Why Is Dating Becoming So Difficult?

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  • Brittany Pettibone
    Brittany Pettibone   5 months back

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    • ProNorden Agrarian-Nationalism
      ProNorden Agrarian-Nationalism  1 months back

      Shiraz S. ,. ...Pre-nuptial #MarriageContract.

    • ProNorden Agrarian-Nationalism
      ProNorden Agrarian-Nationalism  1 months back

      Life, Love, & Logos

    • Hunk Golden
      Hunk Golden  1 months back

      Only beta bitch men want marriage, because there sniveling bitches that can't get anyone else. Pigs and cunts like you your day is totally over. That should be fucking obvious

    • Hunk Golden
      Hunk Golden  1 months back

      These fucking disgusting comments? It's over for them but they're too stupid to even know that. Look at these fucking stupid bitches😂😭

  • Electro Man
    Electro Man  7 minutes back

    MGTOW is the unfortunate, yet inevitable, consequence of feminism.

    Men are treated like garbage then they are villainized and enslaved by the family courts.

    Men are totally defenseless in this system.

    So they don't want to play anymore... AKA... MGTOW.

    • Pythor P Chunsworth
      Pythor P Chunsworth  3 days back

      Don't get married go mgtow leave the plantation

      • jane swan
        jane swan  4 days back

        ....all thanks to liberal retards

        • Alan Stordal
          Alan Stordal  5 days back

          Adam and Eve. We help each other. Complete each other. Helpmates. Created to be with one another. 1+1=1. Marriage.

          • DigitalDreams
            DigitalDreams  6 days back

            I never met an unmarried person in the countryside. Rural areas bring out your ancient nature. Cities are toxic environments for the normal human. Too many stimuli. Info overload. Sex overload. Sex in ads. Porn. Money. Stress. Traffic. Millions of people, but you don't know anyone. Everything you need to live is 5 minutes away, yet you obsess about the little things you don't have which has no real value. I encourage you to read the "Human Zoo" which outlines it very well. Or look up the mouse utopia. Cities are unnatural environments that after reaching a certain level of success, descend into a destructive path of trying to annihilate itself so that the cycle can be repeated. This happens over and over again throughout human history.

            • virtual240
              virtual240  7 days back

              Where can I find a woman like one of you and how do I get one to notice me?

              • virtual240
                virtual240  7 days back

                It's only difficult for men. End of discussion.

                • Eric Kokin
                  Eric Kokin  7 days back

                  I just came across this vid! As an 80's man I already knew that I wanted to "keep" what I made. This was selfish back then, But now I know God silently told me about the "rotten" apple. For nearly the past 25 yrs, I have lived a life of freedom and prosperity:) I know what my good male friends went through. Again, I thank God for keeping single and providing for myself and my mother that is "81" yrs. old. She's from Argentina, and appreciates a good man:)

                  • ted garner
                    ted garner  1 weeks back

                    Women's lib gone amok ..

                    • Edward Miller
                      Edward Miller  1 weeks back

                      THE Average American Girl has had at least 10 Sexual partners by age 21....
                      SHE'S NOT QUALITY MARRIAGE MATERIAL.

                      • Steve Lunde
                        Steve Lunde  1 weeks back

                        Thanks ladies. From a man's perspective, or at least mine based on what I've seen and experienced, our society has gone from a traditional mindset to a hook-up culture because men have become increasingly afraid of divorce. On the surface of it, men seem to be the biggest losers in terms of the financial end, they lose their right of visitation (in varying degrees) and,in some cases, are ostracized by friends and family. I'm saddened by the seeming impasse that the fear of family court is widening the gap between most men and women. Nicole brought up the point that it's incumbent upon each of us to improve ourselves so we are ready and willing to recognize a partner when opportunity presents one. To recognize reality and differentiate it from fantasy, I think, is the key. Anyway, thanks for making this video. It has and will continue to help me be more cognitive and realistic about my own situation.

