7 Signs He's Just Not That Into You


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  • Mathew Boggs
    Mathew Boggs   2 years back

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    • Angela Taylor
      Angela Taylor  4 months back

      @Kritika Bansal thats me too, with pretty much everyone. maybe I'm just too much of a loner? lol

    • Angela Taylor
      Angela Taylor  4 months back

      @Sharifa Sharifa lol...me too. :'/

    • Jessica Flesher
      Jessica Flesher  9 months back

      Mathew Boggs is there away to have one on one with you ? To ask questions?

    • shana Burch
      shana Burch  9 months back

      Mathew Boggs i need help how do we get advice from you.

    • Tsewang Yangzom
      Tsewang Yangzom  9 months back

      Mathew Boggs omg! my man falls in almost all the seven points. I wonder.. Now, he wants to leave after our child was born recently... I wonder......

  • Mjane vlogs
    Mjane vlogs  5 days back

    I don't like talking to him and his words nothing to me 😅

    • Carrie Malinowski
      Carrie Malinowski  1 weeks back

      What if your husband displays all of these signs?

      • Maria Radeva
        Maria Radeva  1 weeks back

        4.self- consumed, ask no questions
        7. I don't know if he's interested.
        I should definitely go on and cast him aside.

        • Pamela R
          Pamela R  2 weeks back

          You are amazing! NEVER question your intuition. I’m old, and I have had many relationships and it’s always right!!!

          • lamlight2579
            lamlight2579  2 weeks back

            If I am NOT into someone......I DO NOT MAKE ANY LONG EYE CONTACT! I also do not engage in engaging conversation.

            • scorch trials
              scorch trials  2 weeks back

              After listen to all this .. i was like "Yeah Matt its true" but then .. i remember he replied to me . " why are u saying tht ?", " Are you sure im not interested in you ? ", " Its okay if u said like that ", " thanks " . After i said n told him tht what he showed to me wasnt literally an effort its just tht maybe he wants affection so bad so he find someone to fill the emptiness he felt inside his heart 🤷‍♀️ u know . I feel bad after telling him that . But after the conv he never text me or what soooo i dont know . I am sriously confused 😔

              • JoJo hanna
                JoJo hanna  2 weeks back

                Ok, he's clearly not into me. I got it.

                • Karen  Dustin
                  Karen Dustin  2 weeks back

                  I will not call or text a man that I'm not that into. I do not give him any attention because I don't want him to give me any attention, if I'm not interested.

                  • Nina Nickel
                    Nina Nickel  2 weeks back

                    I haven’t dealt with this. I’m sure my haters would love this though. I really don’t pay attention. When a man has to work harder for you they rarely play games

                    • Jennifer Primo
                      Jennifer Primo  2 weeks back

                      The behaviors I display when I’m not into someone are the exact same as his😂😂

                      • nedar giordano
                        nedar giordano  2 weeks back

                        Women are bluffing when they say looks and money dont matter.

                        • Zed m
                          Zed m  3 weeks back

                          I'm pretty straight forward if I'm not interested in a guy but they take it as a challenge and keep trying it's super annoying.

                          • lee yang
                            lee yang  3 weeks back

                            I just stop texting them back lol

                            • Jinrim
                              Jinrim  3 weeks back

                              I agree! When I am not into that somebody, I call that person Brother or always have a chaperone to eat out as friends only. I made sure the man knows he is friend or as a brother and not expecting a romantic relationship. :-)

                              • latortura1986
                                latortura1986  3 weeks back

                                Ignore their texts and limit time and contact with them

                                • Diah Utami
                                  Diah Utami  4 weeks back

                                  Refused his invitation

                                  • Holly Cooper
                                    Holly Cooper  4 weeks back

                                    Things i do when I'm not interested: I don't initiate texts, i reply with short messages, i don't open up, i don't talk about my life or schedule, i don't desire to schedule a date, i am a bit aloof.

                                    • Lucia labajová
                                      Lucia labajová  4 weeks back

                                      When i am not into him....i can speak normally....not as a retard :D you know its hard to be yourself when someone you like is in front of you or near you...ooooh physically its hard...but its funny to see what happen and how our body and mind can react ;)

                                      • Leanette maranga
                                        Leanette maranga  1 months back

                                        thank you,I have an idea

                                        • Susan Samuels
                                          Susan Samuels  1 months back

                                          Thank you

                                          • brenda mcl
                                            brenda mcl  1 months back

                                            Great advice Matt as always. Totally agree with the 7 points. If I don't even bother to look him up on Facebook or bother to look through his profile, I ain't that into him!

                                            • Justine Mfulama
                                              Justine Mfulama  1 months back

                                              This is my favorite channel! Every video is jam-packed with real and practical information!!!

                                              • Jackie Menschausen
                                                Jackie Menschausen  1 months back

                                                If you have to ask, then he is NOT. Haha. Fk him haha

                                                • Ms Nobody
                                                  Ms Nobody  1 months back

                                                  It's Simple Ladies...if a man is treating you the same way as you treat people when you are less interested in them....that should give you the answer of the man is not into you. its not rocket science don't make it seem too complicated.  Here is what I do:  when a man don't bother calling me or texting me for 2 days max.  I walk away and close the door on them forever. If they ever come back I play their game with a winning attitude. Dangle the carrot and run away with that carrot. Leaving them confused and wanting something they will never get, meaning I leave them thinking I want them but never get anything from me at all.  I use the time to my advantage. For Example: I will ask the man to help me install an AC coz its heavy. After he does that I send him home without any pay. No physical contact etc.  I do this to show them how they treated me in the past has consequences. This way they stop calling and hoping. Time wasters do not deserve respect. Any respectable person will never get in your life and break your heart or even your hopes & dreams.  Never let a man break you anyway he can. You are better than that.

