Dating Tips For Women Of All Ages - Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy

  • Published: 03 April 2016
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    I can’t tell you how many women have asked me the same question: “Why do I only seem to EVER meet guys that are completely the wrong age for me?”

    Or to put it more simply (as one client asked me): “Where are all the great, single, 40-year old men hiding??”

    Like it or not, we all know that age is a factor in dating. But so many people waste years moaning about where they are in life (I’m too old, I’m too young…) instead of doing something about it.

    Often it’s not about age at all. We use that as our crutch, when really, if we’re truly honest with ourselves, maybe we just aren’t being pro-active enough right now and investing in the CRUCIAL STRATEGIES that would bring us closer to finding love.

    So in this week’s video, I’m going to share some down-to-earth, PRACTICAL tips for finding a guy no matter what age you are


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Comments • 338

  • Mochilas Wayuu Bags
    Mochilas Wayuu Bags  3 days back

    women over 30 are undateable, a depreciating asset

    • opalfishy
      opalfishy  1 weeks back

      Red flags here —>

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          • FreedMan76
            FreedMan76  1 months back

            I would be interested if a woman got down on her knees and begged forgiveness for all her kind have done, acknowledged the sacrifices men have made, and promised that I would feel nothing but love for the rest of my life. Anything short of that and I'm happy to be mgtow.

            • Janice Hylton
              Janice Hylton  1 months back

              Make such sense💖

              • Anton tanauntean
                Anton tanauntean  2 months back

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                • Flirt Chatting
                  Flirt Chatting  2 months back


                  • 2012stang302
                    2012stang302  2 months back

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                      øh  2 months back


                  • Britaney Burnett
                    Britaney Burnett  5 months back

                    Thank you very much. ....... ....... .😊😊☺☺

                    • Crypto Jihadi
                      Crypto Jihadi  5 months back

                      Wanting a woman that's still young and attractive as opposed to a used up post wall 40 - 50 something with kids, equals having midlife crisis?

                      Lmfao. The narcissism of women is amazing.

                      • Gabriella Ross
                        Gabriella Ross  6 months back


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                          Ana Diaz  6 months back

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                          • Louise Mullins
                            Louise Mullins  6 months back

                            My problem is I live in a very rural area. I have a great job, retirement is just around the corner, and moving to a larger area 60 miles away is not economically feasiable.

                          • NOTHING COMPARES
                            NOTHING COMPARES  6 months back


                            • tua madre 85
                              tua madre 85  6 months back

                              What a simp!!

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                                • Jeka Lambert
                                  Jeka Lambert  8 months back

                                  I'm interested in art. Over 20 years ago, I followed Matthew's advice and took classes that I was interested in because I was interested in the subject, but thought I might meet someone. Back then, 100% of the students in the classes I took were women. I've been teaching art for more than 15 years. In that time, I've had 2 - count them - TWO men in my classes. I've belonged to drawing groups that were 98% women and the men were nice, but not guys I'd date. I've gone on museum tours. Again, mostly women, a few couples, and sometimes a gay man...Can you offer better advice?

                                  • Jeka Lambert
                                    Jeka Lambert  7 months back

                                    Johnny, I agree with you about hanging out where I'm likely to meet men. Matthew's advice was to do things that interest me as a way of meeting men who share my interests. Just saying, I've done it without finding cheese. Online dating is much more productive than pretending to like sports or as someone who doesn't drink or dance, hanging out in bars or clubs.

                                  • Johnny Tramain
                                    Johnny Tramain  7 months back

                                    Jeka Lambert: Stop wasting your life hanging around areas were men aren't and find out and hang where men are.
                                    So you took matthew,s advice 20 years ago and still don't have a man I hope you didn't pay for it. You spent 15 years teaching a class that a total of 2 men took. When do you think you might figure out your wasting your time?

                                • Shyamali Dey
                                  Shyamali Dey  9 months back

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                                    Johnny Tramain  7 months back

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                                • LoveMe,com
                                  LoveMe,com  9 months back

                                  Matthew Hussey is a great adviser. He wanted us to come to the realization that we should not allow our emotions to control us especially when we like someone.

