How to attract men - with no effort...

  • Published: 27 March 2019
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    How To Attract Men With MINIMAL Effort… 7 Tips

    Yeah, if there’s a superpower to be had, I’m betting you’d like this one – Knowing exactly how to attract men.

    And with almost no effort.

    Sound interesting?

    I’m sure it does. After all, it’s the holy grail of relationship freedom. You could literally choose the kind of man you want and make him yours.

    Even if he’s out of your league!

    Well, that’s what we’re going to discuss here today.

    It all comes down to science, really. There’s no magic to it. You just have to know what men are looking for and then give it to ’em!

    And no, I’m not talking about jumping into bed with him. In reality, that doesn’t make a man attracted to you. I’ll explain more about why in just a bit.

    It all really comes down to evolutionary science – the ways that we evolved to suit the needs of our environment.

    So if you want to know how to attract men with minimal effort, I think I’ve got what you’re looking for.

    Let’s get started with some basics…

    What You Don’t Know About How To Attract Men

    First, men feel TWO kinds of attraction:


    It’s true. Men have these two distinct ways that they feel attraction to a woman, and most women think it’s all about the appearance.

    Sure, a man does need to feel that chemistry with you, but he also needs to feel something more powerful in his CORE to really fall in love.

    Sexual attraction is what a guy feels when he finds your appearance sexually appealing. This is what guys mean when they say you’re “hot.”

    Guys are pre-programmed to see certain parts of a woman.

    He looks at her chest because that tells him if she could nourish a baby – and that she’s of the right age…

    He looks at her hips and butt because that tells him if she could bear children without a risk to her health – and again, if she’s of age…

    He looks at her hair to see if she’s healthy (the sheen of your hair is a strong indicator of your health)

    There are a ton more indicators like this – visual indications – and he looks at all of them to see if you would be a great prospect as a “mom.”

    Betcha didn’t know this was going on behind the scenes, right?

    Okay now –

    Spiritual attraction is what a guy feels when he feels like you might be “The One” for him. He feels like you could be his soulmate.

    Now before you go bonkers thinking that guys don’t think this way – think again!

    Men are actually MORE likely to consider a woman a potential soulmate than she would. He’s quicker to assume a certain woman is “The One” for him. Women take a lot more time to make this decision.

    He’s looking at a lot of subtle other indications that you are going to meet some of the psychological qualities he needs. Like loyalty, resilience, and stability.

    He needs to know you’ve got good character – and that you will still be able to nurture HIM at the end of the day, after he’s done hunting mammoths.

    Well, okay- guys don’t have to do THAT anymore, but you see where the behavior got started.

    Okay, now it’s on to my –

    7 Tips for How To Attract Men – with little to NO effort…

    How To Attract Men – Tip #1: Be as Girly As You Can…

    I have a feeling this will be one of the most controversial tips I can offer you. But it’s also the most TRUE.

    The more manly a man is, the more he’s attracted to what we think of as “Feminine” traits. The more testosterone he’s got going on his system, the more he’s going to look for a girly girl to counter it and compliment it.

    You may have even noticed this in the real world, in the opposite way. If a guy is a bit on the “soft” and dainty side, he tends to fall towards a woman that most matches his opposite. So he winds up with a woman who is more dominating, more controlling, and less feminine.

    Fortunately, this is only a small percentage of the population. But if you were to compare today to 30 years ago, the difference in men’s (and women’s) behavior would probably startle you.

    Let me say this another way, and I’ll be more direct:

    Men are attracted to ...

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Comments • 66

  • Mr. Thanos the predators hunter

    Ladies.... Ladies....
    Attracting men is easiest thing a woman can do..
    Just give a good sexy smile, now we are your :-)
    Edit - don't give extra dose otherwise he will die because of heart attack and heart attack will caused by super excitement so make sure not to give overdose..

    • Bhushita Mahanta
      Bhushita Mahanta  3 weeks back

      Spiritual is good. ❤️

      • DEbby simelane
        DEbby simelane  4 weeks back


        • Queen Sumo
          Queen Sumo  4 weeks back

          I love him💕

          • Shatari Holmes
            Shatari Holmes  1 months back

            When he need me he always asking me for money or food but i cant get nothing back from him help me what u think

          • Shatari Holmes
            Shatari Holmes  1 months back

            If your man say he not cheating but he always get caught up texting girls or them calling !! him on messager and he dont pick up and say he dont know who she is...but tell me he gotta go to the bathroom and than he calls them back and i heard him say ima call u back he was in there a while and i told him why u on the phone with another lady he tells me i told her im with my lady i said if u dont know her why explain he get mad with me

          • Dulce Padilla
            Dulce Padilla  1 months back

            Carlos the problem nowadays is that many folks just want to play games so it's not that simple finding someone.... If there is one thing I really hate is people taking my valuable time. I just don't have time for the games and if that's the case I rather stay single. It's called self love!