                                                  • dodobrain
                                                    dodobrain  1 months back

                                                    He's not that into you or is he just super actually busy watching movies

                                                    • ANNE
                                                      ANNE  2 months back

                                                      When I’m not into someone, I don’t lead them on even though.

                                                      • Phyllis Montoroula
                                                        Phyllis Montoroula  2 months back

                                                        My crush has most of thoses signs and more It makes me happy

                                                        • L0veMe0rDie
                                                          L0veMe0rDie  2 months back

                                                          Plot twist: turns out I'm the asshole. Not the guy I'm dating. Turns out he's pretty perfect. Thanks for this.

                                                          • Jacquelyn Langhein
                                                            Jacquelyn Langhein  2 months back

                                                            Very informative. I am put of the relationship it is 2 years and a 3 months . So now I have room for the right man.

                                                            • ngoc son tran
                                                              ngoc son tran  2 months back

                                                              Normally i will ignore the messages and slowly answer him if im not into, and i dont fully pay attention to, dont look straight to his eyes.

                                                              • ngoc son tran
                                                                ngoc son tran  2 months back

                                                                So valuable for me, thank u😍😍

                                                                • miley bartolome
                                                                  miley bartolome  2 months back

                                                                  replying "lol"

                                                                  • Zinnia Hardy
                                                                    Zinnia Hardy  2 months back

                                                                    He doesn't even reply to my messages and calls. Only when he wants to have sex then he will be constantly calling and texting 🙄

                                                                    • Cat W.
                                                                      Cat W.  2 months back

                                                                      My behaviors include sending mixed signals, pulling away, avoiding running into them (in a small town,) and then ghosting when I figure out he's either a selfish manipulator or has no capability for respect and good treatment of me. Ghosting sounds bad but Iv'e considered it more and it works out better for me (and maybe even them) rather than get into some weird thing where they can act even more lame or try and keep the door open - and then because I am nice, I fall for it all over again. I am ghosting a guy now who I had heard enough about from others and finally concurred.

                                                                      • WIT PAID
                                                                        WIT PAID  2 months back

                                                                        Who's he? Cause I'm not into you...I simply like good music...selave

                                                                        • Spooky Spectre
                                                                          Spooky Spectre  2 months back

                                                                          Hey Matt, just found your channel. Finally, a REAL answer to my situation. You just described my situation to a tee. Good to know exactly what's going on. Now I just need the strength to move on. Clearly hes not into me. Thank you!!! Gonna keep watching this channel 💗 To answer your question, if I'm not into someone I just say so. I dont string people along. Its hurtful and a waste of both your time and theirs.

                                                                          • Indira AMIDŽIĆ
                                                                            Indira AMIDŽIĆ  2 months back

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                                                                            • Ginseng MacKay-Tisbert
                                                                              Ginseng MacKay-Tisbert  3 months back

                                                                              totally needed this right now!!! disappointment city, but dude is def not...

                                                                              to answer questions-
                                                                              when i am not that into someone and get caught in someone before telling them directly (or if i am unsure...)

                                                                              i respond in 1 word or 1 line txt and emails, i dont initiate commumication- only respond, i am not very physical, in small way, brushing shoulders, holding hands, etc.

                                                                              i tend to he really upfront when i am.into someone- direct about it, love touch, initiating date ideas and communication, caring and curious about them... and i say, right up front... but of course... most guys are more attracted to cold women, it seems- shrug-

                                                                              • love connection ally
                                                                                love connection ally  3 months back

                                                                                😭 At 36 i'm still dealing with the stagnant man. I just CAN'T anymore

                                                                                • Ji Li
                                                                                  Ji Li  3 months back

                                                                                  Time to wake up.

                                                                                  • helen 1
                                                                                    helen 1  3 months back

                                                                                    The silent film ideia is amazing

                                                                                    • Lanny Alonzo
                                                                                      Lanny Alonzo  3 months back

                                                                                      A guy I know ticked all 7. ...I'm moving on enough is enough.

                                                                                      • IndieHaj
                                                                                        IndieHaj  3 months back

                                                                                        That is a seriously great list.

                                                                                        • Arii Rowling
                                                                                          Arii Rowling  3 months back

                                                                                          I ignore text messages & phone calls.

                                                                                          • Laura Deman
                                                                                            Laura Deman  3 months back


                                                                                            • Patience Curtis
                                                                                              Patience Curtis  3 months back

                                                                                              There are just so many wild inconsistencies in the dating world it's just not worth the muss and fuss. I am already investing in my retirement home knowing that ship just flat out sailed.👍🏾

                                                                                              • NewFriends&DatingItUp YupYup

                                                                                                ‘He’s distracted” - this describes most men (and women) out there. I’ve noticed a lot of couples aren’t fully present (so and so is on their minds). They don’t understand this is a clear sign they’ve settled (not each other’s dream-mate and that they bore each other - need to ALWAYS bring up so and so in order to liven things up).