5 Texts To Make Any Man Obsess Over You

  • Published: 09 July 2017
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    There’s no denying that phones are a big part of where we live our romantic lives. Since everyone and their mother seems to have and carry around a cell phone in today’s world, making a man obsess over you can be as easy as sending him the right text messages. But, what are the “right text messages” and which ones will have the opposite effect?

    Hey ladies, Amy North here, welcome to my channel. As you may or may not already know I’m a relationship coach from the west coast of Canada and author of The Devotion System — a program I’ve designed to help women find and create the love lives they want and deserve. From being ready for love to locking down Mr. Right, the program covers every aspect of romantic relationships, so if you’re looking to improve yours then you may want to consider checking it out.

    That aside though, today I want to share with you five types of text messages you can send men to make them obsessed with you. Yes, obsessed as in he won’t be able to eat, sleep or go about other daily tasks without thinking about you.

    Before I jump into the messages you should be sending your guy, I want to first talk a bit about the types of text messages you shouldn’t send him, because believe me, even if you send him the most heavenly texts, the wrong ones can be huge deal breakers.

    For starters, the generic “hey, hello, or what’s up” texts. These messages suck because they don’t do anything to stir up emotion in your guy, and not to mention they make you seem incredibly boring.

    While I’m talking about these dull messages, it’s also worth mentioning that sending your man updates on your every move isn’t a good idea either. Believe me, as much as you think it’s the end of the world that the coffee shop is out of your favourite bagel, or how you’re feeling bloated from your weekend of partying, he doesn’t care, nor does he want to know. Sure, you may be smitten, but you’re not doing yourself any favours by sending these mundane types of text messages

    Same goes for sending him “what are you up to messages.” Why? Because if he doesn’t willingly tell you what he’s doing then it’s probably because he doesn’t feel it’s worth sharing. When you send him these kind of text messages it’ll seem like a chore for him to respond to you… which is 100% the opposite of what you want if you’re looking to make him obsessed with you.

    And at all costs avoid sitting around, staring at a black screen, desperately waiting for him to reply to you. This is important for a couple reasons. First, if you respond too quickly it will give him the impression that you’re sitting around, waiting to hear from him. Second, it comes across as clingy, and third, responding too quickly implies that you have no life outside of him and the relationship.

    To prevent this from happening, keep busy! By doing so it’ll help you fight the urge to text him back too soon, and not to mention, it’ll give you something new to tell him about when he asks how your day was. In those scenarios where you don’t have much happening when he texts, still make a point to hold back for at least a few minutes to give him the impression that you’re busy with other things. Not making his text messages your number one priority will give you time to do other things that keep you active and happy, and time to properly think about your response. Of course if you’re in the middle of a conversation with him, or he asks you a question that is time sensitive and needs a quick reply, then don’t leave him hanging. If you do, you risk coming across as self-centered or rude. Be respectful of his needs, too.

    Before I move on to the juicy part of this video it’s also important to mention how much of an impact grammar has on your relationship. If you’re text messages are littered with misspelt words or lack common sense, then that’s going to be a huge turn off for him, and let’s face it, you’re not going to look like the brightest crayon in the box. So save yourself the embarrassment and make sure that you read over and edit your text where necessary.

    Don’t think this is a real issue? Just Google search it and you’d be amazed at some of the cringeworthy misspellings you find. Or, learn from my friend’s experience. He was seeing a girl who would text “hoo,” as in “H-O-O” when referring to “who” as in “W-H-O.” He tried giving her the benefit of the doubt, and hoped it was just a strange auto-correct or voice to text memo, but after she sent him the same misspelt version of “hoo” multiple times, he realized that he couldn’t be with someone.

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Comments • 1 502

  • Baby Gurl
    Baby Gurl  4 months back

    *OMG LOL* so *TRUE*
    YES! This is *GREAT ADVICE* Every girl AND WOMAN should watch this!!!

    • Amy North
      Amy North   3 months back

      I appreciate the feedback, Baby Gurl! Thanks for watching and don’t forget to subscribe so you won’t miss out on my upcoming videos! ;-)

  • Saby J Jimenez
    Saby J Jimenez  19 hours back

    Wait, some men have very poor grammar even when texting. Ebonics is very real in today's texting society. In text messaging, it's auto correct the culprit. Seriously.

    • Austin Park
      Austin Park  1 days back

      I always love when my girl sends me wyd

      • Lipstick Revolution
        Lipstick Revolution  3 days back

        Seriously? Be yourself, be honest that's what men want. Talk to them if they're too busy or don't want to listen move on!, they don't want you period,.Take a pole dancing class,speak in complete sentences, articulate.

