5 Dating Tips | Pastor Steven Furtick


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  • Antonio Hatcher
    Antonio Hatcher  22 hours back

    This was a very helpful, could anyone tell me the names of all the songs in this video? Thank you

    • Brianna Miller
      Brianna Miller  2 weeks back

      Wow this is sooo good ! Wish I would have seen this before I got married

      • Asian Aesthetics
        Asian Aesthetics  2 weeks back

        The nature of sin - Meeting a God-given desire, but it's meeting it in a way outside of God's intended design.

        • Goochie Grindin
          Goochie Grindin  2 weeks back

          Amen... Amen

          • caroline
            caroline  2 weeks back

            "For a woman... how can I follow this man" ???????? its 2019, can we not. Love you pastor Steven but a man and a woman need to be equal in a relationship in that they both look to each other for guidance

            • Erick Robinson
              Erick Robinson  2 weeks back

              All the way from Tanzania... i wished i would not have the feelings to someone but this Tip validate me to value my self first and not not give it away cheaply

              • God fearing woman I love Jesus

                Thank you for this excellent video. I'm new to this channel.

                • Nina Schmidt
                  Nina Schmidt  2 weeks back

                  Wow, so good

                  • Calida
                    Calida  3 weeks back

                    There was so much in this message that spoke straight to my heart. Thank you for this.

                    • Jedi Santos
                      Jedi Santos  3 weeks back

                      Thanks Steven! I really needed this :(

                      • SOMETHING PIOUS
                        SOMETHING PIOUS  3 weeks back

                        There will not be a coming together but a tearing apart💯

                        • Nicole Buhendwa
                          Nicole Buhendwa  3 weeks back

                          whaaaat!!!! This is another level of wisdom!! Thank you so much

                          • Enhle
                            Enhle  3 weeks back

                            This hurts. No self help preparation in the world can open God's hand when He's closed love off to you. 😢

                            • Aalpha Splatt
                              Aalpha Splatt  3 weeks back

                              I'm not a Christian and I don't want a Christian but your message, outside of the Jesus speech, is perfect. Accurate!
                              I would add to the list: wait until marriage before having sex.

                              • Njavwa Sichone
                                Njavwa Sichone  3 weeks back

                                Thanks alot pastor am humbled and grateful that my thoughts about dating is same with what you are saying I live with CP I don't believe in sex before marriage please pray for me for to be the right person for that man am meant for

                                • Orad sin cesar
                                  Orad sin cesar  3 weeks back

                                  Is there a way to get this in Spanish or with subtitles? I'ld love to show this to my youth group at church.

                                  • Miss Kat
                                    Miss Kat  3 weeks back

                                    I agree with everything this video says but I also want to say that if you are mentally and spiritually prepared to go on a few dates just to figure out what you're looking for, that is ok also. It's ok to learn how to be direct with someone at the end of the date and say thank you for the time spent. God has shown me that in order for me to be genuine in front of men I'm attracted to, I have to be able to do the same in friendships. A genuine person will notice that. I used to be whatever I thought the person needed, and that gave them more of a reason to treat me as invaluable and dispose of me. I used to idealize people. It's ok to date to learn where you need work. Also, be open and aware that a full disclosure conversation will come up organically if the right 'ingredients' are there. Don't ever go into a marriage thinking you can change someone, and sweep things under the rug. A godly man will be impressed with a women by the conduct of her heart when she seeks her affirmation in Christ. Another thing, not once have I EVER been content with being single, but God knows I'm ALLOWED to struggle, and He's with me every step of the way. That doesn't stop me from running after the cross, and neither should any of you.

                                    • Sarah Yvonne
                                      Sarah Yvonne  3 weeks back

                                      Thanks Pastor Steven for sharing right to the point!

                                      • Jessica Peyton
                                        Jessica Peyton  3 weeks back

                                        Oh dear, watching this only made me more confused! I am already very reluctant to date anybody unless I think I would want to be with them long-term which is hard to determine unless you spend a significant amount of time together. And when you spend a lot of time together, you tend to become connected with that person which we should be guarding against! So how am I supposed to go about it then? I mean, I like what he said about trying to fulfill a God given desire with our own means, but that makes me feel like I should just go through life not showing any interest in anyone and wait for a relationship to just magically happen which is not very practical.

                                        • smh
                                          smh  3 weeks back

                                          Very very interesting.

                                          • Lyssaboo
                                            Lyssaboo  3 weeks back

                                            this was so important for me

                                            • JAM ROLL
                                              JAM ROLL  3 weeks back

                                              That was hella dope!! I needed that ima need to watch this again

                                              • Rach r
                                                Rach r  3 weeks back

                                                Thank you...I've lately been struggling with certain desires but praise be to God , He provided through you this instructions!

