What He's Thinking When He Ignores You | Relationship Advice For Women By Mat Boggs


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  • Xyz Xyz
    Xyz Xyz  1 days back

    Thank u so much!

    • JuicyFruityify
      JuicyFruityify  2 days back

      Correct. If I'm ignoring you I'm making a conscious effort to not to allow you or anything about you to 'swat' on even a tiny bit of real estate space in my mind. I'm a good, caring and thoughtful guy. If I have to do this, you have done something to me that is so bad that I don't care if I never see you again and that I shouldnt have had anything to do with you in the first place. I'm ignoring my ex-girl because she was a tool and lacks the basic skill set to maintain a relationship: immature, inability to communicate, emotional unavailability, avoidant attachment issues, low self esteem, manipulative, devious, player like tendencies, daddy issues, low empathy and compassion, inability to resolve issues by looking inward, just drama non stop. I want her to find someone else to burden with her BS. If ignoring her drives her away...Great!!! I'm living effortlessly and comfortably without her.✨✨

      • Alexis Mapstone
        Alexis Mapstone  2 days back

        My attention goes somewhere else.

        • Angie Barrera
          Angie Barrera  2 days back

          I was dating a man for 7years and went out of town for memorial weekend can back Monday morning and called him and has not called me back since then. How can you move on when you love this man and thought everything was going great 🥺

          • Li'l Sebastian's Ghost

            This is bullshit. I am ignoring a woman I am madly in love with. Why? Because I’m stupid.

            • Sea Mee
              Sea Mee  3 days back

              I don’t think they think about what your thinking. Men r forgetful. They see your text and think “Who is this”?

              • Veronica Gheorghe
                Veronica Gheorghe  3 days back

                Thank you 🙏

                • Cristabel Palomarez
                  Cristabel Palomarez  4 days back

                  I control my irrational thoughts and work on increasing my faith... I also keep busy... As much as possible...

                  • Pitbulls Forever
                    Pitbulls Forever  4 days back

                    What is a guy thinking when he's ignoring you?...who gives a sh*t, ignore him right back.

                    • Princess Sparkle
                      Princess Sparkle  4 days back

                      Your wife is very lucky xx

                      • Van Nguyen
                        Van Nguyen  5 days back

                        I went on date with a guy lately, while he kept claiming he’s not trying to get laid, he stopped texting after he found out that I wouldn’t sleep with him. The moment I felt that ‘principle called scarcity’, I was lucky to also realize I did not even like him right before I met him that last time. The funny thing is tho I’m fully aware that I did not have intention to keep hanging out with the guy, I was still influenced by the fact he disappeared. I’m sure many men using this lil trick on us women and it actually efficiently works. So be smart ladies. Don’t fall in love too fast, don’t give too much, don’t give all hope to someone. Be smart in love.
                        P/S: I found no problem with couples having sex before marriage. But I’d say the guy was not into me, he’d have used me if he could. So anyway, be smart.

                        • Silvia Badillo
                          Silvia Badillo  6 days back

                          When ignored I don't care I just keep going on with my life till they text me first, they just wanna feel important🤨. Don't chase man girls we need to love and respect ourselves more.

                          • Hannah Hlordji
                            Hannah Hlordji  6 days back

                            Thank you very much Matt

                            • MsVanityCharm
                              MsVanityCharm  6 days back

                              I use to be one of those girls that he mentioned in the video many years ago. Then I learned to become my own best friend and have a weekly social gathering with diff groups of friends & families. I am super passionate about my career and financially I am secure and have decent amount of savings and investments. In short, I am just being the best PHD of myself so even if relationship fails, my life still goes on.

                              • Gail Fisher
                                Gail Fisher  6 days back

                                🌸 I couldn’t stop laughing, I don’t think women do this....surely not
                                No use analysing every little thing in life,
                                I’m usually so engrossed in my life don’t notice anything

                                Some guys are just trying to catch up on stuff they neglected
                                Or they have issues in their life, don’t take everything personally

                                And then there are types that actually use this as tactic

                                • Darkus Robinson
                                  Darkus Robinson  7 days back

                                  Awesome advice

                                  • tinker jedi
                                    tinker jedi  7 days back

                                    Hahaha I love your advice and your humor you throw in all your videos!

                                    • Tracy van der merwe
                                      Tracy van der merwe  1 weeks back

                                      It's not just about being in love with someone...its about being best friends and being able to give one another space and trust and not push one another...its hard because we all want attention...and deep down we all want to be somebody's special person

                                      • Dee Luu
                                        Dee Luu  1 weeks back

                                        I don't give him the time of day...

                                        • JoJo hanna
                                          JoJo hanna  1 weeks back

                                          I want what I can't have. True.