                        • rtl2002
                          rtl2002  1 weeks back

                          Best advice for fellow men: Work hard and save all year, forget about dating apps and restaurants, and take a 3-week vacation in Thailand or the Philippines. You will of course have a lot of fun there but, most importantly, it will be with women who are truly feminine.

                          • Beserk Ash
                            Beserk Ash  1 weeks back

                            You both are very pretty.😍
                            Me MGTOW. ✌

                            • Alison Mihailovich
                              Alison Mihailovich  1 weeks back

                              Why dont you come to Toronto and see why ? There is no Women worth to Marry here ! You have all those ugly Feminists in a Relationship with a Gay husband and having kids too . Just like Justin Trudno '' . He is Gay ! Everybody knows . He never misses a Gay parade in Canada and he is buddy with the Irish PM too. Openly gay guy . ....and then you have all the whores form the Suburbs who will have a white boyfriends and sleep around with black guys on the weekend . Bars and clubs are full of Feminists shit talking rude whores . Only girls who are smart and lady like a the Asian women. I could see my Asian co workers ....they don't drink and are reliable . Good workers too . My son left the city . He is in Japan now .

                              • Gus Rudder
                                Gus Rudder  1 weeks back

                                cultural marxism... feminism... blame on the "commies".

                                • acgillespie
                                  acgillespie  1 weeks back

                                  *USA needs to eradicate all non whites & leave only 75 million of the most healthy beautiful females and 25 million of the healthiest most handsome males and try this experiment again*
                                  With all closed borders of course

                                  • acgillespie
                                    acgillespie  1 weeks back

                                    *Power of the Pink - love pink*

                                    • waltermh111
                                      waltermh111  1 weeks back

                                      Might as well add my comment even though it will be repeating a lot of the same things. This only applies to Western women, or non-Western women who have lived in the West and integrated.


                                      1) So many women give up the sex for free that it has lost its value. So some men who would commit, dont have to anymore. Bad boys can have babies with multiple women and still keep going from girl to girl and we actually know from psychology that many women find a man more attractive if she knows he is desired by other women. So being a player is not a turn off anymore and can be an attraction. I have seen it myself at my work place and when I lived in a dorm that was part of a collection of them, mostly lived in by 20-early 30somethings.


                                      2) Nobody likes to think long term anymore. Its all girls just wanna have fun, live in the moment, post modernist trappings that keeps people making bad decisions.


                                      3) Women used to know that she needed a man to give her and her future child the best life. So she was raised learning how to take care of him also. It was all about the partnership for a better future for her and her family.
                                      The man was raised to feel the same. So she took pride in what she could add to the relationship, and accepted sacrifice, as he did.
                                      But now, women are not only not taught anything about how to benefit a relationship, they are raised to take pride in not having anything to contribute except their presence.
                                      Their value now is supposed to only be that they are born. While they still expect everything from a man.
                                      And it becomes sexist if you ever expect her to sacrifice anything for you, while you must sacrifice everything for her, or she will leave you and take half your stuff, which she might do anyway.
                                      And in some places, you dont even have to get married. Once the gov thinks you 2 have lived together long enough, you could end up being liable for her well being once she leaves you.


                                      4) That leads to this point. Women dont think they need men anymore. They have everything provided for them by the gov, by businesses offering more and more which mostly benefits women, by society, by constant glorifying of them all over. Not realizing/caring that its men building everything they use, the civilization they have, paying most of the taxes (one study noted that men pay in 150k average over life time and women take 50k (meaning they take out all that they pay plus another 50k more. Men pay a net amount. But this taking out is only in services, many government policy are made to mostly benefit men but are not counted as a service. We pay the most into company insurances also while women take the most out and we can go on and on. Men are also the protectors etc...
                                      So women think they dont need men, so what else do they want men for? It comes down to the dick. I have seen it too often. If the man cant get the womans pussy wet at first sight, he doesnt stand much of a chance.
                                      This is shown in studies where women basically admit it, social experiments, and in studies of online dating.