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                                  • M Medina
                                    M Medina  10 months back

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                                      MaddogWood  10 months back

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                                        • Mario Bruni
                                          Mario Bruni  10 months back

                                          She can first tske care of her son.a 15 year old son should be her main priority. He's her treasure...she should wait for her son to be settled first then when he's 20 is and up and running then go out when she's sort of single and carefree. Tell her to make a.lidt as to what she brings to the table that way the guy can make s sensible decision

                                          • Mario Bruni
                                            Mario Bruni  10 months back

                                            She should be looking to date 8 years older 65 ish..

                                            • The Anh
                                              The Anh  10 months back

                                              Great Video,thank you for your tips! I also just started Youtube and would be more than happy if you guys checked my first video,which gives you 7 easy tips for your first date :). Thanks Matthew!

                                              • Md. Asif Hossain Joardar
                                                Md. Asif Hossain Joardar  10 months back

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                                                • joclueless84
                                                  joclueless84  11 months back

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                                                  • Rebekah Jiracek
                                                    Rebekah Jiracek  11 months back

                                                    This is actually really good advise. Thank you! I need to stop being so miserable and blaming myself for my ex leaving me and get out there and meet a better guy.

                                                    • Shelley Viohl
                                                      Shelley Viohl  11 months back

                                                      Omg. This is exactly what I needed. Thanks Matt.

                                                      • Musician_for_life46
                                                        Musician_for_life46  11 months back


                                                        • kimberly Rousseau
                                                          kimberly Rousseau  1 years back

                                                          I’m 57 Married 34 years. Single now I need help ... I just stay to myself intimidated I guess.maybe this info can help. It don’t matter 27 37 57 feels the same where the heart is concerned,? Confidence is more difficult as i get older .. thank you

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                                                            • Lavannya Goradia
                                                              Lavannya Goradia  1 years back

                                                              You told me what I exactly wanted to know Matthew! You're fantastic. Its like you are telling my story. I have been divorced for 4 years now and being active on Dating apps has me the same experience you're speaking about here. :) Am gonna go out and do what i really wanna do. Thank you

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                                                                Pedro Alb  1 years back

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                                                                • Gratitude
                                                                  Gratitude  1 years back

                                                                  I’m in LDR with a much younger man. He is supporting me in what I do and is very mature . What your take on 1:
                                                                  LDR ( we are planning to move in together when the time is right na we still love each other (no longer 2 years)
                                                                  2. What do you think of a marriage where a woman is much older than her husband. ?

                                                                  • Gratitude
                                                                    Gratitude  11 months back

                                                                    I wish we have all figured out, but we don’t , not yet, if ever as a relationship is a winding journey not a straight line . Life throws curves and obstacles we need to figure out if we need to jump over or walk around them .

                                                                    I love the idea of couples’ counselling. I though of it briefly but for a different purpose , to see if we have got enough to thrive in our relationship sort of use that person like a crystal ball 🔮.
                                                                    You’ve shed a different light on it and I appreciate that. I’m sure we can benefit and learn about our gender roles in our relationship as well. Another reason for the councillor would be the that we are from different cultures. We don’t notice obvious differences that have come up, but want to dig in little deeper to see if the ones we find are complimentary or we need to work on them .

                                                                    Very well said Adam.
                                                                    Your story gave me several ideas and guidelines to apply in my relationship. It is already a first counselling session, it is from you .
                                                                    Thank you for sharing your journey with me and the world. All the best.

                                                                  • Adam
                                                                    Adam  11 months back

                                                                    Cool it sounds like you already have a plan and a path ahead. That's what I've learned from strong women, the importance of having a direction and goals. Gender roles have changed and now women are more in leadership roles and men are struggling to follow and I believe the problem is trust more than ego. Women need to demonstrate they can lead a man and so our ego doesn't get disturbed women have to also allow men to be men and this can only happen with a LOT of communication and education.

                                                                    Even if a woman is in charge and doesn't need a man our instincts are always gonna be to give to women and to protect them. That is why men are intimidated cause we ask ourselves: "What can I possibly offer this woman?" It's kinda our own macho way of nurturing and looking after women we love, we want to _give_ to them. And most men think money is the only thing they can give. My girlfriend and I started to see a couples counselor in order to figure it all out and she's been wonderful. In one of the meetings she taught my wife how she has to relax and allow me to man-up and allow me opportunities to earn her trust. I also had to learn to find other ways to provide for her not just by throwing cash at her since she earns more than me.