            • SevySp
              SevySp  1 months back

              That's true, but if you are not playing games yourself (consciously or subconsciously), you won't be attracted to those people in the first place. That's how you dodge them. By simply not being into that.

          • VapeKing
            VapeKing  1 months back

            As a 46yo male I find that what men need more of is a hint or flirt to know you are attracted. Most men will not approach someone unless they are pretty sure that interest is shown and even then some men may need a little more to get the hint.

            • Mr. Thanos the predators hunter
              Mr. Thanos the predators hunter  2 days back

              @nofy bn, what is those risks??
              We men take risks for greater reward..

            • nofy bn
              nofy bn  3 weeks back

              It is your job to take the risk. There is no risk. Far more risk for us.

            • royalty085
              royalty085  1 months back

              Just start a conversation with her as a friendly person with no agenda. If the conversation goes well, she'll be interested in getting to know you better. If not, you're still a nice and decent gentleman. You d

          • T Palmer
            T Palmer  1 months back

            I agree with Michelle. I grew up and came of age during the female revolution. It was dictated to me that I was supposed to be manly and not need a man and I don't know how to need a man.

            • Mr. Thanos the predators hunter
              Mr. Thanos the predators hunter  2 days back

              @nofy bn, hey girl..
              submit yourself sexualy, not intellectually..
              If you will submit yourself sexualy, he will more willing to please you..
              Change your thought on relationship, in relationship there is no 50/50 or partnership.. Stop looking relationship in terms of business..
              For men, she is his woman and for women, he is her man..

            • nofy bn
              nofy bn  3 weeks back

              It isn't manly to not need a man, it is human. Women should NOT depend on a man, he will leave you or will cheat and you will leave him and you will have kids as well and no income!

            • nofy bn
              nofy bn  3 weeks back

              @VapeKing Submit? Sexist. WE ARE PARTNERS! I AM NOT LESS THEN YOU!! I don't like the words, submit or lead. Women act that way because he doesn't step up!

            • VapeKing
              VapeKing  1 months back

              Im a 46yo male and I know what I want is a woman who knows how to treat a man and can submit to him. Allow me to be in charge and take the lead. We want the oppisite of what we are basically. I love a very femine woman who allows me to take care of her and protect her. Its the modern feminist ladys we are not attracted to the ones who dont "need" a man. A great relationship needs yin and yang!

          • Mihaela Smarandescu
            Mihaela Smarandescu  1 months back


            • Digital Zealot
              Digital Zealot  1 months back

              I hate when dating coaches say being less feminine is a bad thing or isn't attractive. Not every women wants a hypermasculine dominaning manly man. Some more dominant women want a more sensitive man. Sometimes, being girly doesn't come naturally to some women. That doesn't make them less of a man, as long as they identify as one. Humans are very complex and not this simple to understand. Also I don't believe that masculine and feminine aren't entirely dependant on gender. Not every man wants a passive, submissive woman.

              • Mr. Thanos the predators hunter
                Mr. Thanos the predators hunter  2 days back

                Submission in which form??
                No one like to be submissive in term of intelligence..
                A man want to lead..
                If woman submit herself sexualy to her man, she enjoy sex more..

              • nofy bn
                nofy bn  3 weeks back


            • Aviarygarden
              Aviarygarden  1 months back

              Hi @Carlos, what if “Flirting like your life depends on it” feels like performing TRICKS??? 🙁 What if overtly flirting feels like. chasing. Feels very unfeminine...just sexualizing to get attention... Not spiritual. Your insight is so appreciated.

              • Nalucha chimanda
                Nalucha chimanda  2 months back

                how abt me that wants to b more loved n that if he ent pulling he ent weath me,,I'm deserve better,,I'm I to naive😵

                • Jingjuan Qi
                  Jingjuan Qi  2 months back

                  You are the best!