                                      80% of women are only interested in less than 20% of men, regardless of the mans level of confidence, stability, etc...


                                      5) It is too dangerous for men. A 20 year old man meets a woman in a college bar. They drink, they go back to his or her place for only 5 minutes, they go back to the bar and split up. She accuses him of rape the next day for whatever reason. The videos show she was not stumbling, she was completely willing, and it was only 5 minutes in the room. The rape kit showed no signs of struggle/tearing, and she had no bruises.
                                      He gets 20 years. This happens over and over.
                                      If I ask a woman out at work and she doesnt like it, I can get in trouble, if I go to the bar and meet a woman, I can be accused of sexual assault or rape if I touch her or step out of camera view.
                                      If I ask a woman in the street, she can scream, call me a creep, etc... Why take a chance?
                                      Online I get maybe 1 match out of every 50 swipes, and those matches dont reply to messages, or give me one or 2 lines like they care, then disappear, despite me not being boring (I dont just say hey)

                                      6) The expectations a woman has of a guy are unrealistic. Which is more infuriating that they keep dating and even having kids with failures and you can see why, then they complain about it after awhile as if they didnt have any agency, and you will say, how about this guy, he is good, and she will say, yeah but you need some attraction also.
                                      Why? This is a very new thing, the idea that attraction is the most important thing to a relationship, that can override all other things.
                                      In fact, the problem is that attraction used to be more loosely defined and a mans utility was part of it or things about him that made him look like he would be a good father/husband, but now since women can get 100 proposals a week, or because there are no more social pressures on them, attraction means only the hottest need apply.


                                      7) This expectation gets worse if the woman has a degree or thinks that in some other way she is worth a lot more than she really is. Hypergamy means that a woman is always looking for more, and this used to be controlled by the cost of a relationship and social pressure. Now, they have no limits and an ego constantly being inflated by society, media, etc...


                                      8) Men used to be rewarded for all the responsibility they had, for all that they did for society.
                                      Now they are told that despite all that is against them, they should take on responsibility but with no reward, and accept the risks with no upside.
                                      That being expendable itself should be good enough because that is fulfilling enough by itself.
                                      Even JBP, who I love, falls for this. It is what is ruining traditionalism, and why we call them tradcucks now. Because they have ignored that men need things also and that we seek to gain. That is how the human race got to where it is. Sacrifice with the chance of reward. Not simply by sacrifice alone. Very few men are ok with that scenario.
                                      Very few men can be fulfilled that way. You will be fulfilled for a short time until you get burnt out or screwed over and find you have nothing to show for it and that being expendable has more downsides than upsides.

                                      I love taking care of my woman, providing, protecting, and all the things that made relationships good in the past.
                                      I would be a dream guy for women 100 years ago, but today I am just another nice guy that they cant stand because I dont get their pussy instantly wet, so I have to listen to them complain about all of their past relationships while calling me just a friend or more often the case, I listen while they complain to other men because I wont pander to them anymore and be their wet towel or friendzoned male friend.


                                      I tried the dating game here not too long ago when I moved back to the USA after having wonderful fulfilling relationships overseas. I hate that I needed to come back, but I tried and it didnt work out, I got screwed over and rejected in the rudest ways.
                                      I will keep an open mind but I am not actively trying anymore because most women disgust me. Too many tattoos, oddly places piercings, proud bitchiness, little to offer and proud of it, sluttiness, etc...
                                      I am sure I will end moving back to Asia (my current plan) and starting a family there. I am just setting myself up better right now since I know what to do, unlike the first time I went over.

                                      • Armor Cake
                                        Armor Cake  1 weeks back

                                        Thank you for this video, both of you took the words right out of my mouth. Keep up the amazing work!

                                        • Craig Irvine
                                          Craig Irvine  1 weeks back

                                          Lol don’t think men care since they are going their own way.

