5 Signs He Wants To Commit To You | Relationship Advice For Women By Mat Boggs


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  • Jacquelyn Tisnado
    Jacquelyn Tisnado  51 minutes back

    What happens if he wants to be with me but he lives with ex wife, sleeps in the same bed with her. Also he doesn't know what to tell or tell me what he wants and how he wants to move forward

    • Xiu Zu
      Xiu Zu  2 days back

      When they ask me a LOT of questions or asking me if I'm talking to anyone else.

      • Tania Richter
        Tania Richter  3 days back

        They CALL voice to voice💝
        Spend time with u 💝
        Shower u with gifts that know your personality💝
        They wine and dine u💝
        Touch your skin all over💝 Fresh flowers are nice but not important as they die💝
        They RESPECT you💝
        They PROTECT U💝

        • Bollywood Fan
          Bollywood Fan  5 days back

          He gave all these signs..5 months later-The Breakup! People change, lesson learned!

          • Sherrie Lynn
            Sherrie Lynn  1 weeks back

            Hold on Pamela Anderson and tommy pee met like this and it turned into a nightmare so this story is not always true

            • Stephanie Lugo
              Stephanie Lugo  2 weeks back

              I am in a situation where I was in a relationship for 3 years and he didn’t want to commit and make things happen until I was fed up, left and started dating someone who had the same interests as myself. What does that say about him??

              • Nofyah Shem-Tov
                Nofyah Shem-Tov  3 weeks back

                My LDR asked me the other night if I snore.

                • Baraka Mercy
                  Baraka Mercy  3 weeks back

                  Men change after 2 month ,they see it as boring

                  • Davuiside
                    Davuiside  3 weeks back

                    That fellow is genius in relashionships! He helped me to get my Ex Back! And he can help everybody to find couple and build best relationships. Just read a few articles here _ATTRACTION. XCOURSE. XYZ_

                    • A & K
                      A & K  4 weeks back

                      He asks personal questions about you

                      • Alissa Lin
                        Alissa Lin  4 weeks back

                        I'm dating this guy almost 3 months. Yeah he took me out to public and meet all his friends, even he told me I love you to me. But he's not allowed me to leave one single item in his apartment when I spent weekend at his place. So I guess he's not in serous relationship with me then I told him I wanted to break up. He's agree.💔

                        • eunice njoki
                          eunice njoki  1 months back

                          My crush reads zero in all those steps. Will try prayers,

                          • Fiza Haque
                            Fiza Haque  2 months back

                            All 5 signs, but he wants to take it slow while he is the one flipping when I dont react in 1-2 hours **facepalm**
                            Bleh and then he has the nerve to even tell my friend that I am moving too fast by giving him so many gifts, but thats just my way of showing that I care for him... But oh well whatever its his bday so its natural for me but apparently he never got gifts from people so umm yh...
                            Ugh idk we shall see

                          • Senada Pasic
                            Senada Pasic  2 months back

                            Ninja is....you don't get my heart or my body before marriage , or if you do so will the hellfire eventually.

                            • Davona Scott
                              Davona Scott  2 months back

                              This guy did #4 alot but was also a jerk... he was 3/5

                              • Dawn urbina
                                Dawn urbina  2 months back

                                He knows how to hold space for me during difficult times and he brings me unexpected food.

                              • mary cuaresma
                                mary cuaresma  2 months back

                                Hello thank u

                                • Linh Trinh
                                  Linh Trinh  2 months back

                                  Yeah... but he had ulterior motives the whole time. I was able to ‘bring something to the table’ literally😆

                                  • Linh Trinh
                                    Linh Trinh  2 months back

                                    Interesting. I never knew all this about a man. I guess I must of did something right. Everything you said I experienced with the previous guy. And I was the one ☝️ indecisive and confused the whole time. Hmmm. Figures🤔

                                    • BA B
                                      BA B  2 months back

                                      Obviously, easily to see if he commits to you or not..
                                      1. He tries all his best to get days off to match your schedule, so he can spend more quality time with you, and this is his priority.
                                      2. He does not mind to get flight to see you on his days off.
                                      3. He talks about his future plan with you.
                                      4. He tries to move to your city and get job there to be close to you.( Luckily we are nurses, so he can work in my state)
                                      5. He seriously talks about finance for both in the future.
                                      6. He adjusts his future plan to fit yours.
                                      7. He instroduced you to his best friends and family
                                      8. He takes your opinion into account and discusses with you happily!
                                      9. He plans trips ahead of time around year with you.
                                      10. You are included in his future plans.

