Essential Dating Advice For Men: 4 Things Every Man Should Know About Dating Women

  • Published: 01 September 2018
  • The dating advice for men that I provide in this video, will make attracting and dating women so much easier for you from now on.

    You will realize that you can gain control over this area of your life once and for all.

    You will also realize that women really do want to have sex, find love and enjoy companionship, just as much as men do.

    Yet, they go about the attraction and dating process in a different way than men do.

    Once you understand why women behave in the ways that they do, they will no longer frustrate you or confuse you.

    Instead, you will love the fact that women are different to men and will then simply use your superior knowledge of women to easily attract and date women of your choosing.

    In today's video, I explain the following 4 points:

    1. Know that women really do want sex, love and relationships too.
    2. Know that you don't have to take conversations with women so seriously.
    3. Know that trying to avoid seeming awkward, just ends up making you seem awkward.
    4. Know that even if a woman likes you, she will often miss out on sex or a relationship if you don't have the confidence to make a move.

    With point #1, it’s essential that you understand the different way that women go about getting to sex and a relationship, in comparison to men.

    So many guys feel like they are being rejected by a woman, when she is just trying to show him that she’s not an easy target (i.e. so he can then trust her in a relationship), or she is wanting to test his confidence and see if he can maintain his confidence around her, even though she’s not making it 100% obvious that she likes him.

    Women don’t do that because they’re crazy.

    They do it to attract and find the right guy for them.

    As I said above, once you understand why women behave in the ways that they do, you simply use that knowledge to your advantage to enjoy your choice of women.

    Attracting and dating women really is very easy once you understand how it works.

    With point #2, it’s important that you relax and be real when talking to women, rather than putting on an act of being nicer, more formal or more polite than you actually are and want to be.

    When you’re talking to a woman that you want to have sex or a relationship with, she wants to get to know the real you, not a fake version of you.

    When you use the approach to conversations and interactions that I teach, women open up and show you their easy-going, down to earth side.

    It just becomes so damn easy.

    With point #3 and #4, please refer to the video. You will enjoy it, I promise.

    Okay, that’s enough typing for me today.

    If you’d like to learn my step by step method for attracting and dating beautiful women, go to:

    The Flow is my eBook, which is also available as an audiobook and it includes my best conversation starters, attraction techniques, connection techniques and techniques for getting a phone number, kiss, date and sex.

    If you use The Flow method in your dating life with women, you will literally laugh at how easy it is for you from now on.


    Dan Bacon
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Comments • 127

  • Kristóf Kovács
    Kristóf Kovács  2 days back

    My friend helped me to ask a girl instead of me... I'm thankful. Even thought I went to the friendzone. :D
    5:55 I just said the exact same thing. Looks like I'm learning something. :)
    I find these videos useful, but I think I can stop watching them for now. Or my crush will ask what happened with me? Wait, that's actually not bad, I can make jokes about it.
    She spoke about what kind of panties she weared on her graduation... (???) I said, "Didn't you say you'll show me your graduation clothes?". I can say these random jokes, but wasn't confident about how to go to the next level.
    And again, thanks for the video.

    • Charlene Maeder
      Charlene Maeder  3 days back

      You’re so dead on, Dan! This helps me understand why certain guys are more attractive to me. Love the part at 11:43 and on. In fact, you’re looking good just hypothetically talking about what to say, lol. 😉

      • ZZ Top
        ZZ Top  3 days back


        • Riptorn73
          Riptorn73  3 weeks back

          Dan... I have to say.. you have it locked down my friend.. a lot of these techniques you teach I kinda figured out myself yrs & yrs ago when I was on the ‘scene’ & a lot younger. I’ve been with my wife nearly 20 yrs now married 14.. but unfortunately we’ve recently split.. so watching your vids has really helped me re-realise what I had forgotten over the past 2 decades.. You are correct in everything you say. You have to be confident enough to have a laugh & a joke with/at beautiful girls. Listening to your videos it’s like the dating fear fog is clearing. Thank you. 👊🏻👊🏻

          • Ara Oghlian
            Ara Oghlian  1 months back

            My boy is not only informative but savage.

