Essential Dating Advice For Men: 4 Things Every Man Should Know About Dating Women

  • Published: 01 September 2018
  • The dating advice for men that I provide in this video, will make attracting and dating women so much easier for you from now on.

    You will realize that you can gain control over this area of your life once and for all.

    You will also realize that women really do want to have sex, find love and enjoy companionship, just as much as men do.

    Yet, they go about the attraction and dating process in a different way than men do.

    Once you understand why women behave in the ways that they do, they will no longer frustrate you or confuse you.

    Instead, you will love the fact that women are different to men and will then simply use your superior knowledge of women to easily attract and date women of your choosing.

    In today's video, I explain the following 4 points:

    1. Know that women really do want sex, love and relationships too.
    2. Know that you don't have to take conversations with women so seriously.
    3. Know that trying to avoid seeming awkward, just ends up making you seem awkward.
    4. Know that even if a woman likes you, she will often miss out on sex or a relationship if you don't have the confidence to make a move.

    With point #1, it’s essential that you understand the different way that women go about getting to sex and a relationship, in comparison to men.

    So many guys feel like they are being rejected by a woman, when she is just trying to show him that she’s not an easy target (i.e. so he can then trust her in a relationship), or she is wanting to test his confidence and see if he can maintain his confidence around her, even though she’s not making it 100% obvious that she likes him.

    Women don’t do that because they’re crazy.

    They do it to attract and find the right guy for them.

    As I said above, once you understand why women behave in the ways that they do, you simply use that knowledge to your advantage to enjoy your choice of women.

    Attracting and dating women really is very easy once you understand how it works.

    With point #2, it’s important that you relax and be real when talking to women, rather than putting on an act of being nicer, more formal or more polite than you actually are and want to be.

    When you’re talking to a woman that you want to have sex or a relationship with, she wants to get to know the real you, not a fake version of you.

    When you use the approach to conversations and interactions that I teach, women open up and show you their easy-going, down to earth side.

    It just becomes so damn easy.

    With point #3 and #4, please refer to the video. You will enjoy it, I promise.

    Okay, that’s enough typing for me today.

    If you’d like to learn my step by step method for attracting and dating beautiful women, go to:

    The Flow is my eBook, which is also available as an audiobook and it includes my best conversation starters, attraction techniques, connection techniques and techniques for getting a phone number, kiss, date and sex.

    If you use The Flow method in your dating life with women, you will literally laugh at how easy it is for you from now on.


    Dan Bacon
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Comments • 229

  • gilberto  costillla
    gilberto costillla  2 days back

    This is eye opening

    • Enri P.
      Enri P.  3 days back

      I really wish I had this information 10 years ago. It would have prevented me from getting with a girl who I don't really love, even though she is a very good person... Now that I realize this, I'm in a difficult situation, having to leave her, because I now realize that I'd rather date younger women who I'm really attracted to. 😢

      • Rola Haddad
        Rola Haddad  4 days back

        I like how you speak and oddly enough I am understanding the language from Mars. Ty for this and please continue xxx

        • Daniel Rodriguez
          Daniel Rodriguez  4 days back


          • Bfg Bender
            Bfg Bender  1 months back

            Excellent video.

            • Wes RR
              Wes RR  1 months back

              Get em out!!!! LOL

              • Kyle Rainer
                Kyle Rainer  1 months back

                I wish I could have a good marriage in my life. My circumstances make that shit too risky. I got a cute girl's number not long ago, but I just can't do it. I know I'm not in a good place right now.

                • Andrew Dsouza
                  Andrew Dsouza  1 months back

                  I'm too much of a robot when I talk

                  • Julien Issa
                    Julien Issa  2 months back

                    Great tips ,seems you work hard on your videos

                    • teamgoofy08
                      teamgoofy08  2 months back

                      This video is literally me.... thank you Dan for the great video!!