                                          • Nadine Wright
                                            Nadine Wright  1 weeks back

                                            What a wonderful video

                                            • Delisha Envy
                                              Delisha Envy  1 weeks back

                                              Ok so what if you are both in bad unhappy relationships and have found eachother? I know all about his family he knows about mine.

                                              • Cheryl Smith
                                                Cheryl Smith  1 weeks back

                                                I give up...im not a shrink

                                                • B V
                                                  B V  2 weeks back

                                                  If a guy ignores you he's fucking someone else. If a girl ignores she is fucking someone else. Stop being so needy and just move on. If someone can't treat you with respect you're better of with out them man or woman.

                                                  • Dianne Brown
                                                    Dianne Brown  2 weeks back

                                                    Forgot to mention we’ve never met never laid eyes on each other I’ve seen pictures of him he sees pictures of me on Facebook he sends me pictures he’s working a long time so we have never met a friend of mine got us together he will be home soon is what he saying

                                                    • Dianne Brown
                                                      Dianne Brown  2 weeks back

                                                      OK my boyfriend we been together for quite a while we sort of broke up in last December 2018 because he was talking to another woman he lied about it he denied it but I know these things. He hasn’t talk to me so I figured OK fine I found another boy friend and it didn’t last very long January 30 2019 we start talking again I told him about my new boyfriend he wasn’t too happy of course then we kept talking to each other then in May 25 2019. He told me we were talking texting he says “I want you” I want 100% love from you total loyalty and commitment I don’t want to share anybody with you. He also told me not to talk to other men well it goes both ways right if I can’t talk to other men he shouldn’t be talking to other women. And he still is because I’ve noticed on messenger how long he has been on when he is active and how long he’s been active he keeps telling me he’s not talking to another woman but I know he is because I’ve saw things the last time it happened. He says he wants me that he loves me what am I supposed to do I love him very very much I want to be with him for the rest of my life he wants to be with me for the rest of his life but yet he’s denying about talking to another woman. What am I to do. Please help me

                                                      • Angeline Koh
                                                        Angeline Koh  2 weeks back

                                                        Move on with our life! Don’t waste time on all those ppls who don’t appreciate us!

                                                        • Claudia Chaidez
                                                          Claudia Chaidez  2 weeks back

                                                          Do you ignore them back when they ignore you ? How you get book 21 love affirmations

                                                          • Claudia Chaidez
                                                            Claudia Chaidez  2 weeks back

                                                            What if they act sweet and then hes talking to me after a long time that he stop talking to me then he ignores you

                                                            • Hazel Eyez
                                                              Hazel Eyez  2 weeks back

                                                              By the way sir I am truly loving your videos with is good advice when it comes to men 💯.. especially when you don't have the right people to talk to or they don't give good advice

                                                              • Hazel Eyez
                                                                Hazel Eyez  2 weeks back

                                                                To be real people come and go we all live once who plays games, nobody likes to play games because it will leave you to do crazy things and it will lead you to be in prison.

                                                                • Hazel Eyez
                                                                  Hazel Eyez  2 weeks back

                                                                  One place that I most definitely. Don't need to be 💯💯

                                                              • Hazel Eyez
                                                                Hazel Eyez  2 weeks back

                                                                I don't play games but there is an old saying that goes like this treat others the way you want to be treated.... Yeah that used to work for me so you want to know what works for me for the past multiple years I treat others the way they treat me but if I'm interested in that person more spoil them a little bit more yes I do have a good heart. I just hate and it pisses me off when people takes my kindness and my smile for weakness.

                                                                • PaulieDann
                                                                  PaulieDann  2 weeks back

                                                                  when someone that i like ignores me, i look my self into the mirror, makeup my beautiful face and go out dancing or doing something that reminds me i'm awesome and self-dependent

                                                                  • Neel Pomi
                                                                    Neel Pomi  2 weeks back

                                                                    He is ignoring me becaue last time we met we are happy and talking about our relationship every thing was good but i try to use his cell phone he is like baby give it here i wana show a song i was like ok then i dont know why i feel that why he said baby give me my mobile and then i ask him do you really love me if not plz tell me i cry a little bit he was worried that i couldn't belive him 😞 then i apologize him and he is ok and then i came to home text him i am at home he said ok next day i talk to him he is not interested in the conversation i said to him whenever your mood is ok talk to me then i text him next day he didn't reply me 😥 Next day he said to me i don't want to talk to you right now because yo don't believe me i know its my mistake 😔 i have to believe him but he said i love you but don't want to talk with you for sometime 2 days passed we don't talk with eachother 😭😭 plzzz tell me what should i do plzzz 😔 i love him

                                                                    • Shevis Robinson
                                                                      Shevis Robinson  2 weeks back

                                                                      I pull away and I need to walk away from this guy

                                                                      • Sonie Ayson-schmidt
                                                                        Sonie Ayson-schmidt  2 weeks back

                                                                        Just love listening to you. Love your sense of humor

                                                                        • Spooky Spectre
                                                                          Spooky Spectre  2 weeks back

                                                                          😂 The crime scene was too funny. So true. I'm too damn analytical. We women need to stop being a "jerk" detective and let the corpse be buried already.