            • Kanye Legitimately Smiling

              Thanks to you champion the girl who friendzoned me now likes me

              • Keeran D Roberts
                Keeran D Roberts  1 months back

                Step back from my last message. A guy has been talking to the girl via phone etc for a few weeks. The girl laughs a lot and says she feels very comfortable talking to you and would like to meet. You meet and as per my first message, the guy was not the guy in person as the guy on he phone. The girl Says that the meet felt awkward and uncomfortable so does that mean that there is no chance of a second meet? If there is a chance to meet again, how can the guy back to that stage of meeting again?

                • Keeran D Roberts
                  Keeran D Roberts  1 months back

                  Dan. If you end up on a first meet / date and the girl at the end of the meet sends you a message saying that the meet felt awkward and uncomfortable. How can a guy get back to a next meet so the guy can really show himself? Is it a done deal that she does not want to meet again?

                  • Brayan Sanchez
                    Brayan Sanchez  1 months back

                    Dan Bacon, you gave amazing dating advice for guys like me who lack confidence in himself to put himself out there. I want say thank you for sharing.

                    • Verne Fits
                      Verne Fits  1 months back

                      Great advice

                      • User Name
                        User Name  2 months back

                        Dan you are seriously the best dating coach for men on youtube. props to you mate. cheers.

                        • Ryan Ballard
                          Ryan Ballard  2 months back

                          Great stuff! Keep it up

                          • Carlo Piccolo
                            Carlo Piccolo  2 months back

                            These are such great advices! Thanks

                            • Reinier Broer
                              Reinier Broer  2 months back

                              He is a genius, like einstein, but in another way

                              • gilberto  costillla
                                gilberto costillla  2 months back

                                This is eye opening

                                • Enri P.
                                  Enri P.  2 months back

                                  I really wish I had this information 10 years ago. It would have prevented me from getting with a girl who I don't really love, even though she is a very good person... Now that I realize this, I'm in a difficult situation, having to leave her, because I now realize that I'd rather date younger women who I'm really attracted to. 😢

                                  • Rola Haddad
                                    Rola Haddad  2 months back

                                    I like how you speak and oddly enough I am understanding the language from Mars. Ty for this and please continue xxx

                                    • Bfg Bender
                                      Bfg Bender  3 months back

                                      Excellent video.

                                      • Wes RR
                                        Wes RR  3 months back

                                        Get em out!!!! LOL

                                        • Kyle Rainer
                                          Kyle Rainer  3 months back

                                          I wish I could have a good marriage in my life. My circumstances make that shit too risky. I got a cute girl's number not long ago, but I just can't do it. I know I'm not in a good place right now.

                                          • Andrew Dsouza
                                            Andrew Dsouza  3 months back

                                            I'm too much of a robot when I talk

                                            • Julien Issa
                                              Julien Issa  4 months back

                                              Great tips ,seems you work hard on your videos

                                              • teamgoofy08
                                                teamgoofy08  4 months back

                                                This video is literally me.... thank you Dan for the great video!!

                                                • MambusBambus
                                                  MambusBambus  4 months back

                                                  dude you are a genius ! love watching your videos & to learn more about womathematics :D

                                                  • I'm trippin827
                                                    I'm trippin827  4 months back

                                                    You’re a sex machine dan

                                                    • William Wallace
                                                      William Wallace  4 months back

                                                      I like your videos after 10 min i think u speak from my soul. Great man keep your direction. Greets from frankfurt.

                                                      • Amelia Theressa
                                                        Amelia Theressa  5 months back

                                                        Executive assistant😂😂😂😂

                                                        • Amy Daniels
                                                          Amy Daniels  5 months back

                                                          So sad that so few men are listening to you. No men I meet do anything you are teaching. I have given up.

                                                          • Vishnu K S
                                                            Vishnu K S  5 months back

                                                            Bro u r awesome!