        • Jessica Constantino
          Jessica Constantino  3 days back

          While I like your advice and find it informative and I’m sure it would probably work to win a guy over. It all seems a little dishonest to me. I hate playing games in relationships I want a man to be honest with me. I would hate if a man planned his responses or told me light hearted things instead of real things to make me interested. My question is what happens when you’ve played all these games with your man and you attract one and begin a relationship. All throughout your relationship are you expected to love life only? That’s what they like about you now that you’ve showed them you have no stress or bad days you are always cheery and positive in the beginning and then when they are in a serious committed relationship are you expected to keep this facade of a happy positive only person? It so you suddenly switch and become real with him and share your insecurities and stressful days? It seems like if you attract someone because you are positive and love life and never show him your bad days. When you get together and life happens and you have a bad day he’s going to feel lied to and deceived. I don’t know it just seems dishonest. I want someone to be real with me 100 percent of the time. So it would be weird to not be real with them in return.

          • Aliyah :3
            Aliyah :3  4 days back

            number 4 got me dying on the floor

            • Olubunmi Maria Adeleye

              Mine always want my attention he wants the clingy type

              • Ja F
                Ja F  1 weeks back

                People are going to use this video for evil

                • Char Fenton
                  Char Fenton  1 weeks back

                  Omg that’s so shallow some pll are dyslexic

                  • Karen Sollano
                    Karen Sollano  1 weeks back

                    If you are in a secure relationship, you never have to play games. 💕

                    • NikkieH14
                      NikkieH14  1 weeks back

                      If i don’t text back right when i see it...im just gonna forget

                      • Buhle Ndlovu
                        Buhle Ndlovu  2 weeks back

                        Honestly? Boring

                        • romio x
                          romio x  2 weeks back

                          Np here is a guy you can take advise from him.

                          • erepsekahs
                            erepsekahs  2 weeks back

                            As you pointed out people are turned off by bad grammar. I suggest you correct your own or your writers' before giving advice. Take a look at 6:49...….which is where I decided I'd had enough. Generally a good money making concept but rather sloppy production. Never mind, the viewings are there, so enjoy the cash.

                            • nuria hussain
                              nuria hussain  2 weeks back

                              me: OmG HE MesSAgEd Me
                              My bsf: ok good—
                              me: *start to text*
                              my bsf: STOP OMG! WAIT AT LEAST 5 MINS.

                              me: df ok

                              • Adventure
                                Adventure  2 weeks back

                                I'm a guy and some of these aren't true

                                • SleeplessELITE
                                  SleeplessELITE  2 weeks back

                                  "Hi" is enough for me😂

                                  • Aryaa Jha
                                    Aryaa Jha  2 weeks back

                                    I can't even text him a normal msg...cozz he blocked me in every fuckingg way😆

                                    • beatrice njeri
                                      beatrice njeri  2 weeks back

                                      True love and obsession comes from God.Not some demonic text messages leading to hell

                                      • Flavia Dell'Isola
                                        Flavia Dell'Isola  2 weeks back

                                        Most of the men suffer of menopause that's the fact one day are gd another they ignored you 🤦‍♀️

                                        • Gabrielle Duncan
                                          Gabrielle Duncan  2 weeks back

                                          What would ve good specific texts to send

                                          • Eileen Bulgier
                                            Eileen Bulgier  2 weeks back

                                            Yeah I’m gonna go light up some sparklers until I text him back, what a great idea

                                            • Olivia Gningone Billy
                                              Olivia Gningone Billy  2 weeks back

                                              And I oop!

                                              • Thu Danh
                                                Thu Danh  2 weeks back

                                                I love your advice - best advice ever

                                                • mahima kadam
                                                  mahima kadam  3 weeks back

                                                  Hi Mona ! How r u ?? This is your friend Mallika from India. Come over Whatsapp dear

                                                  • Madhulika Singh
                                                    Madhulika Singh  3 weeks back

                                                    What a pile of crap!!!

                                                    • alya allam
                                                      alya allam  3 weeks back

                                                      Send him memes

                                                      • hdmat101
                                                        hdmat101  3 weeks back

                                                        Why am I watching this , I'm not a woman lol

                                                        • Laurmaine Delos Reyes
                                                          Laurmaine Delos Reyes  4 weeks back

                                                          5:18 start of the 5 text u need to know. You're welcome!

                                                          • byrdislove
                                                            byrdislove  4 weeks back

                                                            Laurmaine Delos Reyes Thank you 😫

                                                        • Amira Serat
                                                          Amira Serat  4 weeks back

                                                          Ok this woman is confusing me, how is saying hi or hello or how r u is a dealbreaker i mean WTF that's literally the way to start a conversation and how is asking ur man how he is or how was his day something boring, i don't get it, and she also said that her friend broke up with his gf becuz she lacked basic intelligence !??!! WTF it's literally just misspelling words. That's fucked up. And when u don't respond quick ur man would take it as if ur not interested and that ur doing something better it's totally pointless to do this and it could cause conflicts in ur relationship

                                                          • Shane Diamond
                                                            Shane Diamond  4 weeks back

                                                            What do I do if my ex is friends with my best friends he is always there and I want to do your tips on no contact ect..