                                                                          • Rose _dollhouse_singer
                                                                            Rose _dollhouse_singer  2 weeks back

                                                                            when he start ignoring . . i will sing my heart out instead of telling my feelings and send him a song. 😂but i still care about him after 5month ignoring, sometimes short reply! coz he never block me on DM.coz i begged him. i want at least be his friend coz why not? all we did was sending text messages though we were in love . it was long distance relationships. we promised to meet up but he told me forget about all the promises we made. he found a girl near him. so, i should forget him but Î can't unfollow him though he unfollowed me. . iam glad at least he is on Dm. though he doesn't answer me. 😂 ok, i will stop chasing him this time! 😭😭

                                                                            • rissa moxin
                                                                              rissa moxin  2 weeks back

                                                                              wooow im in this now.. it sucks that i never had received some messages in 2 days now.i didn't know what happen.i didn't know what did i done wrong?maybe he is not really in to me.even he's telling me that i am just the girl he had now..i don't know yet what to do. but I'm starting to find a solution to not think of him.its really sucks my day.coz i can't stop thinking of him..but it helps me when I'm thinking that "he is not the right guy you are looking for.he is not worthy of your love."you deserve someone better girl"so i took off the notifications.and i don't touch my phone and keeps myself busy..thanks for this video coz your helping us enhancing our ability to become more positive in everything..girls out there if he pulls away better you have too as well.coz if that man is truly yours he will be just easy to everything no matter how busy he is.coz he is not scared to show how he's in to you.that how truly man is.goodluck to every girls out there.dont be stuck up. !!continue to find the man of your dreams!!!coz i believe that before we can get to the top of our goals we need to encounter a lots of struggles..someone out there is searching for your love.so find him/her 😍❤

                                                                              • joetca
                                                                                joetca  2 weeks back

                                                                                I'm ignoring you because you aren't approachable.

                                                                                • Julie P
                                                                                  Julie P  3 weeks back

                                                                                  As soon as I feel and notice his level of interest declining, I pull back as well. I stop initiating any text or communication and refocus my attention on myself again. It sucks but it helps you get over investing anymore of your time into something that is clearly not going to work.

                                                                                  • vrinda bk
                                                                                    vrinda bk  3 weeks back

                                                                                    I always adopt strategy no 2 .... sometimes 3 also ......

                                                                                    And after a 3 days strategy no 1

                                                                                    • Riz Guevarra
                                                                                      Riz Guevarra  3 weeks back

                                                                                      Respect his actions.

                                                                                      • Tania Jones
                                                                                        Tania Jones  3 weeks back

                                                                                        it's fine to send a txt of concern after not hearing from said guy for a minimum of a week,but if he does not respond,do not send another msg.
                                                                                        You're jst setting yourself up for rejection. No response after concerned txt is no big deal, but double txting/etc. .will have douchebag guy thinking he's Mr. Hotshot.
                                                                                        At least you still have your pride intact

                                                                                        • Dee Dee
                                                                                          Dee Dee  3 weeks back

                                                                                          The TRUTH is men don’t have an urgency of time on them but women do!! Women are judged and selected most times based on our beauty and there is so much time to be beautiful or window to have children (nature) however a 70 year old man can get a 25 year old woman pregnant and men have more options to chose from! We as woman have to use our time wisely and sad thing is we waste it on a man playing games

                                                                                          • kelli gonsalves
                                                                                            kelli gonsalves  3 weeks back

                                                                                            your so funny! I guess when you grow up with all guys on a ranch you learn more to think like them , what I do is if they are pulling away I text one time if there is no response then I just take there number out of my phone. I don't get myself all worked up because number 1 it's not me like you said ,2 and I don't have that kinda time in my life to deal with "or dose he like me , or what ever comes to peoples minds. I just let it go for my own sake. Women need to understand that not all men are right for them ,and men need to no most women , like myself will not be chaseing after them at allllll. not my circus not my monkeys .

                                                                                            • Alice Juhnett Unson
                                                                                              Alice Juhnett Unson  3 weeks back

                                                                                              Oooohhhh I delete their numbers 😊

                                                                                              • Tracy Morgan
                                                                                                Tracy Morgan  3 weeks back

                                                                                                I've listened to lots of relationship gurus but you are by far the best. Your voice is very soothing to listen to and your advice spot on! You have a new subscriber!