                                          • Hannah Dare - Gentile
                                            Hannah Dare - Gentile  2 weeks back

                                            Why is dating becoming so difficult ?

                                            It's because of the way people are this day and age. Dating's not worth it - don't even bother. I became single back in 2001 when I was 19 years old. I've been single ever since, and I'm 37 years old now. I sure as hell can't complain about being single - becoming single and staying single was the best god damn decision I ever made. I can't even begin to describe in words all of the shit that I've seen out of people (both male and female) during the last 20 years. It's terrible. It really is. And all that's happening is that this shit is getting worse as time goes on. If people are like this now, and continue being like this, I'm sure you can probably imagine how people will be during the next 20 years. #singleforlife

                                            • Weazel
                                              Weazel  2 weeks back

                                              Ladies... no offense, but you sound lazy and entitled. Finding the man who will father your children is not as simple as sitting down and watching Netflix, nor should it be.

                                              • BossManSays
                                                BossManSays  2 weeks back

                                                Why is it difficult because 6's think they deserve 10's. Feminism has given mediocre women false sense of value.

                                                • Carlos Hortuvia
                                                  Carlos Hortuvia  2 weeks back

                                                  Too msny Disney's movies...

                                                  • musclesdude
                                                    musclesdude  3 weeks back

                                                    @10:47 "not compromising" ..... meaning your standards are way too high that no man will ever live up to your princess expectations?

                                                    • musclesdude
                                                      musclesdude  3 weeks back

                                                      Women don't want a relationship, they want to impress their friends with the "stuff" their man buys for them (in return for sex until they find a upgrade man). And women wonder why we are so skeptical of them all of a sudden. Try to be a man for a change and think about knowing that the next woman is purely out to use you as much as possible before eventually upgrading once she takes everything for granted that you do/give her and simply want more because shes naturally greedy and materialistic. Take the example of how many guys get rejudged by what they drive even before sharing their inner qualities. Shallow women are making all miss out. Its not men's fault.

                                                      • Ulthmonsta
                                                        Ulthmonsta  3 weeks back

                                                        Men just don't want to take the risk anymore. Thnak 3rd wave feminisms, the sjw movement and the #metoo's of this world. Anything we do can get us in trouble and potentially ruin our lives, and I am speaking from personal experience also, just complimenting a woman at work saying her top looks nice nearly got me fired.

                                                        • spiritelemental
                                                          spiritelemental  3 weeks back

                                                          Nicole is really pretty in this vid. 💕

                                                          • moxigen
                                                            moxigen  3 weeks back

                                                            here in germany you even have to pay for the child of someone else if your wife cheated on you even you know it isnt your own child due to a DNA test...
                                                            equal rights, but also equal responsibility. that might help a lil bit. to many modern women are spoiled to the point of no return. not that man are much better, but we were that way since the cave age. women more and more become like men and men mustnt be men anymore...

                                                            • OptimisticPessimist
                                                              OptimisticPessimist  3 weeks back

                                                              What's the difference between a promiscuous person and a shared tampon? One doesn't fill heads with pseudo-intellectual psychobabel.

                                                              • OptimisticPessimist
                                                                OptimisticPessimist  3 weeks back

                                                                What does a promiscuous person and a shared tampon have in common? Ultimate purpose and potential.

                                                                • Carrington Oliver
                                                                  Carrington Oliver  3 weeks back

                                                                  Hey Brittney, you don’t actually have to tell us she’s your “twin” sister. That’s pretty obvious.

                                                                  • Carrington Oliver
                                                                    Carrington Oliver  3 weeks back

                                                                    Hey Brittney, you don’t actually have to tell us she’s your “twin” sister. That’s pretty obvious.

                                                                    • OttoZONE
                                                                      OttoZONE  3 weeks back

                                                                      The reason your sister and friend and all other women are having a hard time finding someone is that women only want to date up. They want men out of their league. In short you're all just too gotdam picky.