                                                • Van Bonita Bo
                                                  Van Bonita Bo  3 weeks back

                                                  Value what God has put In You

                                                  • Tony Carneiro
                                                    Tony Carneiro  3 weeks back

                                                    Editing is a bit much

                                                    • Ms Angie
                                                      Ms Angie  3 weeks back

                                                      This is a reaffirmation of what I have been living by this year. I am healing from past relationships, finding my value in Christ, developing a relationship with God and the rest is in his hands. Love this!!!

                                                      • JT
                                                        JT  3 weeks back

                                                        I really needed to hear this. I felt myself going back down the wrong path again where I felt the need to contact my ex after 3-4 years of no contact and reconnect. I knew that he probably hadn’t changed and it was a very toxic relationship, but the God given desire within me to be with somebody had tried to manifest itself outside of God’s design and I knew that no one from my past could possibly live up to the expectations that God has for my future spouse. Thank you Steven Furtick for stopping me in my tracks and allowing me the opportunity to exert self control and to regain the Godly focus that I’ve once had.

                                                        • paul thomas
                                                          paul thomas  3 weeks back

                                                          I love this. A year ago I thought waiting to have sex until marriage was like a unicorn, something that just didn’t exist. Now i can’t imagine starting a relationship with a girl who’s not on fire for Christ.

                                                          • thepoohbearful
                                                            thepoohbearful  3 weeks back

                                                            Wow wowowowooww ! 👌👌👌👌

                                                            • Soumya Pillai
                                                              Soumya Pillai  3 weeks back

                                                              Thank you Jesus🙏 and thank you pastor

                                                              • Gustavo Bethancourt
                                                                Gustavo Bethancourt  3 weeks back

                                                                Wouu !! that really helped me even in my 55 Year old, I love the woman God gave me, to whom I have been married almost 30 years. I am so sure that because she put God at first place is the reason that I am so blessed to be called her Husband !!!!

                                                                • NARA SOUZA
                                                                  NARA SOUZA  3 weeks back

                                                                  put legenda in portuguese pls

                                                                  • Michael Trn
                                                                    Michael Trn  3 weeks back

                                                                    This false prophet endorsed dating he is not a representative for God but for the world and the devil.

                                                                    • Jen doe
                                                                      Jen doe  3 weeks back

                                                                      Great video, ty 🙏

                                                                      • To Pazz
                                                                        To Pazz  3 weeks back

                                                                        Love this ✝️💕 Awesome practical wise advice for singles 👏🏼

                                                                        • Anime
                                                                          Anime  3 weeks back

                                                                          Wow, just *_WOW_*

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                                                                            • Elaine Maluleke
                                                                              Elaine Maluleke  3 weeks back

                                                                              “When you do t value something, you tend to not protect it to level that you should... My God! So true! 🙌🏾

                                                                              • Oma Ngozika
                                                                                Oma Ngozika  3 weeks back

                                                                                I NEEDED THIS!!

                                                                                • JT
                                                                                  JT  3 weeks back

                                                                                  Oma Ngozika Girl, you and me both!

                                                                              • Lunar Nightz
                                                                                Lunar Nightz  3 weeks back

                                                                                I think a lot of people need to hear this

                                                                                • Corina Mae Bernardo
                                                                                  Corina Mae Bernardo  3 weeks back

                                                                                  Wow 🙌

                                                                                  • Janet Njambi
                                                                                    Janet Njambi  3 weeks back


                                                                                    • carter lenn
                                                                                      carter lenn  3 weeks back

                                                                                      Wow! This was powerful. And that definition of sin is brilliant.

                                                                                      • Serin Oh
                                                                                        Serin Oh  3 weeks back


                                                                                        priority for a woman should be, "how can i follow this man if he's not first submitted to follow christ"

                                                                                        • Mathapelo Moloi
                                                                                          Mathapelo Moloi  3 weeks back

                                                                                          Tjo 10 seconds in and I'm already dood...tjoooo

                                                                                          • Robert Buzzard
                                                                                            Robert Buzzard  3 weeks back

                                                                                            Great advice THANKS

                                                                                            • B B
                                                                                              B B  3 weeks back

                                                                                              Our value isnt in between our legs sir lmao

                                                                                              • commonconservative
                                                                                                commonconservative  3 weeks back

                                                                                                demons are real , folks..........you don't realize it because your lives are so busy with the daily grind........if you want a spouse from God, I think you need to fully repent, and get rid of the demons.............if you have been a disgusting person for a very long time , be prepared to change a whole heckuva lot.......and be prepared to isolate yourself from all your friends because those bad habits are engrained into them also....demons have a lot of knowledge, [centuries]......they can actually shut down the catholic online youtube and bible project youtube, while still leaving the regular youtube still working.....I am not going to elaborate further......long story....I don't have this all figured out yet