                      • MambusBambus
                        MambusBambus  2 months back

                        dude you are a genius ! love watching your videos & to learn more about womathematics :D

                        • I'm trippin827
                          I'm trippin827  2 months back

                          You’re a sex machine dan

                          • William Wallace
                            William Wallace  3 months back

                            I like your videos after 10 min i think u speak from my soul. Great man keep your direction. Greets from frankfurt.

                            • Amelia Theressa
                              Amelia Theressa  3 months back

                              Executive assistant😂😂😂😂

                              • Amy Daniels
                                Amy Daniels  3 months back

                                So sad that so few men are listening to you. No men I meet do anything you are teaching. I have given up.

                                • Vishnu K S
                                  Vishnu K S  3 months back

                                  Bro u r awesome!

                                  • Pete Goodman
                                    Pete Goodman  3 months back


                                    • Mercy Grace Jawino
                                      Mercy Grace Jawino  3 months back

                                      Less than half way through the video but I have to say your insight is impressive. And what you said about women dealing with guys who are attracted but don’t do anything about it... so true and it’s hard for our minds to ignore those past experiences when guys talk to us.

                                      • TheCowChicken
                                        TheCowChicken  4 months back

                                        I have a date tomorrow wish me luck

                                        • Izy So Nais
                                          Izy So Nais  4 months back

                                          Dan you a good teacher 😁 The way you go about the roleplay always has me hitting the like button and laughing so fucking hard🤣

                                        • jaipal bisht
                                          jaipal bisht  4 months back

                                          Dan you are fucking genius buddy

                                          • Andrej Vasilevski
                                            Andrej Vasilevski  4 months back

                                            My online father

                                            • Παραρόμυγας Μαλαπέρδας

                                              Dude you're so fucking funny and giving good advices. So glad I found this channel.

                                              • samer mousa
                                                samer mousa  4 months back

                                                You are the best teacher I have ever hade!!!

                                                • gyaneshwar singh
                                                  gyaneshwar singh  4 months back

                                                  This video is so empowering.

                                                  • anil muktavar
                                                    anil muktavar  4 months back

                                                    Nailing it to the point.

                                                    • ndlsumr
                                                      ndlsumr  4 months back

                                                      Dan has a unique ability to articulate key skills succinctly and lucidly that can make us all better men.

                                                      • nohovoko77
                                                        nohovoko77  4 months back

                                                        Why is it that I feel way more comfortable and in control speaking to women in spanish? When I speak english I get nervous and don't even know what to ask or say.. and I love women of all colors.

                                                        • Ko Ko
                                                          Ko Ko  5 months back

                                                          Do you give advice for women too?

                                                          • Torpedoe1
                                                            Torpedoe1  5 months back

                                                            This guy right knows the psyche of women by heart! A pure genius in the male/female dynamics.

                                                            • AlwaysLearning
                                                              AlwaysLearning  5 months back

                                                              Dan Dan the man man!

                                                              • ArticLight
                                                                ArticLight  6 months back

                                                                Dan I love like the blood brother I never had!

                                                                • Miyakutsune
                                                                  Miyakutsune  6 months back

                                                                  What's the best advice I can give my friend who is a 32 year old male.

                                                                  My friends name is Derek, he is 32 year old virgin who due to childhood difficulties, wasn't able to get an education, and because of his childhood he was placed into assisted living as a teen until age 23, age 24 he became fully independent, but lives off ask because he is unable to hold or get a job. He can't get a job because he has issues with understanding and remembering stuff. His kind goes completely blank if he comes under the smallest amount of pressure and causes him to bail to avoid personal complication and confusion. On to0of that he has never really successfully socialized and when I take him out he always says the wrong things and stuff. He was also born with a disorder that stops him from maturing at a very young age. His personality is like that of a 15 year old boy. He is seriously lonely wants a gf, family etc. I feel sorry for him because he has never been kissed, hugged or really even spoken to a girl long as he says the wrong things and is into things most adults sent like cosplay, anime, video games, common, K-pop and so on. And where he lives no one is into that and when I try to tell him to change, he does and does it badly.