                                                                    She also told me that males are creative and energetic so just use that energy and creativity to find other ways to provide for her. So I did, I figured out that not just my girlfriend but all women prize devotion and loyalty above money. So ever since I have been providing my girlfriend with devotion in all kinds of little ways and it serves as a constant reinforcement to her that I'm serious. I help and support her in her career, I take over chores when she's tired, sometimes I just do whatever pops into my head like sneak out of bed early and get her breakfast or just to amuse her (and myself) I do some of the house chores without a shirt just to tease her. Just a whole bunch of little things like that.

                                                                    Not being able to see our place in a relationship with a strong woman is the #1 reason men are intimidated. That sends a signal that we are beneath women. But also, women need to learn how to lead. Women are now empowered but they don't know what that means, they haven't yet figured out all the new tools and opportunities your gender has. Such as the power to choose the man you want and to create your own standards. You do not depend on a man so now you're free and empowered to choose the one that you want and not because you need one. This intimidates men because it means we have to step up and actually work at living up to women's standards and if we want a chance with a woman we have to follow her rules.

                                                                    But most women don't bother making the rules clear or they're not aware that being in charge means making the rules and that only further confuses guys. In our sessions with our counselor my girlfriend and I have talked about what her expectations and standards are and how I'm gonna live up to them and also where my limits are and how I can fix it if I screw up. It is soooooo much easier and stress-free when I know what I'm supposed to do and specially when I have a lot of room to stand out from other men and use my masculine instincts. This allows most women to relax having a man in her house so she can fall back on her own feminine instincts and together balance each other out. When I'm taking charge of things for her she becomes very nurturing and relaxed. She enjoys it when I take charge even though she can do it herself and while I'm at the wheel she feels free to act more feminine and nurturing and that in turn energizes me and motivates me to be more devoted to her.

                                                                    But just know that as a woman you can't stay in that comfortable passenger seat forever. As a strong woman you are in charge and if you relax for too long a guy can get confused and our roles will get blurred and cause friction. It's like you said, there needs to be a job performance review periodically in order to stay on track so a man knows his place and a woman knows hers. That's how you maintain stability. A easy way to say what our gender roles are is like our counselor said: Woman is the Queen and the man is her knight.

                                                                  • Gratitude
                                                                    Gratitude  11 months back

                                                                    Thank you Adam for your insightful comment .
                                                                    I can relate closely to your girlfriend. I am a strong woman as well. My boyfriend knows I don’t need him, but I want him if we continue growing together. I don’t need to be supported by a man and I will be earning more when we are together.
                                                                    I realize that many men may be intimidated by strong independent women not being able to see his place in the relationship. Men don’t like to be lead by a women as that may hurt their ego. That is a society influence and traditions from the past where women were to bare children and serve the husband.
                                                                    If a woman truly loves her man she won’t be egotistical and will not go above him showing that he is inferior to her education wise or financially.
                                                                    We come from different backgrounds of education and culture . I realize and accept him with the greatness he possesses and learn how to handle his flaws . Open Communication is very important.
                                                                    I am asking difficult questions each and every day opening an opportunity to be asked as well .
                                                                    My relationship is new in comparison to yours .
                                                                    We have committed to each other and have a great hope to be together
                                                                    , but everything is on day by day . Week by week basis but planning our future together. Each day we plan and review or relationship. It is like a job performance review.
                                                                    We are going to meet in 10 days for several weeks . We will be meeting every few months until I graduate from my program. Hopefully we will be still together. He will move in with me for some time . By then we will have known each other for 2.5 years . At that point we will reach a decision whether we want to stay as a couple or go separate ways .
                                                                    Is it an easy process?
                                                                    It’s not but it may work. We believe we have a great chance for what everyone wants in life which is true long lasting love . We believe we’ve got what it takes to create a successful relationship.