                                                            • Pete Goodman
                                                              Pete Goodman  5 months back


                                                              • Mercy Grace Jawino
                                                                Mercy Grace Jawino  5 months back

                                                                Less than half way through the video but I have to say your insight is impressive. And what you said about women dealing with guys who are attracted but don’t do anything about it... so true and it’s hard for our minds to ignore those past experiences when guys talk to us.

                                                                • TheCowChicken
                                                                  TheCowChicken  6 months back

                                                                  I have a date tomorrow wish me luck

                                                                  • Isaac Nais Nabaasa
                                                                    Isaac Nais Nabaasa  6 months back

                                                                    Dan you a good teacher 😁 The way you go about the roleplay always has me hitting the like button and laughing so fucking hard🤣

                                                                  • jaipal bisht
                                                                    jaipal bisht  6 months back

                                                                    Dan you are fucking genius buddy

                                                                    • Andrej Vasilevski
                                                                      Andrej Vasilevski  6 months back

                                                                      My online father

                                                                      • Παραρόμυγας Μαλαπέρδας

                                                                        Dude you're so fucking funny and giving good advices. So glad I found this channel.

                                                                        • samer mousa
                                                                          samer mousa  6 months back

                                                                          You are the best teacher I have ever hade!!!

                                                                          • gyaneshwar singh
                                                                            gyaneshwar singh  6 months back

                                                                            This video is so empowering.

                                                                            • anil muktavar
                                                                              anil muktavar  6 months back

                                                                              Nailing it to the point.

                                                                              • ndlsumr
                                                                                ndlsumr  6 months back

                                                                                Dan has a unique ability to articulate key skills succinctly and lucidly that can make us all better men.

                                                                                • nohovoko77
                                                                                  nohovoko77  6 months back

                                                                                  Why is it that I feel way more comfortable and in control speaking to women in spanish? When I speak english I get nervous and don't even know what to ask or say.. and I love women of all colors.

                                                                                  • Ko Ko
                                                                                    Ko Ko  6 months back

                                                                                    Do you give advice for women too?

                                                                                    • Torpedoe1
                                                                                      Torpedoe1  6 months back

                                                                                      This guy right knows the psyche of women by heart! A pure genius in the male/female dynamics.

                                                                                      • AlwaysLearning
                                                                                        AlwaysLearning  7 months back

                                                                                        Dan Dan the man man!

                                                                                        • ArticLight
                                                                                          ArticLight  8 months back

                                                                                          Dan I love like the blood brother I never had!

                                                                                          • Miyakutsune
                                                                                            Miyakutsune  8 months back

                                                                                            What's the best advice I can give my friend who is a 32 year old male.

                                                                                            My friends name is Derek, he is 32 year old virgin who due to childhood difficulties, wasn't able to get an education, and because of his childhood he was placed into assisted living as a teen until age 23, age 24 he became fully independent, but lives off ask because he is unable to hold or get a job. He can't get a job because he has issues with understanding and remembering stuff. His kind goes completely blank if he comes under the smallest amount of pressure and causes him to bail to avoid personal complication and confusion. On to0of that he has never really successfully socialized and when I take him out he always says the wrong things and stuff. He was also born with a disorder that stops him from maturing at a very young age. His personality is like that of a 15 year old boy. He is seriously lonely wants a gf, family etc. I feel sorry for him because he has never been kissed, hugged or really even spoken to a girl long as he says the wrong things and is into things most adults sent like cosplay, anime, video games, common, K-pop and so on. And where he lives no one is into that and when I try to tell him to change, he does and does it badly.

                                                                                            So how can I help him? A guy with no job, education, social skills or ability to hold them and only. I mean are people like him meant to be alone?

                                                                                            • Anthony Vega
                                                                                              Anthony Vega  8 months back

                                                                                              So I went on 2 dates and the girlfriend said she wanted to go on a third date but she wanted to schedule it and she said she wanted to cancel does she want me to push forward or just stop I'm just guessing probably stop cuz I deleted the text

                                                                                              • Sharath P
                                                                                                Sharath P  8 months back

                                                                                                Dan bro, trust me u r a serious deal my man, I'm starting to like and watch all of ur videos, these teqniqs are like hidden way down which really changes the way if interacting. Good Job again keep it going..