                                      These signs I see in my bf

                                      • Alexandra Osuna
                                        Alexandra Osuna  3 months back

                                        This is so spot on! I’ve been watching your Chanel for some time now and you’re extremely good!

                                        • Patty Hall
                                          Patty Hall  3 months back

                                          Hi Matt,
                                          I'm 53 and recently dated a man for 8 months that had 4 of the 5 signs that you just spoke of. The only one that was missing was being exclusive. Recently I found out that he had started talking to people on a dating site again. When confronted he told me that he had not fallen in love with me but that he cares for me, thinks the world of me, enjoys every moment that we spend together, values me and wants me in his world. Can you please shed some light on this. We had been seeing each other 3 to 4 nights a week and having a great time.

                                          • lostzeros
                                            lostzeros  3 months back

                                            My man have four out of five signs. Although, he clearly said that he does not want a long term relationship and even if he did, our communication style will makes it hard to have a long term relationship. We’ve been seeing each other for a year now. His actions contradicts his word. He took me to see all of his friends, his favorite place in town. I think he’s afraid of commitment because I just got out of a divorce. What should I do?

                                            • Anna Emily
                                              Anna Emily  3 months back

                                              Girls and Women go somewhere else! Read a book of poetry... or whatever... but don't spend another minute watching these stupid videos!

                                              • Jacqueline Way
                                                Jacqueline Way  3 months back

                                                Matthew I don't know what to do...please help! I've known this guy for over a year that has been interested in me but timing has not allowed a relationship to happen beit on his end or mine. Recently as he knows I'm dating someone, he confesses his love for me and that he's not gonna let me get away again. I'm so confused because I never knew he felt the way he does and because I'm in a relationship as of 4months with this other guy who kind of has my heart, I'm not sure what to do about my friend who says he loves me. He is a great man and one that I've been praying for. For the past two weeks since he's confessed to me, he's been consistently reaching out via text or phone call making time for me. Since our friendship he's been texting every morning, good morning..." He's definitely been consistent in his walk and now he wants to commit exclusively but I'm in a relationship. What do I do, follow my heart or the one I know is best for me? Please advise!

                                                • Venessa Callaghan
                                                  Venessa Callaghan  3 months back

                                                  All of them, Matt... all of them. We have known each other since a friend said you have to meet my friend. , in mid-Feb of this year. We hang out every weekend, I have met his parents and sister. He wants to meet my family. I am, oddly enough, not quite ready for the exclusive part yet, and he is ok with it. For now...lol. I want to say thank you, because before I started watching your Youtube channel, I did not have the confidence to believe I could find someone like him. Thank you for what you are providing!!

                                                  • Adela Radichetti
                                                    Adela Radichetti  3 months back

                                                    Thank you

                                                    • Purnima Gupta
                                                      Purnima Gupta  3 months back

                                                      Men r polygamous. Period.
                                                      They'll commit then get bored n look for new options.
                                                      Women shouldn't look for commitment now n let men show that v r not obsessed vd their commitmenting us.

                                                      • 🌟 MORNING STAR⭐️
                                                        🌟 MORNING STAR⭐️  3 months back

                                                        I would have been like well we haven’t had the talk about being exclusive SOOOOOO 🤷🏼‍♀️
                                                        Girls need to learn to be blunt. We are too old to beat around the bush

                                                        • henny indrawati
                                                          henny indrawati  3 months back

                                                          Last Sunday he said to me to not meet another guy, after we met regularly but we have not exclusive yet😉

                                                          • pearl walla
                                                            pearl walla  3 months back

                                                            Well he always wants me around and he is always talking about the future me that is moving in with him, running a business together and we are just 2 weeks old in the relationship. Is that where?