                                                                    Thank you for your story Adam. Congratulations on your successful relationship! All the best !🤟🏽🤞🏾

                                                                  • Adam
                                                                    Adam  11 months back

                                                                    Distance relationships are very tricky, as a guy I can tell you it is much easier to support a woman from a distance when we don't have to be there with her in the thick of it. Not so easy when we are side by side with the woman we love toughing out it in the trenches. My girlfriend is also older than me, she's a strong and independent woman in the true sense of the words because she has a strong career, she earns more than average men, and doesn't really need a man in her life. I still fell in love with her and despite all that I took the leap forward to try my luck with her. She accepted me though not without first putting me to her own little test to see if I was sincere or just bullshiting her.

                                                                    At first I was way below her standards but since she gave me a change I have been working to improve myself and live up to her expectations, since she saw that I was trying she also helped by by doing what very few women do: Actually talking to me and telling me what she expects from me instead of leaving it all for me to guess.

                                                                    we have been dating for 2 years now and all this time we have gotten to know each other, she finally asked me if I was ok with moving in with her (she owns her own house) in case I insecure about it (which I was). After thinking about it for a bit I decided to just go for it and here I am. Best choice I ever made. But I could never have made this choice if I didn't know her so intimately to begin with. Women like her can be intimidating as hell for a man. I had to learn to trust her as much as she has to learn to trust me. I had to know she wasn't just gonna use me since she doesn't need me or that she wasn't going to emasculate me or degrade me in the eyes of the world whenever I screwed up and made her mad.

                                                                    She's almost 10 years older than me so I don't think age matters. But what does matter is knowing each other and when your in a long distance relationships that could turn into a problem.

                                                                • Jerome Cheung
                                                                  Jerome Cheung  1 years back

                                                                  i can feel the cum already

                                                                  • Jerome Cheung
                                                                    Jerome Cheung  1 years back

                                                                    omg you suck

                                                                    • Jennifer Watson
                                                                      Jennifer Watson  1 years back

                                                                      What if you have great chemistry with a guy, and many things in common that even makes you great friends, he displays all the classic signs of being into you, but hes in an unhappy relationship but doesnt seem to be making any moves to leave?

                                                                      • Jennifer Watson
                                                                        Jennifer Watson  1 years back

                                                                        purpleanex well, as we havent had sex, or even touched each other at all in any manner, I find that to be hard to believe but thanks for the verbal battering youre willing to dish out in the name of "help"

                                                                      • purpleanex
                                                                        purpleanex  1 years back

                                                                        Jennifer Walton ...lmfao...he's using you for sex, because you're an easy lay, he has no interest in you as a person, he just makes the right noises to make you think there's "chemistry", you're an idiot.

                                                                    • mischief 24
                                                                      mischief 24  1 years back

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                                                                      • Omer Raffas
                                                                        Omer Raffas  1 years back

                                                                        When he said ur young ,, It made really comfortable ,, though I'm 28 and feeling uncomfortable at this age already :)

                                                                        • Nenad Jovanovic
                                                                          Nenad Jovanovic  1 years back

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                                                                          • Noscopesnaughti
                                                                            Noscopesnaughti  1 years back

                                                                            Guys are industrious. If you can play videogames after putting on your make up. Gold. Think about it. Guys 40 plus. The're already on thier path. Thier focused on what they want cause there guna fucking die. Remember all that girl drama shit y'all used to do to ur girls to see if the girl you hated reacts? Do the same thing without the drama but work towards getting that guys attention. Don't be shy he'll notice. If he's a dick about it then he's missing out. Welcome to the world of 80% of guys. P. S. It's not a joy ride.

                                                                            • Therealguy
                                                                              Therealguy  1 years back

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                                                                              • flowgo
                                                                                flowgo  1 years back

                                                                                thats me, 30 year old booty call, I am 52, 15 year daughter, dating a player, dumped him for a lovely down to earth guy, and he GHOSTS me after 2 months. WTF

                                                                                • purpleanex
                                                                                  purpleanex  1 years back

                                                                                  flowgo're too old, how is that hard to understand. The men are only using you for easy sex, though personally I'd prefer on who can actually still get wet.

                                                                              • ElvisnRick
                                                                                ElvisnRick  1 years back

                                                                                All men are going MGTOW ..check it out on You Tube .. hundreds of uploads from different people .

                                                                                • Adam
                                                                                  Adam  11 months back

                                                                                  If you search for MGTOW YouTube produces over 421,000 video results. That's about half a million! So it's not hundreds, it's hundreds of _thousands._

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