                  • Michelle Finn
                    Michelle Finn  2 months back

                    This helped me a lot, thank you Carlos! ☺️ I’m putting these tips to practice

                    • Cindy Lou
                      Cindy Lou  2 months back

             shy. demure and non agressive but Flirt like you're life depends on it?..which is agressive 🤔

                      • Cutepuppylover 555
                        Cutepuppylover 555  2 months back

                        😂😂😂🙏🏼❤️😢 I can’t I am watching this over and over j’adore my friend Carl lmao

                        • Cutepuppylover 555
                          Cutepuppylover 555  2 months back

                          This guy is the goat 🐐

                          • Sandra Fabian
                            Sandra Fabian  2 months back

                            I love all of your videos and I always literally take notes.
                            Thank you so much, Carlos!

                            • Sandra Fabian
                              Sandra Fabian  2 months back

                              "High school degree" lol

                              • NovaStarArts
                                NovaStarArts  2 months back


                                • Norm N
                                  Norm N  2 months back

                                  Should I read or listen to this? Because my mind is doing both, and I am losing focus.

                                  • Nalini Singh
                                    Nalini Singh  2 months back

                                    Interesting tips thank you peace 🙏 and love

                                    • Allison Brown
                                      Allison Brown  2 months back

                                      What about trying to reach retract somebody that you dated in the past who you really want to rekindle things with ?

                                      • Georgia Conti
                                        Georgia Conti  2 months back

                                        This sounds like a lot of effort to me. I attract all kinds of cool guys by just bopping along being myself, and in love with my life. Will that work for you? I don't works for me!

                                        • Jenevie Brown
                                          Jenevie Brown  2 months back

                                          I like your presentation thank you so much for your advice

                                          • Be True B M
                                            Be True B M  2 months back

                                            apart form that excellent advice i have subscribed to this channel.

                                            • Be True B M
                                              Be True B M  2 months back

                                              Not true at all at least the first bit i think a guy when he looks at your booty and other parts doesn't mean he thinks you will be a good mother or if she can bear children nobody thinks that far at all. They just find someone hot they think they can have thats all. I have heard many guys go for 4ft women and with no looks complete ugly women i doubt it they considered all the facts at all.

                                              • Brytanika Gonzalez
                                                Brytanika Gonzalez  2 months back

                                                First of all being sexist and not trying to understand men will get you no where, you have to think like a man and educate yourself on how they work before you will be successful with them. Second, you may be ignorant to your own self and not see what your doing wrong. It takes two but you have to be open minded and soak up all the knowledge out there that you possibly can about not only men but yourself as a woman. I've learned things about myself that I wasn't aware of by watching these videos and now i have the knowledge to take the steps to improve and fix myself for my husband. I'm not saying im in the wrong completely, he has his issues but learning all you can about men then taking the necessary steps is the way to go for a healthy, successful relationship.

                                                • Brytanika Gonzalez
                                                  Brytanika Gonzalez  3 weeks back

                                                  If your not willing to think like a man then don't watch the videos. No one's forcing you to. I watch because they have made my relationship stronger. Don't mistake knowledge for control.

                                                • nofy bn
                                                  nofy bn  3 weeks back

                                                  Women do, GUYS DON'T. Guys should be learning about us. I am not going to think like them, they think wrong or not at all.

                                              • Brytanika Gonzalez
                                                Brytanika Gonzalez  2 months back

                                                I love watching your videos Carlos. Your honest and give great advice. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge with us.

                                                • Celeste Cummins
                                                  Celeste Cummins  2 months back

                                                  Do the physical traits (breasts and hips) matter to men when you're older and no longer want to have or can have kids? What do "older women" do to attract men (when you no longer have that sexy "card")?

                                                  • Ligia Harris
                                                    Ligia Harris  2 months back

                                                    The all thing is just ridiculous men want too much from women and don't give much in return.
                                                    It is like walking in egg shell's dealing with guys nowdays. Don't do this don't say that so much for the strong species.

                                                    • Angel Hxze
                                                      Angel Hxze  4 days back

                                                      Ligia Harris I'm a female and I believe the opposite. I think women typically want more with less to offer.

                                                    • nofy bn
                                                      nofy bn  3 weeks back


                                                  • Alida ramos
                                                    Alida ramos  3 months back

                                                    Its good but doesn’t work

                                                    • Michele Herrmann
                                                      Michele Herrmann  3 months back

                                                      I would love to see videos for women who are older and finding it hard to date after 40.

                                                      • Brenda Davani
                                                        Brenda Davani  3 weeks back

                                                        How does a 65 yr. old nice lady find a decent man?