                                                                  So how can I help him? A guy with no job, education, social skills or ability to hold them and only. I mean are people like him meant to be alone?

                                                                  • Anthony Vega
                                                                    Anthony Vega  6 months back

                                                                    So I went on 2 dates and the girlfriend said she wanted to go on a third date but she wanted to schedule it and she said she wanted to cancel does she want me to push forward or just stop I'm just guessing probably stop cuz I deleted the text

                                                                    • Sharath P
                                                                      Sharath P  6 months back

                                                                      Dan bro, trust me u r a serious deal my man, I'm starting to like and watch all of ur videos, these teqniqs are like hidden way down which really changes the way if interacting. Good Job again keep it going..

                                                                      • Cyrus Novera
                                                                        Cyrus Novera  6 months back

                                                                        Dan what's your strategy when a woman is playing hard to get? Although you know that she's into you.

                                                                        • Denzel Madison
                                                                          Denzel Madison  7 months back

                                                                          I'm just too formal, I do try by the way but it's who I am. Any ideas on how I can change my situation?

                                                                          • Marcos Alonzo
                                                                            Marcos Alonzo  7 months back

                                                                            Dan, your my digital wingman! Great advice buddy! Any ideas on a first date?

                                                                            • Dan Bacon
                                                                              Dan Bacon   7 months back

                                                                              Hi Marcos - great to meet you. Yes, here are 3 tips to nail a first date: Cheers, Dan

                                                                          • Lavinia Hakwenye
                                                                            Lavinia Hakwenye  7 months back

                                                                            how i wish all men were like you... 😘😘

                                                                            • Stefan Ross
                                                                              Stefan Ross  7 months back

                                                                              ..... Hi Dan! Sure could use your advice:. As you dispel all of this fantastic, profound advice in this video, can all of this information apply to very introverted shy girls who lack confidence and experience? Treat ALL girls the same? I feel as though some of the rules don't apply to very young shy ladies. (I'm relearning dealing with the shy ones)

                                                                              • Dan Bacon
                                                                                Dan Bacon   7 months back

                                                                                Yes. Watch this:

                                                                            • 5ive32
                                                                              5ive32  7 months back

                                                                              Dan's been a valued mentor of mine since 2013, good bloke and he gives great advice. The Modern Man is something that all guys should gravitate towards.Amen

                                                                              • ralroost einsnulldrei
                                                                                ralroost einsnulldrei  7 months back

                                                                                Hey dan, would you do a video on how to deal with those guys who shoehorn their way in between you and the girl? Or the ones who just want to torpedo your chances because theyre insecure twats? I hate those guys.

                                                                                • Stacey Fonseca
                                                                                  Stacey Fonseca  7 months back

                                                                                  I honestly think these stuff should be taught by every parent.

                                                                                  • Damnitguy
                                                                                    Damnitguy  7 months back

                                                                                    Thanks a lot, Dan! You have motivated me to start talking confidently to women again. I kept trying but with no succes, I usually end up being awkward, nervous because my lack of confidence and overly politeness.

                                                                                    I am always myself and I used to take every conversation seriously, but now we know better, don't we?

                                                                                    • TiItplank
                                                                                      TiItplank  7 months back

                                                                                      Me and my gf nearly dont have sex anymore, i made the mistake to talk about it, which made it even worse.
                                                                                      How should i approach the situation? If im confident and try to get her to have sex she always refuses. I dont know how i should act around it. Should i just dont ask for it anymore?

                                                                                      • DNAsGhostzHouze
                                                                                        DNAsGhostzHouze  8 months back

                                                                                        Been watching Dan's vids for awhile. Just walked up to a smoking young blonde lady named Rachel and got her number. Guys this stuff really works, Im living proof.

                                                                                        • Jose Reyna
                                                                                          Jose Reyna  8 months back

                                                                                          Damn I've been doing it the wrong way the whole time.

                                                                                          • Kim Walton
                                                                                            Kim Walton  8 months back

                                                                                            These are good videos to see and learn......women should have there's too....but it helps us....good work Dan