homud  2 weeks back

                                you really incredible...โš˜

                                • Michelle Mendoza
                                  Michelle Mendoza  2 weeks back

                                  Loved this video. Lol

                                  • First Trillionaire
                                    First Trillionaire  3 weeks back

                                    You ARE AMAZING

                                    • Ciara Boyle
                                      Ciara Boyle  3 weeks back

                                      Wow oh wow let me at Him !!

                                      • Ketty Cabrera
                                        Ketty Cabrera  3 weeks back

                                        I love the hand reading technique!! Please more of this concrete actions, also for texting ๐Ÿค— Iโ€™m dating a marine and heโ€™s away so I need texting techniques hahaha

                                        • ู„ู…ู‰ ุงู„ุดุฑูŠู

                                          The Disney part is hilarious!๐Ÿ˜‚

                                          • FluffyCakes Lives
                                            FluffyCakes Lives  3 weeks back

                                            Hehehe!!! I used that palm reading flirt about 5 years ago!
                                            My partner adored it so much that now he gets turned on when I start caressing his palm!๐Ÿ˜Š

                                            • marian arguelles
                                              marian arguelles  3 weeks back

                                              I will do this to my man. Omg I can't wait to try it!!!!

                                              • Heidi Stotz
                                                Heidi Stotz  3 weeks back

                                                I kind of combine your first two. When we're both laughing at something and maybe I playfully pushed him like... "Stop it. You're too funny." I do the look and the grin, tilt my head to the side all innocent and ask... "Are you ever going to kiss me?" Timing is perfect. It's almost always stellar. I'm definitely incorporating the palm reading one next time though... I'll say... "This line says a girl you like wants you to kiss her." or... "This line says you're a great kisser but I'm not so sure."
                                                Also near the end of a date I don't want to end I ask... So what time do you turn into a pumpkin? Idk... The guys think that's cute. ๐Ÿ’

                                                • FacciaBella5
                                                  FacciaBella5  3 weeks back

                                                  Ive done the kiss me now look without knowing it. It definitely works lol๐Ÿ˜‰

                                                  • Dilly Dalie
                                                    Dilly Dalie  3 weeks back

                                                    oh no way in hell.... no reason to try to find a man, it is so much better to be single. Hassle free life, Freedom, and no money lost, live your life for yourself...!!!!!!!

                                                    • Kavita Malhotra
                                                      Kavita Malhotra  3 weeks back

                                                      Praising him for small things he do, talking about his achievements..

                                                      • Pisces In love
                                                        Pisces In love  3 weeks back


                                                        • Chiara L
                                                          Chiara L  3 weeks back

                                                          Hey Mat! So I've been watching your videos for a while now and they've really helped me. Awesome work! But I also have a question about this guy I've known for 6 months already. I'm 100% sure that he's in love with me, because we text all the time but I don't know when or if he'll ever ask me to be together with him. He constantly keeps telling my friends that "he'll ask me out soon" but now i'm just not sure. what do i do? i need answers please. Love your work, greetings from Austria.

                                                          • Ligeia D.Aurevilly
                                                            Ligeia D.Aurevilly  2 weeks back

                                                            Take a little bit of distance. Change your attitude. Get busy. Let him miss you. Usually that works. If you do have friends in common, you can always ask then to talk with him. But I would use distance. Mostly, it works wonders

                                                        • Jiexi Ai
                                                          Jiexi Ai  3 weeks back

                                                          I was awkward watching you flirt with your wife!๐Ÿ˜‚

                                                          • Ciara Boyle
                                                            Ciara Boyle  3 weeks back

                                                            4:10 very cheeky

                                                          • CoQueen
                                                            CoQueen  3 weeks back

                                                            Do you have an email address you can be reached at?

                                                            • Sheila Diane
                                                              Sheila Diane  3 weeks back

                                                              It always work we look into each others eyes kiss everytime
                                                              We love kissing

                                                              • Rebecca Hoffmann
                                                                Rebecca Hoffmann  3 weeks back

                                                                Very Beautiful wife. Incorporate her in your videos..she's very relatable

                                                                • x y
                                                                  x y  3 weeks back


                                                                  • Lana L
                                                                    Lana L  3 weeks back

                                                                    What does it mean if he grabs my neck from behind and squeezes it lightly while telling me something? I mean I never saw anyone do that I am confused haha

                                                                    • anawonka
                                                                      anawonka  3 weeks back

                                                                      Im single af i dont why i watch all your videos lol

                                                                      • Saro Maliga
                                                                        Saro Maliga  3 weeks back


                                                                        • Kathrina Yeke
                                                                          Kathrina Yeke  3 weeks back

                                                                          Got idea nice video u make im happy to know more

                                                                          • vsboy 25
                                                                            vsboy 25  3 weeks back

                                                                            I like it when a chick is horny af

                                                                            • Tearsof Brionne
                                                                              Tearsof Brionne  3 weeks back

                                                                              Lol now i know why my boyfriend always gives me a kiss because i always does that kiss me look๐Ÿ˜‚ ....i have no idea ...until i watched this video...๐Ÿ˜

                                                                            • Christine Carlos
                                                                              Christine Carlos  3 weeks back

                                                                              Take away:
                                                                              3 Flirting Strategies:
                                                                              1) Kiss me now: for end of the date. You look down & you look up at him.
                                                                              2) The Non Sequitur: complement & admire him about a quality you notice in him while he's telling you a story.
                                                                              3) The fake palm read: caress the lines on his hand & tell him things about him. The more ridiculous, the better.