                                                                      • James Onwuachi
                                                                        James Onwuachi  3 weeks back

                                                                        Date some brothas. It won’t be difficult.

                                                                        • Riccardo C
                                                                          Riccardo C  3 weeks back

                                                                          Love cannot be boxed into mind concepts. Everything happens at the right time.

                                                                          • savai toler
                                                                            savai toler  3 weeks back

                                                                            the reason is becuse of metoo women working women voting wasting there youth in college jumping from dick to dick then settling in their 30's wondering were all the good men have gone keeping their high standerds wanting men to be tradishanal without doing it themselves also family cort ie allamony child suport having to take care of another man's kids not seeing your kids except maby weekends exc

                                                                            • Raziel Caletre
                                                                              Raziel Caletre  3 weeks back

                                                                              Women: why dating is so hard?
                                                                              Also women: make 0 effort friendzones or shuts down the amazing man they're looking for and chooses the worst guy possible according to their standards

                                                                              • PumpTecPCB
                                                                                PumpTecPCB  3 weeks back

                                                                                The majority of Men are realizing that their sexual market value peaks between 35 - 40 YO. A woman's sexual market value peaks between 20 - 25. In a woman's upper 20s she realizes she's going to hit the wall soon and tries desperately to get married. The ideal age for a woman's partner is 27 to 32YO. However 34YO is a critical age for men, men realize that they made it to 34YO without getting married and they don't need the BS involved with date women with high expectations. Infact there are an over abundance of women early 20s that will date 35 - 45 YO men because those men have the resources they want. This is why you see 40YO men with early 20 YO women. And BTW I would never date a "white Christian female" or worse a Right wing nut Trump supporter.

                                                                                • PumpTecPCB
                                                                                  PumpTecPCB  3 weeks back

                                                                                  Marriage is a raw deal for men. 55-60% of marriages end in divorce. 85% of women file for divorce. 97% of the time men pay alimony. 80% of the time women are awarded sole custody.

                                                                                  • PumpTecPCB
                                                                                    PumpTecPCB  3 weeks back

                                                                                    MGTOW

                                                                                    • Dark Waters
                                                                                      Dark Waters  3 weeks back

                                                                                      There's no such thing as an actually attractive woman who can't get a date or a long term relationship in the US. Women like that only turn down offers and choose not to pursue guys who are a match for them.

                                                                                      • Nishant 3
                                                                                        Nishant 3  3 weeks back

                                                                                        I am a handsome,educated, strong man I am not prasing my self but I also had traditional mindset I find it difficult to manage myself

                                                                                        • Leonel Hernandez
                                                                                          Leonel Hernandez  4 weeks back

                                                                                          You should watch Jordan Peterson... woman hardly date downwards... meaning that the western world has moved rapidly to give woman full equality... its been so fast that woman haven’t realized it and have to see dating downwards as a possibility. The other thing I didn’t hear from you at all is that in traditional dating woman offered something back... meaning pleasing the man but now a days
                                                                                          It’s all about woman’s me me me mentality... an example is you both blaming everything on something else that is not woman them selfs.

                                                                                          • Keith B
                                                                                            Keith B  4 weeks back

                                                                                            METOO= MGTOW

                                                                                            • Falcor's Adventure
                                                                                              Falcor's Adventure  4 weeks back

                                                                                              The benefits of being with a woman No longer out weigh the risks. It's simply not worth it.

                                                                                              • Falcor's Adventure
                                                                                                Falcor's Adventure  4 weeks back

                                                                                                From a man's perspective (I'm 57 plenty of experience) all my life I have watched girls and women treat their man with no respect and are continually looking for the "bigger better deal". I noticed this pattern as a teenager and thought women would eventually grow out of it. I'm 57 and I can say no they never really stop looking for the next guy. This is what created MGTOW. Men are sick of being treated like cattle. Game over.