                                                            • Evangeline Michaels
                                                              Evangeline Michaels  3 months back

                                                              Really smart and sensible

                                                              • elizabeth servant
                                                                elizabeth servant  4 months back

                                                                I experienced all you said. He is in New York, I'm in Panama, and yet, he has comply with everything you said.

                                                                • Joy Reinna Vasallo
                                                                  Joy Reinna Vasallo  4 months back

                                                                  #5 😕

                                                                  • Marsha Ann
                                                                    Marsha Ann  4 months back

                                                                    My bf likes to hang out with both me and my son and help with my housework without me even asking :)

                                                                    • Summerella Fan page
                                                                      Summerella Fan page  4 months back

                                                                      Can you do the different types of hugs and what they mean

                                                                      • Elvenin
                                                                        Elvenin  4 months back

                                                                        Sooo, if I get one out of 5 of those from a guy... What shud I think?

                                                                        • angel a
                                                                          angel a  4 months back

                                                                          So true, I found my lover finally. He's so amazing

                                                                          • Perla Guzman
                                                                            Perla Guzman  4 months back

                                                                            i dont like this video just because is so true, that hurts.

                                                                            • Blendlogic
                                                                              Blendlogic  4 months back

                                                                              turn that frown upside down

                                                                          • Eja
                                                                            Eja  4 months back

                                                                            Matthew!! I need your advice on something but I don't know if you're going to see my comment! help please!

                                                                            • Blendlogic
                                                                              Blendlogic  4 months back

                                                                              I got a person on my team called matt. And a friend called matt? Want me to pass it along?

                                                                          • MajnouniWahad
                                                                            MajnouniWahad  4 months back

                                                                            My partner wasn’t really the commitment type at first... but now it’s like i’m his priority. He posts pictures together, he always asks me what i’m doing to see if i’m free, he does things to help me like wash up or make the bed or help with shopping etc. I also am finding him allowing himself to be a bit more vulnerable recently. He used to be the player type though not long ago so i’m still taking it like a grain of salt.

                                                                            • Dolores Olivaria
                                                                              Dolores Olivaria  4 months back

                                                                              I like the things your saying however do all these signs go for all men?

                                                                              • Roshanda Conners
                                                                                Roshanda Conners  4 months back

                                                                                Great video and explained so well. Thank you so much!

                                                                                • MrMel141
                                                                                  MrMel141  4 months back

                                                                                  What about distance relationship?

                                                                                  • Jasmine el fiky
                                                                                    Jasmine el fiky  4 months back

                                                                                    Nice..I wonder if your advices denote online datings apps or relationships in general?
                                                                                    In my country sadly most men use online dating for killing time or to hook up rather than real commitment which is later planned by his parents

                                                                                    • Michelle Mayo
                                                                                      Michelle Mayo  4 months back

                                                                                      He shares his wants and his hurt... He becomes personal. He shows you he is vunerable.

                                                                                      • Barbara Paz
                                                                                        Barbara Paz  4 months back

                                                                                        It’s so funny how different cultures have different “rules”. In my country if you go out in public with someone more than once you are already considered to be dating. And dating in my culture is by default exclusive. We don’t have to have that “are we exclusive” conversation. It’s implied if people saw us together in public...
                                                                                        Maybe it has started to change with younger generations but yeah that’s the way it’s always been.
                                                                                        That is why I found dating (while living in the USA) so weird and difficult and of unwritten “ dating rules”....3 day rule being also one of them 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️

                                                                                        • Deirdre' Jackson
                                                                                          Deirdre' Jackson  4 months back

                                                                                          I was married for 20 years and divorced 14 now. My ex had sex before the divorce paper would be printed. Me, I've been on one date, that was horrible.
                                                                                          I've lived in two different states and still nothing.