                                                                            • CraftyLori Lori Simonson

                                                                              Men love it when you pay attention to what they are talking about, so what I do to make it seem like I'm paying attention even if it's something I'm not interested in, is I repeat the appx last three words from their conversation while they're talking to me, for the nascar race was a good one the Chevy cars are fast, me- "Chevy cars are fast" When I repeat what they say it shows interest in a flirty way. I do this at random times during the conversation. It works! Try it sometime.

                                                                              • Ligeia D.Aurevilly
                                                                                Ligeia D.Aurevilly  2 weeks back

                                                                                Haha, you are so funny! Your technique belongs to therapy. What you do, is to let him hear you pay attention to him. Excellent idea, I will take it. I give you one in exchange: to caress his hand, just barely. While saying " you know, that you are irresistible, do you?" You say this without looking at him, then you stare at him with a sweet smile. If the guy doesn't melt with that one, he must go to get counselling. Thanks for your tip!

                                                                            • myoceanrat
                                                                              myoceanrat  3 weeks back

                                                                              So the guy I'm into I know from both church and the gym but I'm not sure if he likes me. He has approached me a few times at the gym to have meaningful conversations and literally just talk when we're done with our workouts.

                                                                              The first time we met I came up to him and said I saw him at the gym before we had a fun convo getting to know each other, and then the next day at the gym we made eye contact and he literally came over to talk for a bit.

                                                                              Next thing I know, I paid a lot more attention to him and could see him watching me in the mirrors. At first I thought it was because he noticed me to say hi, but when I would turn around to say something he wouldn't be looking anymore. One time I went to use the machine by him so he couldn't avoid it and I smiled and he pulled out his earbuds but I didn't want to interrupt my workout by making conversation so I just kept working out and he was kind of shook up and put his earbuds in.

                                                                              Only once at the gym did I come up to him to make convo because he was near a machine I was gonna use - all the other times he approached me. Whenever we do talk we talk for awhile so often I hope he comes over near the end or at the end of my workout.

                                                                              The most interesting thing happened so far was this last Monday I came in and sat on a machine near his but he was in the middle of a set so we both didn't look at each other. I went and did my set and all and then saw him stand up and try to push a weight on the floor with his foot. Now, the weights are rubber so they stick to the floor. It didn't budge at all but he stumbled for a bit and I smiled cuz it was kind of funny, then he looked over and noticed I was looking. He turned bright red and bent down to pick it up and I made light of it by saying that I would have done the same thing, and that once I had kicked a medicine ball and it didn't go very far. He then smiled and responded saying it's not exactly a soccer ball. I then asked him about Easter and we exchanged a few more sentences before getting back to our workouts. I then moved to the other side of the gym to use the cables, before walking to one of my front desk friends who knows I'm into him and she suggested a "gym walk". So we walked around the gym and when we walked past him he looked up and smiled and I was already smiling but it got bigger when I looked at him and he looked down really fast. I then went back to the cables and was doing a set when a bit later I could see in my peripheral vision that he was walking in my direction. He walked a bit then stopped and was just looking. I finished up my set then turned to look, and when I caught his eye he smiled and came over and sat on the machine next to me, literally just to talk. We were having a really good convo for a lengthy amount of time to the point where another irritated dude came over and asked him if he was using the machine. Embarassed, he stood up and said no that he was just being lazy. And the guy grumbles, of course it's the american way to which the guy I'm into got embarassed, but when he looked back at me he smiled again because I was beaming at him - and our convo continued. I laugh a little bit because after awhile he crouched to get more on my level. Then he told me he had a few more machines to do but that he would say goodbye to me before he left. He went to use another machine, as did I, and after he finished in the mirror I could see him watching me - waiting till I was finished with my set before he came over to exchange a few jokes - I was like I'll see you (insert day I see him at church group) and he said yes he'd be there - and then say goodbye.

                                                                              I don't know what it means, but I don't want to get my hopes up for anything. If anyone has any thoughts or advice I'd be glad to hear it.

                                                                              • Janice Evans
                                                                                Janice Evans  2 weeks back

                                                                                +myoceanrat look... no man looks or spends time if it's not an investment. Just enjoy the chat and the flirting and keep cool :) if he's smart... he'll dig you! :) xxx

                                                                              • myoceanrat
                                                                                myoceanrat  2 weeks back

                                                                                +Janice Evans Are you sure I'm not just overthinking things? :/

                                                                              • Janice Evans
                                                                                Janice Evans  3 weeks back

                                                                                He obviously likes you. Just chill & enjoy the journey :)

                                                                            • D. Zaster
                                                                              D. Zaster  3 weeks back

                                                                              I haven't done any of them. Last guy I thought was cute enough to flirt with was married. Sigh

                                                                              • itsadate10
                                                                                itsadate10  3 weeks back

                                                                                Ok Matt I have an ex air Force, SWAT/EMT, 30 year cop, childhood sweetheart..back in touch after 30 years...I send certain songs and he says those are goopy....can he not be romantic.?? I so want this to work....we are 56, been divorced and are going on road trip after texting and talking across country for 7 months...

                                                                                • Tina Leeth
                                                                                  Tina Leeth  2 weeks back

                                                                                  Check out Keep the Wolves away Uncle Lucious, may work better - save the GOOP for later

                                                                              • charleen hopkins
                                                                                charleen hopkins  3 weeks back

                                                                                the look mostly, but i use a voice too.

                                                                                • Elite
                                                                                  Elite  3 weeks back

                                                                                  The first move was good. I thought the second move was a bit cringy. But the third one.... nah. Not my thing.