                                                    • sayounara1232
                                                      sayounara1232  3 months back

                                                      Make a video on how a woman should flirt via text and real life because I suck at flirting lol

                                                      • Nikki Eancheff
                                                        Nikki Eancheff  1 months back

                                                        Yes! I don’t know how to flirt either and it feels very scary. A video about how to flirt would be so helpful 😊

                                                    • Terri Brown
                                                      Terri Brown  3 months back

                                                      I give up

                                                      • nofy bn
                                                        nofy bn  3 months back

                                                        BS, boobs have nothing to do with nourish a baby, guys are not that smart. Right age? There is no right age. Again, guys are not that smart. I am a woman and I don't even know. Even a woman doesn't know until she gets pregnant. If we don't know, he doesn't. Guys don't know she is the one. Guys don't think that. Soft and dainty? Sexist. No woman is manly, so sexist. No, it is not her mom. Guys have become entitled and lazy and women have had to go to work. So a woman can't speak her mind? Sexist. Working on his empire has nothing to do with helping me. And we need to, to what? Leading? Sexist. IT IS A PARTNERSHIP! Yes, he starts it and starts the convo's but it isn't leading. She is nuts, I would never EVER go site unseen. I don't care how much I love someone. IT IS A PARTNERSHIP! TWO EQUAL PEOPLE. I don't perceive, it's fact. I don't agree, I do it anyway but I am not chilled. Clothes? Shallow. 75? wear once or twice? SO WRONG, we don't have that kind of money! I won't risk rejection.

                                                        • Shakespeer!
                                                          Shakespeer!  3 months back

                                                          Ha. No.

                                                          • Erika Erika
                                                            Erika Erika  3 months back

                                                            Great video ...Please video of how to be more femenine ,

                                                            • Cleopatra TROPHY WIFE
                                                              Cleopatra TROPHY WIFE  3 months back


                                                              Great video quality and exposure Carlos first of all

                                                              1) MEN FLOCK material send it

                                                              4:44mins be CUTE and SHY

                                                              Be of some USE and TALENT

                                                              08:20 !!! 💥💪🤩♥️ Pure ICE and SPICE. You got all what it ends to be a trophy 🏆 wife ! Shut that voice in ur head which says ohh this is left oh that’s needed.

                                                              • Parsa Sheikh
                                                                Parsa Sheikh  3 months back

                                                                How to attract him again towards your self after 6 months of relationship he started losing interest in me he is not doing the same thing what he used to do before now he is just want his work work work I really want him back and do the same things what he was doing before please help me

                                                                • Dell Chica
                                                                  Dell Chica  2 months back

                                                                  Maureen Kam lol you should start ur own channel. Ure better than this guy!

                                                                • Maureen Kam
                                                                  Maureen Kam  3 months back

                                                                  @Parsa Sheikh Glad to hear that. It seems that he really loves you, but needs your understanding. Be gentle and patient if you really love him. Keep up the good effort! 😊

                                                                • Parsa Sheikh
                                                                  Parsa Sheikh  3 months back

                                                                  I'm so glad to have you really. I'm letting thing's go his anger his ignorance I'm not fighting on these things with him from last 2 day's so he is calling me in n off by himself. Asking me what I'm doing or he even asked me for meetup from last to last Thursday we didn't meet. He planned for Monday breakfast together by his own.

                                                                • Maureen Kam
                                                                  Maureen Kam  3 months back

                                                                  @Parsa Sheikh That is a good thing as he thinks you can be trusted to be left alone for a while so that he can concentrate on his career to build a future with you. You can text him naughty texts to get him excited for e.g., "I just got of the shower. It was hot and steamy. I felt so good that I could not control myself. Too bad, you were not there... " Sometimes, you take the initiative. Spice up your relationship. Don't demand. Entice him. Be mysterious at times. Make him think that you have your market. Be classy and not needy. Man is not a a good listener and the woman likes to be heard all the time. He also has his own work pressure. The time you both spend together should build up.and not tear down. As a woman, we must have the wisdom to manage a long term relationship. As both get comfortable with each other, the relationship will slip into the mundane things in the daily life.

                                                                • Parsa Sheikh
                                                                  Parsa Sheikh  3 months back

                                                                  Well it's not that he totally don't care about me he wants to work more after my entrance in his life he is getting more and more work from his office to do he said me that I am his good luck after my entrance he is getting more and more work what I have noticed one thing he is not missing the small things like going to office watching me from the balcony calling me he never ask me about my day he don't want to know it's your official matter what will I do I want him to call more often and want him to listen my things in never listen to me but he secretly love me I know that he does the those things

                                                              • Adventure Your World
                                                                Adventure Your World  3 months back

                                                                Great video! There is really no since to it!