                                                            • Alishba Rashid
                                                              Alishba Rashid  4 weeks back

                                                              I just told my crush that I love him but he didn't clearly answered me that whether he want to be in a relationship with me or not he just said maybe .. so what should I understand by this?

                                                              • Cherry Blossom
                                                                Cherry Blossom  4 weeks back

                                                                Pleaseeeee... If you have to shift your personality for attention and affection, it's best to date someone who you can just be yourself with. This makes no sense.

                                                                A person can only pretend for so long. These tips sound like high school games.

                                                                • Annie Wiley
                                                                  Annie Wiley  4 weeks back

                                                                  Ohhhh so you want us to send freaky texts to catch his attention

                                                                  • kiana parsa
                                                                    kiana parsa  4 weeks back

                                                                    Fuck you lying bitch. Guys she just wastes your time for making money

                                                                    • Melvina Alexander
                                                                      Melvina Alexander  4 weeks back

                                                                      Too many mind games and calculated moves... that's not a relationship

                                                                      • Bluebel Blue
                                                                        Bluebel Blue  4 weeks back

                                                                        This video is a load of crap!

                                                                        • Amel popcorny
                                                                          Amel popcorny  1 months back

                                                                          If I don't respond right away I'm going to forget about it and never respond😩

                                                                          • Gacha Chips
                                                                            Gacha Chips  1 months back

                                                                            He laughs cuz I’m an idiot.

                                                                            • Amy North
                                                                              Amy North   12 hours back

                                                                              He may find you cute, Gacha Chips! :)

                                                                          • Dr Renea
                                                                            Dr Renea  1 months back

                                                                            Can't .. just can't. Gotta go

                                                                            • Dr Renea
                                                                              Dr Renea  1 months back

                                                                              5+ minutes into video before you get ONE tip.

                                                                              • Amy North
                                                                                Amy North   2 days back

                                                                                I appreciate the feedback, Dr Renea! Thanks for watching! :)

                                                                            • SusanChristabel Koomson
                                                                              SusanChristabel Koomson  1 months back

                                                                              it's aallways about de men. wat men wants, wat men likes, wat men need, etc. come ooon nd give us a break.

                                                                              • Amy North
                                                                                Amy North   2 days back

                                                                                Thanks for watching, Susan! :)

                                                                            • gabb Jones
                                                                              gabb Jones  1 months back

                                                                              You could be doing all the right things and the mf still ignore and don’t text you back

                                                                              • Amy North
                                                                                Amy North   4 days back

                                                                                Thanks for dropping by and sharing your thoughts on the topic, gabb! :)

                                                                              • Sw33t.Candy420
                                                                                Sw33t.Candy420  1 months back

                                                                                All depends on the person

                                                                            • Emmily Froossstt
                                                                              Emmily Froossstt  1 months back

                                                                              I just want him to like me because he’s giving me SO MANY mixed signals

                                                                              • Amy North
                                                                                Amy North   5 days back

                                                                                Why not ask him how he feels towards you? BTW, does this guy know that you like him?

                                                                            • Khadija Kenya
                                                                              Khadija Kenya  1 months back

                                                                              Wrong, no rules in love. It should be unconditional. Smh.

                                                                              • Amy North
                                                                                Amy North   5 days back

                                                                                Thanks for dropping by and sharing your thoughts on the topic, Khadija Kenya! :)

                                                                              • 96 Avery
                                                                                96 Avery  1 months back

                                                                                How to trigger a man’s natural competitive drive and refocus it on winning your love simply by tapping into his male ego. https://t.co/MTPSR5qOxf

                                                                            • Maric Dee
                                                                              Maric Dee  1 months back

                                                                              Thats why its called text messages because you have to reply right away, if i want a snail text, I’d rather write a Love letter
                                                                              “ARE YOU DRUNK OR ARE YOU ON DRUGS 😂😂😂

                                                                              • Amy North
                                                                                Amy North   7 days back

                                                                                Thanks for dropping by and watching my video! :)

                                                                            • Gacha Brooke
                                                                              Gacha Brooke  1 months back

                                                                              This helps a lot wth me and my bf! Thx:)

                                                                              • Amy North
                                                                                Amy North   7 days back

                                                                                Thanks for dropping by, Gacha Brooke! :) Glad you find my video helpful. Don’t forget to subscribe to keep you updated on my new videos! ;-)

                                                                            • Kristy Tan
                                                                              Kristy Tan  1 months back